The home my husband and I lived in the last 2.5 years of our marriage was owned by his parents. (against my better judgement...but it is a long story that I do not need to go into for the sake of this thread.)
On Memorial day of 2007, I found myself in the sad position of having to call the police due to a domestic violence situation for me and my children. Upon showing up, the police made my husband pack up some things and leave the home.
Three days later there was a knock at my door from a sherrifs officer presenting me with a summons to appear in court...I was being legally evicted.
The court date was set for two about two weeks from then, and I thought for certain once the magistrate heard the circumstances of what happened that he could clearly see that I was being retaliated against and they could not make me and my children leave that home until we had someplace else to go.
I was wrong. Not only did they find in favor of my father-in-law, but they made the thirty day eviction notice retroactive, so that I was only left with less than two weeks to find someplace to live, find the money to get utilities hooked up, pay first months rent etc. I was a stay at home mother....was not likely going to pull this off without some serious help.
The church I was attending at the time knew fully what I had been facing. They knew about the court date, they knew the results of that court date. I was offered no help. I asked for help.
The results, my children and I ended up homeless.
I packed up whatever clothes I could. Blankets, photos, and few bags of non perishable groceries and we lived out of our car for 9 days.
And just to drive this point home a bit more.....my former father-in-law/mother-in-law wear the banner of christian quite loudy and proudly. :/
So yes, I can tell you from personal experience that this sort of thing does fly today. It is recognized, acknowledged and looked over and allowed to continue.
Knowing you, this is not the type of answer you wanted for this thread. But I guess until you walk in someone elses shoes, you never fully know what they have endured in their life and don't know why they feel more passionatly about some things than they do about others.