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Really interesting. I haven't dated a Christian woman since late 2008. I probably dated anywhere from 5-9 off the top of my head from 2005-2008. The group I attended for years imploded just 8 months later. I devoted myself to dating worldly women. It became a massive nightmare fast. God opened the door for resolvable chaos. So I slammed the door shut on worldy women.
Truthfully, the craziest part is I'm in my biggest drought with dating Christian women since I started in 2005. I'm on the fast lane to 3 years. Fact is... I'm stronger than ever with women, self-confidence, knowledge and experience. Far superior to where I was when opportunity was available left and right.
So the true problem is christian group availabilty. Everyone got married and went there seperate ways in 2009.
Recently, I found myself search google for local groups. I found one. They had a bible study... at someone's house. I got invited out. When I arrived late one night.. I saw about 2 cars parked there. I literally sat in my car for 20 minutes. I didn't stand out because all the lots were filled with cars to other houses so it wasn't suspect for me to look like I was in stakeout.
Seeing as how I'd yet to attend the church, meet the people at church. I spoke to the Pastor's wife who invited me out. I had found it quite odd just taking part in a home bible study amongst people I frankly didnt know. Had the group been large I would've entered. So after no further cars arrived.. I drove off. Minutes later down the street I passed the church they were from and it was crazy small. I never did attend.
I promised myself years ago never to start attending groups out of loniless, bordem or last ditch desperation. It just starts you off on a bad leg in my view. Start from a position of strength I always say. I sort of felt like I loser, going there and again had the group been large I could've blended in. A 2-5 person group ain't my cup of tea.
I always say you can meet God anywhere, meet Christians at any church, praise and worship anytime, read the bible anytime but as a single a place with date options is the most ideal church to spend your single years.
My point for writing is I'm praying for God to do what he did for me in 2005 and again from 2006-08... to please open up the opportunities for me to fellowship with fellow young adults. This will allow me new christians friends as well as dating options.. now some woman will probably reply saying looking for options is wrong.. well that's your opinion. I say know everyone well... and amongst numerous females I reserve the right to pick and choose.. and at a given time select whom I want to truly dedicate myself too. That's why I want options.. so I can pick well and not have to settle or overhype a woman who's not worth it.
Truthfully, the craziest part is I'm in my biggest drought with dating Christian women since I started in 2005. I'm on the fast lane to 3 years. Fact is... I'm stronger than ever with women, self-confidence, knowledge and experience. Far superior to where I was when opportunity was available left and right.
So the true problem is christian group availabilty. Everyone got married and went there seperate ways in 2009.
Recently, I found myself search google for local groups. I found one. They had a bible study... at someone's house. I got invited out. When I arrived late one night.. I saw about 2 cars parked there. I literally sat in my car for 20 minutes. I didn't stand out because all the lots were filled with cars to other houses so it wasn't suspect for me to look like I was in stakeout.
Seeing as how I'd yet to attend the church, meet the people at church. I spoke to the Pastor's wife who invited me out. I had found it quite odd just taking part in a home bible study amongst people I frankly didnt know. Had the group been large I would've entered. So after no further cars arrived.. I drove off. Minutes later down the street I passed the church they were from and it was crazy small. I never did attend.
I promised myself years ago never to start attending groups out of loniless, bordem or last ditch desperation. It just starts you off on a bad leg in my view. Start from a position of strength I always say. I sort of felt like I loser, going there and again had the group been large I could've blended in. A 2-5 person group ain't my cup of tea.
I always say you can meet God anywhere, meet Christians at any church, praise and worship anytime, read the bible anytime but as a single a place with date options is the most ideal church to spend your single years.
My point for writing is I'm praying for God to do what he did for me in 2005 and again from 2006-08... to please open up the opportunities for me to fellowship with fellow young adults. This will allow me new christians friends as well as dating options.. now some woman will probably reply saying looking for options is wrong.. well that's your opinion. I say know everyone well... and amongst numerous females I reserve the right to pick and choose.. and at a given time select whom I want to truly dedicate myself too. That's why I want options.. so I can pick well and not have to settle or overhype a woman who's not worth it.
