NOOOO ITS NOT TRUE!!!

[ypineda]

I FEEL SO BETRAYED BY GOD!!!! IM SO MAD WITH HIM AND IF THAT MAKES ME A BAD PERSON THAN SO BE IT!!! I SWEAR ON EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE THAT I HAVE TRIED TO MAKE GOOD DICISIONS SMART DICISIONS AND DEVOTE MY LIFE TO GOD!!!! BUT IVE FALLEN INTO DEPRESSION!!!! IM GETTING THROWN BAD THINGS ONE AFTER THE OTHER!!! I CANT CATCH A BREAK!!! IMMM SOOO MAAD!!! GOD KNOWS WHERE MY INTENSIONS HAVE BEEN AND I HAVE DEDICATED EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE TO HIM BUT ITS NOT TRUE THAT GOD GIVES U WHAT U ASK FOR!!! I ASKED FOR OOOONNNEEE THING AND INSTEAD OF RECIEVING WHAT I ASKED FOR IM GETTING BAD THINGS THROWN AT ME!!!!

LET ME EXPLAIN A LITTLE MORE CLEARLY.... I MARRIED MY HUSBAND KNOWING THAT HE HAS ANOTHER SON AND IM OK WITH THE KID AND EVERYTHING BUT THE MOM IS JUST TOOOOOO MUCH DRAMA. AT FIRST I WOULD DEFEND MYSELF AND SAY THINGS BACK BUT THEN I PROMISED TO GOD THAT I WOULDNT DO THAT ANYMORE AND I WOULD JUST LET HER SAY WHAT SHE WANTED AND NOT MAKE ANYTHING OF IT!!!! MY MOTHER IN LAW AND SISTERS INLAW ALL HAVE HER ON THEIR FACE BOOK AND SO I DECIDED TO DELETE MINE BECAUSE I REALLY DIDNT WANT TO SEE HER OR JUST ANY PROBLEMS. ALL BECAUSE I KNOW THAT EVERYTIMES PROBLEMS START I END UP BEING MAD AT MY HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE SINCE I NOW HAVE A SON WITH MY HUSBAND.

SO I ASKED GOD TO PLEASE HELP ME AVOID ANY POSSIBLE SITUATION THAT HAD TO DO WITH HER... WHEN ITS ABOUT MY HUSBANDS SON I CAN TOLERATE IT BUT WHEN ITS PERSONAL I HATE IT. IVE HAD PROBLEMS WITH MY INLAWS FOR TALKING BAD ABOUT ME TO HER AND I FINALLY TOLD GOD I DIDNT CARE IF THEY TALKED TO HER FOR THAT REASON I DELETED MY FACEBOOK BECAUSE AS MUCH AS I DONT CARE IF THEY TALK I JUST DONT WANT TO COME ACROSS THOSE CONVERSATIONS.

NOW LIVING WITH MY MOTHER IN LAW I ASKED MY SISTER IN LAW IF SHE HAD LINE PAPER AND WHEN SHE GAVE ME SOME SHE GOT IT FROM A BINDER THAT HAS A PICTURE OF MY HUSBAND WITH HIS BBY MOMMA!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH I MEAN IT DOESNT SOUND AS BAD BUT REALLY THERES SO MUCH MORE TO WHY I FEEL THIS WAY!!! I JUST DONT FEEL LIKE I CAN COUNT ON GOD ANYMORE :'(

AT THIS POINT IM HOPELESS!!

 

[Adrianv125]

Job 2:10 (New King James Version)
10 But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips

If you aren't really a Christian then this is very expectable from your lips.
BUT!, If you truly are a follower of Christ and have asked Him to do His will in your life then I have to rebuke you.
HOW DARE YOU QUESTION OUR LORD?? How dare you whine to Him and confess to everyone you won't trust Him anymore???
Are you wiser than Him?? Do you know the past and the present and the future??? Are you able to see everybody's hearts???
Are you able to forgive sin and to be a perfect judge to judge every living thing??? If you can do all these things then you are right in what you say!!!
But if you are not, How dare you say to God that you won't trust Him anymore!!! Can one who is perfect and who loved you so much that He gave His only Begotten son want the worst for you??? Don't you realize that ALL human beings have the potential to hurt you and to betray you and to hate you???
THAT is the reason we don't put our trust and faith on people!!! That is Why we place our entire faith and trust and love in JESUS CHRIST!! Because He loves us with an unfailing love!!! Jesus was neglected and crucified by those who He came to save, and still He asked the father to forgive them because they did not know what they were doing!!! DON'T GIVE THE ENEMY A CHANCE TO BLASPHEME THE NAME OF GOD!!! He is faithful and if you really lay your life down in His will He will lead you to the path of life and righteousness!!!

If you have truly trusted in God before you must really analyze your relationship with Him.

 

[ypineda]

ITS EASIER SAID THAN DONE. I KNOW I SHOULDNT BE ANGRY AT GOD. BUT THEIRS TIMES WHEN I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH MY EMOTIONS. LIFE IS HARD!! AND PEOPLE ARE HARSHH!!! DONT U THINK I WISH WE COULD ALL LIVE IN PEACE!!!!? I TRY SO HARD NOT TO FALL INTO TEMPTATION AND I DONT I KEEP EVERYTHING TO MYSELF. I DONT TRY TO MAKE BAD CHOICES OR TO THINK BAD ABOUT PEOPLE BUT IT JUST COMES ON ITS OWN. MY THOUGHTS GET OUT OF MY CONTROL AND I DON T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM

Job 2:10 (New King James Version)
10 But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips

If you aren't really a Christian then this is very expectable from your lips.
BUT!, If you truly are a follower of Christ and have asked Him to do His will in your life then I have to rebuke you.
HOW DARE YOU QUESTION OUR LORD?? How dare you whine to Him and confess to everyone you won't trust Him anymore???
Are you wiser than Him?? Do you know the past and the present and the future??? Are you able to see everybody's hearts???
Are you able to forgive sin and to be a perfect judge to judge every living thing??? If you can do all these things then you are right in what you say!!!
But if you are not, How dare you say to God that you won't trust Him anymore!!! Can one who is perfect and who loved you so much that He gave His only Begotten son want the worst for you??? Don't you realize that ALL human beings have the potential to hurt you and to betray you and to hate you???
THAT is the reason we don't put our trust and faith on people!!! That is Why we place our entire faith and trust and love in JESUS CHRIST!! Because He loves us with an unfailing love!!! Jesus was neglected and crucified by those who He came to save, and still He asked the father to forgive them because they did not know what they were doing!!! DON'T GIVE THE ENEMY A CHANCE TO BLASPHEME THE NAME OF GOD!!! He is faithful and if you really lay your life down in His will He will lead you to the path of life and righteousness!!!

If you have truly trusted in God before you must really analyze your relationship with Him.

 

[Adrianv125]

SISTER DON'T LOSE IT!! Remember that our hearts are deceitful above all things and desperately wicked Jeremiah 17:9.

Colossians 3:2-3 (New King James Version)
2 Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. 3 For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.

John 16:33 (New King James Version)
33 These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will[a] have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

Hebrews 4:14-15 (New King James Version)
Our Compassionate High Priest
14 Seeing then that we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. 15 For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.

Jesus understands COMPLETELY what you are going through!! and He knows how to get you through!!! Seek Him, He is the answer!!! Remember people will fail us, but HE WON'T. As Hard and impossible it may seem to you right now, HE WON'T FAIL YOU EVER!!!! Seek Him!! That's all I can say!! Don't stop praying, keep reading His word! He will make everything clear!!!

 

[Adrianv125]

Romans 8

Free from Indwelling Sin

1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus,[a] who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death. 3 For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh, God did by sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, on account of sin: He condemned sin in the flesh, 4 that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. 5 For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. 6 For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. 7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be. 8 So then, those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
9 But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His. 10 And if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. 11 But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you.
Sonship Through the Spirit


12 Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. 13 For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. 14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God. 15 For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father.” 16 The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.
From Suffering to Glory


18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. 19 For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God. 20 For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope; 21 because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. 22 For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now. 23 Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body. 24 For we were saved in this hope, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? 25 But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.
26 Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. 27 Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God.
28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. 29 For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. 30 Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified.
God’s Everlasting Love


31 What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? 33 Who shall bring a charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. 34 Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written:


“ For Your sake we are killed all day long;
We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.”[c]

37 Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. 38 For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, 39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Footnotes:

 

[ypineda]

THANK YOU SO MUCH. I NEEDED THAT I FEEL A LOT BETTER!! GOD BLESS YOU!

 

[Adrianv125]

Hebrews 4:12 (New King James Version)
12 For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

PRAISE GOD!!!

Sister we are running a race that can end any second, because we don't know when our life will be taken away. Keep running til the end, God's Holy Spirit will empower you through it and in it all!!!

 

[Thomas60]

What do you want me to say?

Given that there's a diametrically positioned mother-in-law, why hide from it, is she affecting your relationships?, If you can't cure something at least establish some barriers. How is this lady's agenda getting to you; thats not a rhetorical question, through friends?, because your avoidance makes you feel she controls your life?, does it all have to be about escape?

sorry its not a feel-y reply, but there's room for different styles of talk I think.

 

[Adrianv125]

Don't listen to men's advice sister, LISTEN TO GOD!

 

[Thomas60]

Yes, because all other advice couldn't possibly be useful towards finding those answers

 

[Adrianv125]

I've seen people healed from depression, anxiety, cancer, anemia, addiction, aggressive behavior, migraines, and many other things healed and answered through prayer and through the word of God, that is why I trust Him and exhort others to trust Him

 

[Ramon]

Wow. I hope the Lord will give me right words for you:

Sarah. Sarah was barren, and because she was barren she thought that it was from the Lord to give her servant to Abraham to bear a child. Once Ishmael was conceived Haggar became bitter with Sarah. Abraham love Ishmael, because it is his son, though his heart was with Sarah.

As Ishmael grew Sarah became more at ends with Haggar. But the Lord promised Sarah a child, and she laughed. As faithful as she was to Abraham, she had hardly shown much faithfulness to God. And yet, God kept his promise to her. Sarah bore a Son and called his name Isaac(laughter).

And as Isaac grew the strife between the two women became more bitter. But Abraham loved BOTH of his sons, and was not willing to give any of them up. These women did not fight over the heart of Abraham, but over the blessings of Abraham.

No matter how much the women strove, Abraham could not forsake his love for his sons. He could not prefer one over the other. He could not forsake Ishmael.

My friend please, have peace. May Jesus bless you.

 

[ypineda]

thank you all. i trust god and take all ur guys advise into consideration. what i do believe is that sometimes god sends our brothers and sisters tohelp us too.. so ill take all the positive feedback YES THIS GIRL LOOKS FOR ME BEHIND ROCKS just to make our relationship imposible but i must trust that god will take my vengeance for me and he'll deal with her the best way he knows how. im leaving things in his hands now. god bless all of u

 

[princessbella]

ypineda, can i just say that in many ways i totaly understand how you are feeling and from the outside its easy for people to say things like the joy of the lord is your strength, and its not your right to be angry at what your going through, goods got a plan to build your character through it, your going through it for a reason and the situation, your in and that you can see no way out...THe psalms is full of david feeling god had forsaken him and left him , same with job, yeah they both questioned God, thats how they were feeling, and most people going through situations at the time , whether depresion , sickness, oppresion bad situations would gladly have god take it way than think that gods got a plan or purpose, or ive just got to bear the cross of suffering... But the truth is its ok for you to feel despair and anger and some biterness its a natural emotion , and im sure there are many people whove felt like you , just dont let it get so deep rooted that you cut God out , God loves you very much, you are his precious princess and he understands

psalm 139 i find awsome when im feeling like this , because no mater how david was feeling in the end he could still say this because he know God loved him even through the trials of life and his biggest mistakes

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Psalm 139

A David Psalm

1-6 God, investigate my life; get all the facts firsthand.
I'm an open book to you;
even from a distance, you know what I'm thinking.
You know when I leave and when I get back;
I'm never out of your sight.
You know everything I'm going to say
before I start the first sentence.
I look behind me and you're there,
then up ahead and you're there, too—
your reassuring presence, coming and going.
This is too much, too wonderful—
I can't take it all in!

7-12 Is there anyplace I can go to avoid your Spirit?
to be out of your sight?
If I climb to the sky, you're there!
If I go underground, you're there!
If I flew on morning's wings
to the far western horizon,
You'd find me in a minute—
you're already there waiting!
Then I said to myself, "Oh, he even sees me in the dark!
At night I'm immersed in the light!"
It's a fact: darkness isn't dark to you;
night and day, darkness and light, they're all the same to you.

13-16 Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out;
you formed me in my mother's womb.
I thank you, High God—you're breathtaking!
Body and soul, I am marvelously made!
I worship in adoration—what a creation!
You know me inside and out,
you know every bone in my body;
You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit,
how I was sculpted from nothing into something.
Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth;
all the stages of my life were spread out before you,
The days of my life all prepared
before I'd even lived one day.

17-22 Your thoughts—how rare, how beautiful!
God, I'll never comprehend them!
I couldn't even begin to count them—
any more than I could count the sand of the sea.

 

[Aqua_Girl09]

i have a little story.

my best friend. she grew up and mexico but came to live in the states because her dad works here.

her dad was gone often for days at a time to "work" eventually the family found out that he had a whole other family that he was taking care of.

the other woman hates his "still" wife.

he comes to visit his first family sometimes on sundays for a little while. the mother works at wallmart so she can barely support her family and has to rely on this man who put another family before them to help pay the bills.

all the while they accept him for his short comings and those Sundays that he does visit they act like hes a dad thats there everyday.

I'm not saying that you have to be this dedicated (i woulda shot him lol jk jk) but this is the kinda life God asks of us. they're hoping that by showing their dad this kind of love he will one day see God as well.

 

[willslo77]

I also believe that God has been a silent idol. and in facct am denouncing my faith. How dare people givee me scripts out of the bible like all the answers lie there in . that is too darn easy to do. there are no answrs that easy. Im with you sister...

 

[trust_in_the_name]

I also believe that God has been a silent idol. and in facct am denouncing my faith. How dare people givee me scripts out of the bible like all the answers lie there in . that is too darn easy to do. there are no answrs that easy. Im with you sister...

5 "A sower went out to sow his seed. ... (Luke 8:5)

6 Some fell on rock; and as soon as it sprang up, it withered away because it lacked moisture. (Luke 8:6)

13 But the ones on the rock are those who, when they hear, receive the word with joy; and these have no root, who believe for a while and in time of temptation fall away. (Luke 8:13)

6 If anyone does not abide in Me, he is cast out as a branch and is withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned. (John 15:6)

13 But he who endures to the end shall be saved. (Matthew 24:13)

30 There is no wisdom or understanding Or counsel against the Lord. (Proverbs 21:30)

 

[zeroturbulence]

I FEEL SO BETRAYED BY GOD!!!! IM SO MAD WITH HIM AND IF THAT MAKES ME A BAD PERSON THAN SO BE IT!!! I SWEAR ON EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE THAT I HAVE TRIED TO MAKE GOOD DICISIONS SMART DICISIONS AND DEVOTE MY LIFE TO GOD!!!! BUT IVE FALLEN INTO DEPRESSION!!!! IM GETTING THROWN BAD THINGS ONE AFTER THE OTHER!!! I CANT CATCH A BREAK!!! IMMM SOOO MAAD!!! GOD KNOWS WHERE MY INTENSIONS HAVE BEEN AND I HAVE DEDICATED EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE TO HIM BUT ITS NOT TRUE THAT GOD GIVES U WHAT U ASK FOR!!! I ASKED FOR OOOONNNEEE THING AND INSTEAD OF RECIEVING WHAT I ASKED FOR IM GETTING BAD THINGS THROWN AT ME!!!!

LET ME EXPLAIN A LITTLE MORE CLEARLY.... I MARRIED MY HUSBAND KNOWING THAT HE HAS ANOTHER SON AND IM OK WITH THE KID AND EVERYTHING BUT THE MOM IS JUST TOOOOOO MUCH DRAMA. AT FIRST I WOULD DEFEND MYSELF AND SAY THINGS BACK BUT THEN I PROMISED TO GOD THAT I WOULDNT DO THAT ANYMORE AND I WOULD JUST LET HER SAY WHAT SHE WANTED AND NOT MAKE ANYTHING OF IT!!!! MY MOTHER IN LAW AND SISTERS INLAW ALL HAVE HER ON THEIR FACE BOOK AND SO I DECIDED TO DELETE MINE BECAUSE I REALLY DIDNT WANT TO SEE HER OR JUST ANY PROBLEMS. ALL BECAUSE I KNOW THAT EVERYTIMES PROBLEMS START I END UP BEING MAD AT MY HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE SINCE I NOW HAVE A SON WITH MY HUSBAND.

SO I ASKED GOD TO PLEASE HELP ME AVOID ANY POSSIBLE SITUATION THAT HAD TO DO WITH HER... WHEN ITS ABOUT MY HUSBANDS SON I CAN TOLERATE IT BUT WHEN ITS PERSONAL I HATE IT. IVE HAD PROBLEMS WITH MY INLAWS FOR TALKING BAD ABOUT ME TO HER AND I FINALLY TOLD GOD I DIDNT CARE IF THEY TALKED TO HER FOR THAT REASON I DELETED MY FACEBOOK BECAUSE AS MUCH AS I DONT CARE IF THEY TALK I JUST DONT WANT TO COME ACROSS THOSE CONVERSATIONS.

NOW LIVING WITH MY MOTHER IN LAW I ASKED MY SISTER IN LAW IF SHE HAD LINE PAPER AND WHEN SHE GAVE ME SOME SHE GOT IT FROM A BINDER THAT HAS A PICTURE OF MY HUSBAND WITH HIS BBY MOMMA!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH I MEAN IT DOESNT SOUND AS BAD BUT REALLY THERES SO MUCH MORE TO WHY I FEEL THIS WAY!!! I JUST DONT FEEL LIKE I CAN COUNT ON GOD ANYMORE :'(

AT THIS POINT IM HOPELESS!!

I think God wants you to love her instead of trying to avoid her. Maybe there is something about her that God wants to reveal to you because it might change your mind about how u see her.

 

[Ugly]

I'm sorry. You chose to marry a man who had a child with another woman previously & are angry at God for having to deal with her? This isn't an issue about God, this is called real life. You made a choice to involve yourself with someone. You knew he had a kid & that the kids mother was still active in their lives. Now you want to blame God for it becoming a mess? You put yourself in a situation & now you expect God to make it all better? Fact is God can't really do anything without going against free will. He can't force this woman to change. All you can do now is pray for her, maybe that she'll get saved & stop acting how she is. And pray for yourself that you can learn how to deal properly with the situation you've put yourself into.

People need to realize when you marry, you don't just join with one person.. you join a whole family, perhaps new friends... & you always marry that persons past, as well. And as result you will have to deal with all of them in your marriage.

 

[HoneyDew]

Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.

Don't focus on the situation ...keep your focus on God and when you pray about it speak the word of God, for it is the anointing the destroys the yoke.
Isaiah 10:27 And it shall come to pass in that day, that his burden shall be taken away from off thy shoulder, and his yoke from off thy neck, and the yoke shall be destroyed because of the anointing.

Ask Gods forgiveness for your behavior towards Him and anything that you have done that was contrary to His word.
You may not like this but ask your husband and inlaws for their forgiveness too if you have done a wrong towards them.You forgive also, this frees Gods hands to move on your behalf.

We get discouraged sometimes when God doesn't move when we want Him to. When we are living for Him he will move on our behalf. We cannot control what others do ....their thoughts, actions or motives but we can control ours. Just make sure your slate is clean before God.

Romans 12:17-21
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

Things become hard when we want things OUR way and OUR timing, not Gods way and timing. As far as your inlaws, you may not like that they are friendly towards her but it is good that they are for the childs sake. Whatever you feed that is what will grow and have power. Don't feed the lies the gossip in so doing you are giving the negativity power. Stay in the Word of God and feed your spirit.

You are figting this battle in the natural fight in the spirit. You a cannot fight a spiritual warfare carnally. Meaning read the Word of God, fast and pray with the right motives..

God has not forgotten you.
Matthew 6:26 Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?

Things will get better....be encouraged. God Bless You.