Tell me when I am wrong please

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God has blessed me with a very unique gift than blessed me even more by providing me with an even more unique job to use my gift to help others see and feel the peace and love of God for themselves. Than to share the good news of His Son Jesus Christ. Than explain Jesus Christ gave Himself as a sacrifice for all that would accept and believe in Him . I was very good at my job
But than something very bad and wrong happened and I took it badly - I went To God in every way I prayed, went into my Bible talked to my teachers prayed some more but my anger still consumed me and I started to change I become short tempered and mean.. but I didn't know I had a bad attitude and had no idea how bad it was affecting my job or my life. Than me and me bad attitude went to far and got the attention of not a friend and I was not politely informed everything I was and had been doing wrong. It was only than I was able to look back and see what I had become.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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I have no idea what's going on. Your story is very vague and nebulous. I have to ask you to clarify if you want advice.
And you might want to use the word then, rather than, "than". I'm not a grammar Nazi nor do I wish to be. I'm just throwing it out there to help you out.
 

Adstar

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Yes your account is so vague one has nothing solid to attempt to answer..

But anyway if you post a doctrine or an interpretation of scripture in here that people disagree with you can be assured someone will post a reply informing you of the nature of their opposition towards what ever it is you are preaching..
 
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I wrote what I did earlier not to excuse but try to explain sometimes I get ahead of myself and do not stop to check myself.
If this has happened and I have posted anything that came out rude or mean . Please accept my apologies. I will do everything I can to improve so I do not do it again .
Please help me to help myself become the person God made me to be.. tell me when I have said or done something wrong. I want to know what the correct answer is or how I could have handled things in a different way. Sometimes bad things happen because good people did nothing I don't want to be that bad thing a
 

Subhumanoidal

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I wrote what I did earlier not to excuse but try to explain sometimes I get ahead of myself and do not stop to check myself.
If this has happened and I have posted anything that came out rude or mean . Please accept my apologies. I will do everything I can to improve so I do not do it again .
Please help me to help myself become the person God made me to be.. tell me when I have said or done something wrong. I want to know what the correct answer is or how I could have handled things in a different way. Sometimes bad things happen because good people did nothing I don't want to be that bad thing a
No ones saying you did anything wrong. It's simply that your explanation was not clear. And as a result it's difficult for anyone to help you, since they aren't understanding what you're saying.
 

Relic

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Love the Lord your heart and your neighbor as yourself. This is the one commandment of Jesus.

You have posted all you have accomplished which is admirable. But nowhere did you say
God, I love you. We can go on and on doing things even good things but if we don't do them
with the love of God being first in you heart, all is for nothing. You are living in the flesh and
that means Christ is in your mind and not your heart. Instead of that, you need to surrender
to God's will and not your own will. That way you will become a new creation. So how to go
about that, I will post below.

2Corinthians 5:17 and following.

16 So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:[a] The old has gone, the new is here! 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. 20 We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. 21 God made him who had no sin to be sin[b] for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

So when you surrender to Christ, you will be living in the Spirit and not the flesh. through a prayer
routine you will become all in God first. Means God is in you and you are in Him. At that point
you will have an intimate relationship with Him. That is such a joyful lifestyle you will never go
back because there will be nothing to go back to. You will be living in the love of God and not
in worldly things.
you can
 

p_rehbein

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God has blessed me with a very unique gift than blessed me even more by providing me with an even more unique job to use my gift to help others see and feel the peace and love of God for themselves. Than to share the good news of His Son Jesus Christ. Than explain Jesus Christ gave Himself as a sacrifice for all that would accept and believe in Him . I was very good at my job
But than something very bad and wrong happened and I took it badly - I went To God in every way I prayed, went into my Bible talked to my teachers prayed some more but my anger still consumed me and I started to change I become short tempered and mean.. but I didn't know I had a bad attitude and had no idea how bad it was affecting my job or my life. Than me and me bad attitude went to far and got the attention of not a friend and I was not politely informed everything I was and had been doing wrong. It was only than I was able to look back and see what I had become.
Regarding the Title of the OP only:

Ok, Your wrong...........there, you have been told.

Regarding the OP itself, it is vague and hard to relate to any one thing. Just as a knee jerk reaction to reading it, I'd say your "wrong" was your lack of faith.........take it for what it's worth
 

Lanolin

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well pride can rear its ugly head anytime even 'spiritual pride' as Job found out.
Job was adament he himself had done nothing wrong and then started boasting about just how good he was. Thats where he went wrong....cos nobody is really that good except God.

we didnt make the universe....God did!
 
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Thank you everyone for your feedback and although I was vague, every reply is very useful. What I call unique about myself is usually referred to as a mental disability. , My believe in Jesus Christ and my faith in God my Father who sent Him is full and complete because He is all I have left . I really don't have a choice but to know He loves me
 

shittim

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I speak health and healing over your body in Jesus name.
I speak to this spirit of disability to leave and not return, in Jesus name.
Bless you in Jesus name.
 
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well pride can rear its ugly head anytime even 'spiritual pride' as Job found out.
Job was adament he himself had done nothing wrong and then started boasting about just how good he was. Thats where he went wrong....cos nobody is really that good except God.

we didnt make the universe....God did!
Job wasn’t wrong about his self analysis. He was righteous on every account, stated by God. His error is thinking anybody is significant. We are ants in the eyes of God, maybe less than ants. If He feels like stepping on us, that’s His privilege. That’s why we need to be so greatful of His mercy. We can’t fathom how great God is, so we need to consider how minut we are. We are dust.
 
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Thank you everyone for your feedback and although I was vague, every reply is very useful. What I call unique about myself is usually referred to as a mental disability. , My believe in Jesus Christ and my faith in God my Father who sent Him is full and complete because He is all I have left . I really don't have a choice but to know He loves me
I know this thread was started as a humble invitation for rebuke. Most people missed that. I applaud your desire for correction. If it’s criticism you’re after, people here are well practised. They even critiqued your post on how to ask for correction. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s sounds like you once were very happy. I know you were vague on purpose. If I may ask, why do you consider a mental disorder a gift? I’m sure the more time you spend here you will find relationships that strengthen your mind and spirit. Be blessed.
 

shittim

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We cannot be as dust to Him as He gave His only begotten Son for each of us.
We may never fully understand His love for us, individually and corporately.
 
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Job wasn’t wrong about his self analysis. He was righteous on every account, stated by God. His error is thinking anybody is significant. We are ants in the eyes of God, maybe less than ants. If He feels like stepping on us, that’s His privilege. That’s why we need to be so greatful of His mercy. We can’t fathom how great God is, so we need to consider how minut we are. We are dust.
God made us to be soldiers for His purpose. Only we as sinners see ourselves as ants. That is our sin - where we are wrong - because we fail to how great we were made.
 
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I know this thread was started as a humble invitation for rebuke. Most people missed that. I applaud your desire for correction. If it’s criticism you’re after, people here are well practised. They even critiqued your post on how to ask for correction. I’m sorry for your loss. It’s sounds like you once were very happy. I know you were vague on purpose. If I may ask, why do you consider a mental disorder a gift? I’m sure the more time you spend here you will find relationships that strengthen your mind and spirit. Be blessed.
Mental disorder as a gift ?? I was made the I am by very bad selfish people. Beat down broken to be controlled. When I refused to bow and obay I was left for dead. Left behind in death so God can use me in life.
I was allowed to be perfectly broken by God Himself in order to take His smile using my face to anyone He places in my path regardless of there pain.
How can I know what dumpster to look under to find the one that needs help if I myself had not been found under the same dumpster. That is not a figure of speech but a part of my reality
 
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God made us to be soldiers for His purpose. Only we as sinners see ourselves as ants. That is our sin - where we are wrong - because we fail to how great we were made.
What were we made with?....dust.
 
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Regarding the Title of the OP only:

Ok, Your wrong...........there, you have been told.

Regarding the OP itself, it is vague and hard to relate to any one thing. Just as a knee jerk reaction to reading it, I'd say your "wrong" was your lack of faith.........take it for what it's worth
When correcting someone....make sure you are correct!
You wrote: Your
It should be: You're
We all make mistakes, but if you are going to come down on someone, check your writing please.
 
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What were we made with?....dust.
We are made of God's will . He made the heavens and the earth than breathed His life into us . Does not matter what word you use in what language.. we are here cause God said so
 
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When correcting someone....make sure you are correct!
You wrote: Your
It should be: You're
We all make mistakes, but if you are going to come down on someone, check your writing please.
This is a very important lesson I pray is used in every part of our lives not just in writing . Thank you for this much needed reminder
 
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We are made of God's will . He made the heavens and the earth than breathed His life into us . Does not matter what word you use in what language.. we are here cause God said so
God made us to be soldiers for His purpose. Only we as sinners see ourselves as ants. That is our sin - where we are wrong - because we fail to how great we were made.
I’m not unimpressed with His handiwork. I was stating the purpose of Job. Job was under the impression God needed a reason to allow such affliction. God in no uncertain terms declared He’s beyond reproach. As fantastic and great we think we are, we are nothing compared to God. He created us from dust and we will return to dust. That’s the point that makes serving Him so awesome, that He cares about us and adopts us as children. I gave a message at my church before about the awesomeness of God. Instead of trying to explain the unfathomable, I dressed up a used vacuum bag, explaining that we were formed from dust. Then I talked about adopting the vacuum bag to be one of my children, and share in their inheritance. Then I explained how even if I really liked that little dirt bag, I would never let my own child suffer for him. That’s just how much greater God is.