May I ask what you mean? How could they have been more helpful?
I ask because this seems to be the crux of the matter. I experienced something similar when I was younger in the 80s. Pop psychology hadn't infiltrated the church to the extent it now has, but counselors and psychology were still the order of the day if someone had an "unusual" problem the church didn't know how to deal with, or didn't want to deal with.
It seems like what we have is a form of godliness that has denied its power.
I don't have answers and don't feel comfortable in discussing my specific issues. Along with being a Christian, I spent time in College studying Psychology and reading the DSM 4 and 5. Some of the answers of the Psychological Community are sadly painful. The Religious have been punitive and unkind to many about their problems. It is why I study the Bible and pray but would not feel comfortable in most churches.