It is sin, something God tolerates, God does not end your life because you sin, but sin and wrongdoing, can cause problems and hurts, destroy relationships and trust, that can never be mended.
I had a guy friend in school, growing up who was likeable, but later on he became gay, living with a male partner, I was sad because he could have had the potential to be a good husband, and we were close friends, but will he ever have the chance to be with me, or any woman who respects her body and heart in any way, NO.
After having, I am sorry for the graphic language, but this is reality, but after having had another male's penis in his ass, how could I or any woman for that matter, accept or create a normal, healthy, godly relationship. I guess it is possible, but not for my faith level. I could not ever have a healthy marriage, or sexual intimacy with a person who has done that. It is way too gross. I know God forgives and heals, just like with divorce and other instances of separation.
Even my own wicked, insane mother has taken glory and pride in trying to force me to be with this male friend I describe because he has mostly been nice to me, except when I rejected his offer of love, because he has chosen to be gay, and live a homosexual lifestyle, despite, love, acceptance, prayers, and encouragement from strong female, girl friends, and good influences being around him.
I pray you make the good, and peace giving decision for your life on this issue. And that God surrounds you with protection, to not make you doubt or waiver. And you know why, because Jesus says so, and that is what Jesus wants. You believe in Jesus correct......I think in the beginning, in Genesis, the first book of the bible, before man even had the inclination or thought of being "gay", the word probably did not even exist, God did not make us that way, so what gave homosexuals the thought to even act that way. It does not make sense.
God Bless you.
And thanks for letting me share my opinion, I often go unheard, despite, that I live like God wants me to about 82.5 % of the time.
For example, I stood by this friend when he wanted to be healed, and listend to his cry, and talked with him for years, but now it is over. God, the Holy Spirit has said drop it, and do not let others force me back into slavery.