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Heaven83

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Hello,

I am 25, f, single. Originaly from Lithuania live in London since 13. I would love to meet someone, fall in love. Someone who is believer in Jesus Christ. I am a born Roman Catholic, i try to follow Jesus, love him etc. I would love to meet someone where Christ agrees. Idealy would love to marry and live a heavenly life leading to eternity.
 
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goth4god

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I'm sure every single person is waiting for that one person so fall in love with! i know i am! lol
but i know God will provide! so dont give up hope! it will happen someday, when God wants it to!
 
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Heaven83

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yes, i think i need to get closer to Christ and prove to him that i deserve it, that i won't mistreat the person etc. although i cannot imagine having a husband.
 
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Londonguy

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Hey there! Just read your posting, thought I would recommend a book that I believe will help and offer encouragement, as we all want to make the right choices before God and experience his best for our lives, its called, 'Matchmade in Heaven'- How to find your God Given Partner, by Sunil and Janeene Chothi, here is Amazon link:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Match-Made-...=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1236818348&sr=8-1

Very easy to read and there is an excellent review of it as well!
Godbless
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sonny777

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The funny thing about life is we are nothing without god, the thing you must relize is that you will not recieve without gods grace. Dont look for a husband because you will never find, look for god first , then if he chooses , you may reccieve a man, you may not. But put god first before your feelings. He knows your hearts desires but will not fill it to you put him first.
 
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Heaven83

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ok thank you, well my ideas about a lot of things change daily, i guess i did set out naively into the worl manting to find a meaning of life God etc. I thought i did more or less found God before and thought he is everywhere around but even that is from someone elses idea. lately, i thought his truth is in the Bible only and most go to hell especialy watching this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBm9...layList&p=A276BB14BA102F8D&playnext=1&index=7 since i believe i had a vision/dream of hell where they told me ill go there for a simple sin if i dont listen to my mother where they showed me a book and wrote in it as though every movement of mine is written in it. so yes i am confused with all :(
 
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Sinnner

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You say you are a Catholic? Did you listen to your own video that you posted?
 
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Golfball

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sonny777 said:
The funny thing about life is we are nothing without god, the thing you must relize is that you will not recieve without gods grace. Dont look for a husband because you will never find, look for god first , then if he chooses , you may reccieve a man, you may not. But put god first before your feelings. He knows your hearts desires but will not fill it to you put him first.
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I think it would be cruel if God does not send you a man if you really don't want to be alone. I definitely don't like being alone eating alone. It would be much better and l would be a lot happier with someone the right man that is someone kind
 
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Golfball said:
I think it would be cruel if God does not send you a man if you really don't want to be alone. I definitely don't like being alone eating alone. It would be much better and l would be a lot happier with someone the right man that is someone kind
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Uh... You are talking to a person who hasn't been here since 2009.
 
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Golfball said:
I think it would be cruel if God does not send you a man if you really don't want to be alone. I definitely don't like being alone eating alone. It would be much better and l would be a lot happier with someone the right man that is someone kind
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Hi Golfball, I see you are new. Many good Threads are older but not shut down. You can still respond, just remember to look at the date posted. In fact, when it is slow here, some of us deliberately open up old Threads that interest us. Welcome to CC and hope to see you at the Intro Forum too, if you wish. Blessings to you🙏🤩
 
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Gojira

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sonny777 said:
The funny thing about life is we are nothing without god, the thing you must relize is that you will not recieve without gods grace. Dont look for a husband because you will never find, look for god first , then if he chooses , you may reccieve a man, you may not. But put god first before your feelings. He knows your hearts desires but will not fill it to you put him first.
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I agree about putting God first -- in everything and as much as we can (although in this we all fall short). But, seeking a mate is not forbidden, and sometimes does lead to finding someone.
 
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I know a man that ate alone at the Valentine restaurant, I was like ?! who does that.

But yea, eating alone is no fun. But sometimes you have to do it, especially if you hungry and stuck in a mall and you forgot to have lunch and your tummy is rumbling.
 
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Food courts are horrible places to have lunch I reckon. Noisy, smelly and all the food is mixed up together.

I reckon if its a nice day just buy a pie and eat it outside and the seagulls/birds will be your friend.
 
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George0115

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I've been single pretty much my whole life. When I was younger if kind of bothered me, but not really anymore. I'm looking for a woman I know don't exist. Its like I want some woman to fall out of the sky, and she can't have a past. Now I'm at a point in my life where I'm beginning to think humans aren't meant to be monogamous. If I had a girlfriend I know I would still be attracted to other women, and having thoughts about other women that I shouldn't be having. I also know my girlfriend would feel the same way about other men. I read this survey about a year ago that freaked me out. It said 99 percent of men fantasize about other women when they were having sex with their wife. I say that's a lie I know its 100 percent. The thing that freaked me out was it said 82 percent of women fantasized about other men other than their husbands during sex. I'm starting to realize that women are no different than men. I used to think women were these sweet little things who didn't think like this. I'm a dope lol. You can tell I have very little experience with women lol. I just wanted to get that off of my chest.
 
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George0115 said:
I've been single pretty much my whole life. When I was younger if kind of bothered me, but not really anymore. I'm looking for a woman I know don't exist. Its like I want some woman to fall out of the sky, and she can't have a past. Now I'm at a point in my life where I'm beginning to think humans aren't meant to be monogamous. If I had a girlfriend I know I would still be attracted to other women, and having thoughts about other women that I shouldn't be having. I also know my girlfriend would feel the same way about other men. I read this survey about a year ago that freaked me out. It said 99 percent of men fantasize about other women when they were having sex with their wife. I say that's a lie I know its 100 percent. The thing that freaked me out was it said 82 percent of women fantasized about other men other than their husbands during sex. I'm starting to realize that women are no different than men. I used to think women were these sweet little things who didn't think like this. I'm a dope lol. You can tell I have very little experience with women lol. I just wanted to get that off of my chest.
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I hang with other believers and the couples look very much in love. I'm trying to imagine one of them thinking about our pastor while together, I think their hubbys would pass out. Don't believe everything you read and if you are always checking out women, you're not marriage ready yet. When you meet a lady that captures your heart, in a Godly way, and you only have eyes for her, see if that solves the roaming eye prob. God bless.
 
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Gojira

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TabinRivCA said:
I hang with other believers and the couples look very much in love. I'm trying to imagine one of them thinking about our pastor while together, I think their hubbys would pass out. Don't believe everything you read and if you are always checking out women, you're not marriage ready yet. When you meet a lady that captures your heart, in a Godly way, and you only have eyes for her, see if that solves the roaming eye prob. God bless.
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It never will completely. That's not realistic to expect of any man. However, we can certainly work on not looking excessively. I think it was Billy Graham?? who said that it's not the first look, but the ones that follow, that are sinful.
 
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Fess9276

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I just believe in God, the devil really has many people wrapped around his little finger, catholics and Christians, fighting, yet they both believe in God, it's just something called respect 🙏 my wife is a catholic and I am a street preacher for 40 years, God blessed me with a wonderful wife and kind, she loved my mom and my mom loved her so much, and when my mom went to be with the Lord, my wife was the one in charge of burial, funeral and family. She paid for it and we still were not married, but that's why I married her, so many beautiful young ladies Say they are Christian but actions speaks louder than words, various times my wife comes with me and my son to church
 
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George0115

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Sounds like you have a amazing wife. I'm very happy for you. I would love to meet a woman like that. I'm know there are many good women out there. You never know when God is about to bring someone into your life. Welcome to CC, I'm new here as well. There seems to be some really nice people on here. God bless.
 
MsMediator

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George0115 said:
It said 99 percent of men fantasize about other women when they were having sex with their wife. I say that's a lie I know its 100 percent. The thing that freaked me out was it said 82 percent of women fantasized about other men other than their husbands during sex. I'm starting to realize that women are no different than men.
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I guess this happens especially when people hit a slump in their marriage. Curious, why were you surprised that women have fantasies when you said all men do?
 
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