What are your relationship dealbreakers?

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Sculpt

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Lets see... will not date:
12) a guy who is a conservative christian (sorry guys..but i want us to be able to attend the same church of similar denominations)
You may need to explain number 12 ... What are your criteria for a church not being conservative
@girliegirl39 Welcome to CC, girliegirl39! I'll second Lynx on that. Curious, what do you mean by "conservative christian"?
 
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sorry to hear that, hope things are going better now.
Well, he decided to file for divorce after he had an affair and got a girl pregnent... but i believe there is still hope for salvation for him. I remain in contact with him because of our daughter, but its kind of like we are friends now? So I am hoping that there is a chance I can lead him to the Lord, even though I recognize that we will not be married again.
 

I_am_Canadian

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Well, he decided to file for divorce after he had an affair and got a girl pregnent... but i believe there is still hope for salvation for him. I remain in contact with him because of our daughter, but its kind of like we are friends now? So I am hoping that there is a chance I can lead him to the Lord, even though I recognize that we will not be married again.
Wow, I am sorry to hear that, Yes their is, I see, well it's good of you to continue to witness to him,
 

MntMex

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Unbeliever , Tattoos, Smokes, multiple marriages and poor credit score
 
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I'll give any woman a swerve who's casting about for a spider catcher.

No laughing matter, flies are spies from the abyss, so I won't dispose of spiders for anybody!
 

PopClick

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One dealbreaker would be if I felt like a guy's verbal punching bag when he was stressed instead of his resting place.
 

I_am_Canadian

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I'll give any woman a swerve who's casting about for a spider catcher.

No laughing matter, flies are spies from the abyss, so I won't dispose of spiders for anybody!
interesting
 

Lynx

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Ineluctibly.