“Life’s not fair!!”

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“Life’s not fair!!”

When people say that, we need to remind ourselves about the cross and the life of our Lord.

It was not fair the way He got treated, mocked, abused, abandoned, ridiculed, blasphemed, bloodied, tortured, beaten, felt alone, forsaken, hungered and thirsted, numbered with the transgressors, humiliated, and left to die next to two criminals as an innocent man. Yet, through all of that, instead of being bitter and angry..he asked the Father to forgive them. Absolutely incredible. Meeting the cruelty of the wicked world with mercy and compassion, and turning the greatest injustice into the greatest act of love.

Every pain, heartbreak, betrayal, loneliness, loss, sadness, hurt, etc etc that we’ve been through, He walked that road first, so we wouldn’t have to do it alone.

People ask “where is God?” They say “He doesn’t understand my pain, my loss, my agony!”

Really??

Have they read the life of Jesus?

Matthew 8:20 And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air havenests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.

Isaiah 53:9 – “He had done no violence, neither was any deceit in his mouth.”

Luke 23:41 – “This man hath done nothing amiss.”

1 Peter 2:22–23 – “Who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth… when he suffered, he threatened not.”

Mocked, humiliated and ridiculed: Matthew 26:67-68, 27:29–31, 39–44; Luke 22:63–65, 23:11; Isaiah 50:6, 53:3-7

Abused, bloodied, tortured, beaten: Isaiah 52:14 – “His visage was so marred more than any man.”; Matthew 26:67; 27:26 – “They spit in his face, and buffeted him… and scourged Jesus.”

Abandoned and forsaken: Matthew 26:56 – “Then all the disciples forsook him, and fled.”

Hungered and thirsted: Matthew 4:2 – “He was afterward an hungred.”; John 19:28 – “Jesus saith, I thirst.”

Numbered with the transgressors: Isaiah 53:12 – “He was numbered with the transgressors.”

Left to die between criminals: Luke 23:32–33 – “They crucified him… with the malefactors, one on the right hand, and the other on the left.”

“Yet, through all of that, instead of being bitter and angry… he asked the Father to forgive them.”

Luke 23:34 – “Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”

1 Peter 2:23 – “When he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to him that judgeth righteously.”

“Meeting the cruelty of the wicked world with mercy and compassion, and turning the greatest injustice into the greatest act of love.”

Romans 5:8 – “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world…”

1 John 3:16 – “Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us.”

Acts 2:23 – “Him, being delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God, ye have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain.”

Genesis 50:20 (parallel principle) – “Ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good.”

To those who question God—saying He wasn’t there in the midst of pain and suffering, or that He doesn’t know what it’s like, that it somehow makes Him not omnipotent—I simply ask them to read the life of Jesus and look to the cross. Jesus went through it all. We share in our sufferings and sympathizes with us. The cross of Christ also offers us a way to overcome the sin and selfishness that causes so much of people’s sufferings.

1 Peter 4:13 But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ's sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.

Hebrews 4:15 For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.

If every person on earth truly followed Jesus…

There would be no murder, no hatred, no abuse, no lies, no betrayal, no stealing, no adultery, no greed, no injustice, and on and on. There would be love, compassion, mercy, truth, humility, forgiveness, kindness, etc etc.

If people lived by Jesus’ commands to love God and love their neighbor (Matt. 22:37–40), to do unto others as they would have them do unto them (Luke 6:31), and to forgive one another as He forgave us (Col. 3:13), the world would be radically different.

So, the next time you feel like your life is crashing down and you can’t handle it, look to the cross. Jesus will meet you there.

And if people don’t get how that’s the answer to the problem of suffering, then they never will.
 
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Matthew 8:20 And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air havenests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.
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Luke 9:58 / Matthew 8:20, plus 2 Corinthians 8:9 “Foxes have dens and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay His head.” For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor, so that you through His poverty might become rich.
 
Hmm... Two things.

1. Life is very unfair in our favor. If life was fair, we would be going to hell. We DO NOT WANT life to be fair.

2. I still reserve the right to complain when somebody cuts me off on the road. Just because life is unfair in my favor does not give him the right to be a jerk.
 
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Hmm... Two things.

1. Life is very unfair in our favor. If life was fair, we would be going to hell. We DO NOT WANT life to be fair.

2. I still reserve the right to complain when somebody cuts me off on the road. Just because life is unfair in my favor does not give him the right to be a jerk.

Hmmm…a few things

1. I wasn’t talking about fairness in the sense of inconveniences or irritation. I was talking about the kind of ‘unfairness’ that nailed an innocent man to a cross — and the kind of love that forgave those who did it.

2. The first comment from you takes a deep truth (“we deserve hell”) and flattens it into a cliché, skipping over the reverence and gravity of the OP.

3. The second is just snark — turning a call to humility and gratitude into a quip about traffic.

It’s like someone responding to the story of Calvary by saying, “Yeah, well, good thing I still get mad at slow Wi-Fi.”

Calling people to see their pain and frustration through the lens of Christ’s suffering, to remember that He absorbed the world’s unfairness without bitterness, and to follow that example. Your reply, instead, trivialized it into clever banter.
 
Hmmm…a few things

1. I wasn’t talking about fairness in the sense of inconveniences or irritation. I was talking about the kind of ‘unfairness’ that nailed an innocent man to a cross — and the kind of love that forgave those who did it.

2. The first comment from you takes a deep truth (“we deserve hell”) and flattens it into a cliché, skipping over the reverence and gravity of the OP.

3. The second is just snark — turning a call to humility and gratitude into a quip about traffic.

It’s like someone responding to the story of Calvary by saying, “Yeah, well, good thing I still get mad at slow Wi-Fi.”

Calling people to see their pain and frustration through the lens of Christ’s suffering, to remember that He absorbed the world’s unfairness without bitterness, and to follow that example. Your reply, instead, trivialized it into clever banter.
My snark is never that subtle. If I wanted to be snarky it would have been much more blatant. I can be many things... Well, I can be a few different things at least... But subtle ain't one of them.
 
I’ve put you @Lynx on ignore!!! You’re one of the people who wants to find fault and nit-pick at every little thing that others say!! It’s ridiculous talking to people of your kind, and your posts has made me very angry because of all that. You’ve got to make it all about yourself by finding something you don’t agree, then decide to say something about it!! I know how you your kind are at Bible studies, and your nit-picking, squabbling ways make it where it’s not pleasurable for people!!! Goodbye!!!
 
I’ve put you @Lynx on ignore!!! You’re one of the people who wants to find fault and nit-pick at every little thing that others say!! It’s ridiculous talking to people of your kind, and your posts has made me very angry because of all that. You’ve got to make it all about yourself by finding something you don’t agree, then decide to say something about it!! I know how you your kind are at Bible studies, and your nit-picking, squabbling ways make it where it’s not pleasurable for people!!! Goodbye!!!
Wow. If that's all it takes to tick you off, your blood pressure must be permanently high.

Good luck dude. You'll need it.

Also: Yay! Now I can say whatever I want and you won't know! :D :D :D
 
Wow. If that's all it takes to tick you off, your blood pressure must be permanently high.

Good luck dude. You'll need it.

Also: Yay! Now I can say whatever I want and you won't know! :D:D:D
Sorry, but you’re on ignore. This convo is over. Goodbye. I hope you cherish, delight and take pleasure in what you seem to love the most on here: The last word!!

Enjoy your victory lap!!!

Oh, and I don’t need luck. I need God’s grace and mercy. There. Fixed it for you.
 
Sorry, but you’re on ignore. This convo is over. Goodbye. I hope you cherish, delight and take pleasure in what you seem to love the most on here: The last word!!

Enjoy your victory lap!!!

Oh, and I don’t need luck. I need God’s grace and mercy. There. Fixed it for you.
You said I was on ignore before. Then you answered my post...

Hurry up and really put me on ignore, so I can talk about you without you seeing what I say.
 
Sorry, but you’re on ignore. This convo is over. Goodbye. I hope you cherish, delight and take pleasure in what you seem to love the most on here: The last word!!

Enjoy your victory lap!!!

Oh, and I don’t need luck. I need God’s grace and mercy. There. Fixed it for you.
Everyone around here loves the Lord and we should deal with others with the love of the Lord. I'm sure no one here is trying to be offensive, we all have our own way of expressing ourselves and that should be expected and appreciated. You stated you need God's grace and mercy, well then you show grace and mercy to your brothers and sisters in Christ here. You aren't coming across very pleasant or kind at all, btw.
 
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Isaiah 53 v 2b-3 He had no stately form or majesty to attract us, no beauty that we should desire Him. 3He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief. Like one from whom men hide their faces, He was despised, and we esteemed Him not.
 
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John 11 v 35 plus Isaiah 53 v 3a ~ Jesus wept. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief.
 
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Life ain't fair... But sometimes I wish it could be just a LITTLE more unfair in my favor. It would be nice. :p
 
Life ain't fair... But sometimes I wish it could be just a LITTLE more unfair in my favor. It would be nice. :p

@Lynx dear, don't pour oil on the fire, You know well that he or she misunderstood you and they are soft at heart but you still tease them. Who doesn't know you are one of the most encouraging person around here. please give them time to know you.
 
@Lynx dear, don't pour oil on the fire, You know well that he or she misunderstood you and they are soft at heart but you still tease them. Who doesn't know you are one of the most encouraging person around here. please give them time to know you.
Dude's gone. Nick says "Guest." No fire to pour oil on.

So I might as well kibitz. :D
 
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Amen. The people who wants to get it, will get it and understand the post. The people who want to just fuss, and find things to criticize it, will find things to fuss and criticize.