"Your response attempts to create a middle ground, but it ultimately collapses into a direct denial of the power of God's grace. You claim that God initiates salvation, but then you utter the ultimate theological contradiction: claiming that God’s eternal decree is frozen and that
'God will not move an inch' unless a spiritually dead sinner 'triggers' Him.
Let’s look at where your arguments completely shatter against the text of Scripture:
1. The 'Two Ways' Require a Sovereign Heart Change
You point to Matthew 7:13-14 to ask if a choice sounds like predetermination. High Calvinism does not deny that man makes a choice. We ask the biblical question:
Why does anyone choose the narrow way?
Scripture is uniform: the natural man, left to his own 'free will,'
always chooses the broad way because his carnal mind is enmity against God and
cannot be subject to His law (Rom 8:7). The only reason an elect soul chooses the narrow way is because God sovereignly pre-determined to quicken them, taking away their heart of stone and giving them a heart of flesh that
willingly runs after Christ (Ezekiel 36:26, Phil 2:13). The choice is the fruit of God's predetermination, not the cause of it.
Furthermore, your use of 2 Peter 3:9 ignores the text's own boundary. Peter is writing to the 'beloved' elect (v. 1, 8), stating that God is longsuffering
to us-ward, not willing that any of
us should perish. If God's absolute will was to save every single human being without exception, and yet billions perish, then man’s will is more powerful than Jehovah's decree. But Scripture says,
'He doeth according to his will in the army of heaven, and among the inhabitants of the earth: and none can stay his hand.' (Daniel 4:35).
2. You Turn the Gift of Faith into a Conditional Work
You admit that faith is a gift of God received through the Gospel, but then you claim this is where 'free-will is exercised' to give man an opportunity to choose or reject Him.
Think through your own logic: if the sinner has the ultimate power to reject the gift, then the deciding factor in salvation is not God's sovereign gift, but man’s free-will cooperation. You are still making salvation conditional upon a human action, directly violating Romans 9:16:
'So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.'
3. Romans 8:26 Completely Reverses Your Argument
You attempt to use Romans 8:26 to claim that our 'reaching out' triggers the fore-ordination to be performed. You have read the verse completely backward.
Look at what Romans 8:26 actually says:
'Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.'
The text does not say man groans to trigger a passive God who 'won't move an inch.' It says man doesn't even know how to pray, so the
Holy Spirit sovereignly moves inside the believer to produce those groanings! The spiritual movement of the believer is the
result of the Holy Spirit's active power, not the trigger for it.
4. God Moves When We Are Dead
Your assertion that 'If we remain passive, God will not move an inch' is a direct assault on Ephesians 2:4-5. When God saved us, we were not 'reaching out' to Him; we were
dead in trespasses and sins.
A corpse in a graveyard is completely passive. It cannot reach out, it cannot trigger a doctor, and it cannot cooperate. Yet Paul writes:
'Even when we were dead in sins, [God] hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved
'
God did not wait for us to move an inch; He ran the whole distance, raised us from spiritual death by His irresistible power, and guaranteed our glorification. Your theology leaves God bound by the will of a corpse, but the God of the Bible is the absolute Sovereign who speaks life into the dead whenever and wherever He pleases."