Is praying in public against a direct command from Jesus? Does this also include church and public meals?

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I ask this because our pastor likes to hold these big long prayer meeting where he 'aggressively encourages' people to pray publicly after the sermon. This last Wednesday he and one of the older members bumped heads about the pastors use of an outline which was established by the Lord's prayer in mat 6 and luke 11.

The arguments centers around the Pastor's want to justify praying publicly using this outline, while the older member pointed out that in mat 6 Not only is the out line given, but we also have a directive that publicly praying in a place of worship, or in public is wrong. Jesus directly says that the people who pray loudly in the synagogues and street corners Do Not get a response from God. That the adoration of their fellow men who see what they are doing and makes them think they are 'holy' for their prayer is all the reward they will get.

Mat 6: 5“When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites. They love to stand in the synagogues and on the street corners and pray loudly. They want people to see them. The truth is, that’s all the reward they will get. 6;But when you pray, you should go into your room and close the door. Then pray to your Father. He is there in that private place. He can see what is done in private, and he will reward you.

2/3s of this chapter talks about do not do your works or praise in the sight of others. So it follows that praying for meals in public, (at least at the table infront of others) and public prayers in church is heavily frowned upon/will not be heard by God. According to Jesus and His teachings found in mat 6.

What say you?
1. no. 2. church prayer, public prayer & meals are public prayer & it's totally fine.
 
Public prayer has value like any other prayer.

Without giving it alot of thought, I would think the value of prayers done out loud, is the same as practice before the real game. Or getting someone else, children perhaps the experience to graft on later in life.
 
Again, were dealing with laws of the spiritual realm. When Christ said pray in secret, i would take it just as it was said, with no exceptions.

Every scenario is an opportunity to be done correctly, if done in secret.

No, you don't make a religion out of one verse. Jesus was talking about a heart attitude. He wasn't saying don't pray anywhere outside your bedroom or don't pray in public.
 
Please do a search on public prayers in Bible, many many.
Jesus also did in front of big crowd.
 
My family gathers and prays with each other all the time. Sometimes for us, sometimes for someone else. If you think God is against that, you're misunderstanding the Bible.

Im misunderstanding scripture?

I take to heart when Jesus tells us to pray, fast, and give in secret with no exceptions given.
Where do you see the version of prayer your presenting?
Do you think it's ok to tell others when your fasting, or when you give?
 
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Without giving it alot of thought, I would think the value of prayers done out loud, is the same as practice before the real game. Or getting someone else, children perhaps the experience to graft on later in life.

I had a friend that was in need of prayer and we were in public. I quietly prayed for her. God is not against that. Ever done an open air service? Ever stop at an accident on the road, been in a hospital? All occasions to pray and God hasn't forbidden that.
 
I had a friend that was in need of prayer and we were in public. I quietly prayed for her. God is not against that. Ever done an open air service? Ever stop at an accident on the road, been in a hospital? All occasions to pray and God hasn't forbidden that.

All those examples you gave would be perfect if you did them in secret. And you could have done them in secret.

But you chose to do it a different way. Jesus tells us what the reward is for those decisions.
 
I had a friend that was in need of prayer and we were in public. I quietly prayed for her. God is not against that. Ever done an open air service? Ever stop at an accident on the road, been in a hospital? All occasions to pray and God hasn't forbidden that.

I look at it like this.

Our relationship with Jesus is an intimate relationship, just like our relationship with our husband or wife.

How would our husband or wife feel if everyone knew the details of our intimate relationship with each other?

It could be even more precious with Jesus...

Jesus asking or telling us that secrecy is required isn't out of line.
 
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I had a friend that was in need of prayer and we were in public. I quietly prayed for her. God is not against that. Ever done an open air service? Ever stop at an accident on the road, been in a hospital? All occasions to pray and God hasn't forbidden that.

And it just hit me!

Maybe part of the reason to pray in secret is so satan doesn't hear the prayer and get a jump on trying to hinder what's being prayed for?
 
I ask this because our pastor likes to hold these big long prayer meeting where he 'aggressively encourages' people to pray publicly after the sermon. This last Wednesday he and one of the older members bumped heads about the pastors use of an outline which was established by the Lord's prayer in mat 6 and luke 11.

The arguments centers around the Pastor's want to justify praying publicly using this outline, while the older member pointed out that in mat 6 Not only is the out line given, but we also have a directive that publicly praying in a place of worship, or in public is wrong. Jesus directly says that the people who pray loudly in the synagogues and street corners Do Not get a response from God. That the adoration of their fellow men who see what they are doing and makes them think they are 'holy' for their prayer is all the reward they will get.

Mat 6: 5“When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites. They love to stand in the synagogues and on the street corners and pray loudly. They want people to see them. The truth is, that’s all the reward they will get. 6;But when you pray, you should go into your room and close the door. Then pray to your Father. He is there in that private place. He can see what is done in private, and he will reward you.

2/3s of this chapter talks about do not do your works or praise in the sight of others. So it follows that praying for meals in public, (at least at the table infront of others) and public prayers in church is heavily frowned upon/will not be heard by God. According to Jesus and His teachings found in mat 6.

What say you?

First of all every Christian must follow their Spirit guided conscience in regard to this topic.. So if you are convicted that you should not engage in public prayer then don't do it and if you are convicted that you should join in public prayer then do it..

But as for the scripture on the topic.. We must take in ALL that is written on the subject, let me quote the passage and point out some critical words..

Matthew 6:5 - Matthew 6:6
(Matthew 6:5-6) "¶ And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward. {6} But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly."

Note in the above scriptures it is not only about how they are praying ( Public ) but WHY they are praying in public to be SEEN by other men.. They are doing it to obtain social approval / credibility / status with the community around them.. Their prayers are not focused on God but focused on impressing other human beings.. So it can be said that the transgression is not praying in public but praying in public to be seen by other human beings to obtain that approval of men..
 
All those examples you gave would be perfect if you did them in secret. And you could have done them in secret.

But you chose to do it a different way. Jesus tells us what the reward is for those decisions.

No, you believe whatever you want to believe, up to you. But that's baloney. Why would I walk away from someone who needed prayer? Jesus wouldn't. No, utter nonsense. And I thought I'd seen a lot here. Try evangelism, you'll learn you're wrong. smh
 
I look at it like this.

Our relationship with Jesus is an intimate relationship, just like our relationship with our husband or wife.

How would our husband or wife feel if everyone knew the details of our intimate relationship with each other?

It could be even more precious with Jesus...

Jesus asking or telling us that secrecy is required isn't out of line.

Right, there are times to do that. And there are times you don't. We call that discernment.
 
No, you believe whatever you want to believe, up to you. But that's baloney. Why would I walk away from someone who needed prayer? Jesus wouldn't. No, utter nonsense. And I thought I'd seen a lot here. Try evangelism, you'll learn you're wrong. smh

Really, misrepresentation.

When did I ever say to walk away from someone who needs prayer?

He didn't studder.
 
Really, misrepresentation.

When did I ever say to walk away from someone who needs prayer?

He didn't studder.

We were talking about my friend who needed prayer and I prayed for them because they needed that prayer then. You said that was wrong in your opinion.