WILL HE STILL????????

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deyby

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If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still .........?

If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still send late night virtual sex text to his girlfriend and end up having orals with his girlfriend when his wife is away from home?? Guys, why do u think he gets friendly with a gal and talks sex at night? Is he not satisfied with his wife ?
 
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iraasuup

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This is a little too close to home for me.. so I'm gonna refrain from commenting on this topic for fear of getting too wound up and possibly offending many males who may read this..

*backs out slowly and locks the door*
 
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Strong1

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He's dissatisfied with himself.
 
zeroturbulence

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deyby said:
If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still .........?

If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still send late night virtual sex text to his girlfriend and end up having orals with his girlfriend when his wife is away from home?? Guys, why do u think he gets friendly with a gal and talks sex at night? Is he not satisfied with his wife ?
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What do you think?
 
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Strong1

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zeroturbulence said:
What do you think?
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This response, to me insinuates that there is an obvious yes or no answer. We women do not understand the mind of a man, we can only assume, and our assumptions are quite often, thrown away by the "man at fault," with lines like..."No, that's not the reason why I did it"......or "I still love you and only you"....Stupid lines like that.
A woman will believe that the obvious answer is that he is in fact dissatisfied with her, but why do you think the question was posed? Is it possible that the man in this situation has told the woman otherwise?
Responding the way you did is so typical of a man. And quite annoying.
As I said before, and I know this is true. anyone who cheats, is dissatisfyed with themself, and are imposing their selfish ways on the unsuspecting partner. I hope the OP does not take that kind of blame upon herself if this thread is personal to her, because you say "what do you think?" what are you suggesting that she should think?
 
zeroturbulence

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Strong1 said:
This response, to me insinuates that there is an obvious yes or no answer. We women do not understand the mind of a man, we can only assume, and our assumptions are quite often, thrown away by the "man at fault," with lines like..."No, that's not the reason why I did it"......or "I still love you and only you"....Stupid lines like that.
A woman will believe that the obvious answer is that he is in fact dissatisfied with her, but why do you think the question was posed? Is it possible that the man in this situation has told the woman otherwise?
Responding the way you did is so typical of a man. And quite annoying.
As I said before, and I know this is true. anyone who cheats, is dissatisfyed with themself, and are imposing their selfish ways on the unsuspecting partner. I hope the OP does not take that kind of blame upon herself if this thread is personal to her, because you say "what do you think?" what are you suggesting that she should think?
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You don't like men much do you?
 
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Ugly

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I can't agree that the problem is they aren't satisfied with themselves. Thats an oversimplification and is too blanket. Or maybe even sounds like someone trying to make themselves blameless when it happened to them.
At any rate, there are some men who just genuinely think its normal to cheat. And in modern society this concept is getting more common. Whereas people once believed in marriage as a lifetime commitment, now a growing attitude of 'people aren't meant to be together for life' is getting more prevalent. So some men will just cheat because of their upbringing or effects of culture on them.
Then we have the more traditional minded man. He will believe in the sanctity of marriage. He believes cheating is wrong. But at some point he ends up cheating anyways. Most... men who cheat in this circumstance do it (same goes for women) because they are not happy in their marriage.
Its not always a sex issue. If you aren't having sex, or not often, that may make the man more likely to cheat, especially if someone is pursuing him. But a man could still be having a regular sex life at home and cheat.

As far as your case, the issue isn't the 'sex texting' or 'oral sex', but the fact that he's married and has a girlfriend as well.

Just seemed to me a man should speak for the men, instead of a woman who admits to not liking men answering for men.
 
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Jullianna

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deyby said:
If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still .........?

If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still send late night virtual sex text to his girlfriend and end up having orals with his girlfriend when his wife is away from home?? Guys, why do u think he gets friendly with a gal and talks sex at night? Is he not satisfied with his wife ?
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Men and women who want to cheat will find an excuse and will attempt to shift the blame to the spouse. If dissatisfaction was the true reason, a spouse should feel secure enough to discuss it or even seek counseling.

Would he accept the same excuse if his wife was dissatisfied with him and she was the cheater?

He does it because he wants to.
 
JimJimmers

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Debbie, Jesus said we shouldn't get divorced, except for the reason of sexual immorality on the spouse's part. If this happened to you, you have every right to divorce your husband, as he already left you. Unless you feel God telling you to stay with the guy, I'd say hit the road.
 
zeroturbulence

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How can you tell? :eek:
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Ok, I admit that my post can be taken as insensitive, but the one thing I cannot stand to see is a woman who has all of the red flags of an unfaithful relationship and cannot see them because it tears me apart.

Other times I will usually try to be comforting and empathetic but when I see a woman (or a man) being taken advantage of and they have a bunch of signs that the other is being unfaithful and they are still are waiting for something even more obvious than what they already see, I like to ask them what they themselves think is happening because they already know the answer but are just too afraid to accept it... and that is what keeps them in a bad relationship. I'm just trying to give the person a wake-up call.

And just so you know...I don't like men either. ;)
 
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LightningClap0002

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Hmmm, sounds like love to me.

Always forgives, always hopes, keeps no record of wrongs. God protect us.
 
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Jullianna

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RoboOp, can we have a "slap" function, please? We need it for ^this post^
 
LightningClap0002

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Love blinds us. It must.

God protect us; that those we love the most don't hurt us. But if they do... love. There is no other way.
 
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deyby

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@ all my friends.... idont hate men but iam still confused...,,,....i relly dont know...
 
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deyby said:
If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still .........?

If a married man is satisfied with his wife sexually, will he still send late night virtual sex text to his girlfriend and end up having orals with his girlfriend when his wife is away from home?? Guys, why do u think he gets friendly with a gal and talks sex at night? Is he not satisfied with his wife ?
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Is this supost to be a christian man or not?
Couple of questions. isnted of answers. Was he/she really satisfide with thier mate sexually? Why are this people confidding on the opisite sex to beging with insted of their partners? Never a good idea if you dont have to heve a somekind of connection with another person. I'mm not gonna guess on IF but would like to read and answer from a person that has been passed this bridge.
 
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Yes he will if he is an idiot. :)

Yay, a lowbrow post I can add to my bucket list!
 
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iraasuup

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Yes he will if he is an idiot. :)

Yay, a lowbrow post I can add to my bucket list!
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Then my husband must have been an Idiot. I was learning more towards 'Jerk' but I guess Idiot works too.
 
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Idiot [id-ee-uht]

noun

An utterly foolish or senseless person.

(Dictionary.com)

I think it fits very well.
 
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