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ShyForHim

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Being still a newbie Christian, I'm yet learning to do God's will. I think I do know the basics, which are the two important commandments; Love God with all your heart, spirit and mind and love your neighbor as yourself. Though personally, I think there's more than preaching the Word, helping others and such.

What could possibly it be? I tried praying, got no answers. I know someone told me that God is taking care of things in my life that are the smallest to me, but big to him. I've changed a lot in the past few months and I still am changing, but I "feel" that there's something missing. I think I'm disobeying God in something small or it's simply that I don't know what he wants.
 
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Being still a newbie Christian, I'm yet learning to do God's will. I think I do know the basics, which are the two important commandments; Love God with all your heart, spirit and mind and love your neighbor as yourself. Though personally, I think there's more than preaching the Word, helping others and such.

What could possibly it be? I tried praying, got no answers. I know someone told me that God is taking care of things in my life that are the smallest to me, but big to him. I've changed a lot in the past few months and I still am changing, but I "feel" that there's something missing. I think I'm disobeying God in something small or it's simply that I don't know what he wants.
Talk to God about it. . .tell him that you "feel" there is something there between you and him and if it is a matter of disobedience. . . just ask for forgiveness and believe that he has forgiven you and restored that fellowship between you and him. God has everything you need to know his will in scripture. . if it's not clear to you in scripture, just keep studying and learning. . .that's all he ask of you. Draw near to him and he will draw near to you. . . .
 
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Nancyer

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#3
Dearest ShyForHim,

Prayers and love for you!

I know exactly how you feel. I came to the Lord 4 years ago and long to know His will for my life. I question what I'm doing, if it is pleasing to Him, pray that it is and move on to the best of my abilities. I study His word daily. I long for that completely, totally "in love with Him" feeling, which hasn't enveloped me as yet. But that doesn't mean I don't love Jesus. I do and I know that I know that He loves me and is with me.

Perhaps your "name" says a little about your relationship? Shy For Him? Should we not be BOLD for Him? I can't say I shout it from the roof tops but I will Praise God wherever I am, I never miss an opportunity to invite someone to my church and I regularly do my Bible studying out in public (like at a fast food place) in the hopes someone will ask me about what I'm doing or why or just ask me a question. Don't be shy, Shy. Be proud and bold and open.

Should I ask where you live? Sorry, I don't recognize your country's flag, is it ok for you to "be bold" about your love for Christ? I pray that it is.
 
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ShyForHim

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Well, there's one thing I noticed in both of you, is that you do Bible study every day. I don't read the Bible every day, sometimes I'm really not up to it (feelings, laziness, etc) which could be a missing thing. Knowing I am moving countries soon, having my Pastor as a spiritual advisor wouldn't be much (besides, I'm timid to ask for help)

About the bold part, yeah, but there's a slight difference between shyness and boldness. I can come boldly, but be shy while speaking. I always pray in whispers, because I know God hears it whatsoever.
 
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jody50

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#5
Being still a newbie Christian, I'm yet learning to do God's will. I think I do know the basics, which are the two important commandments; Love God with all your heart, spirit and mind and love your neighbor as yourself. Though personally, I think there's more than preaching the Word, helping others and such.

What could possibly it be? I tried praying, got no answers. I know someone told me that God is taking care of things in my life that are the smallest to me, but big to him. I've changed a lot in the past few months and I still am changing, but I "feel" that there's something missing. I think I'm disobeying God in something small or it's simply that I don't know what he wants.
God speaks to us through His word. Your answers are in the Bible. You obviously believe that Jesus is the son of God. Acts 2:38 says to repent of your sins and be baptized for the remission of your sins. Then you have to live a faithful life by worshipping as He wants us to. There is a pattern in the New Testament as to how the early disciples worshipped. They met on the first day of the week to take the Lord's Supper and sing, pray and preaching. You need to find a church that teaches these things as the Bible does. The Church of Christ does this. You can look up one and attend there and see how it goes.
 
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Being still a newbie Christian, I'm yet learning to do God's will. I think I do know the basics, which are the two important commandments; Love God with all your heart, spirit and mind and love your neighbor as yourself. Though personally, I think there's more than preaching the Word, helping others and such.

What could possibly it be? I tried praying, got no answers. I know someone told me that God is taking care of things in my life that are the smallest to me, but big to him. I've changed a lot in the past few months and I still am changing, but I "feel" that there's something missing. I think I'm disobeying God in something small or it's simply that I don't know what he wants.
The Fellowship of His Sufferings
"That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His Death." Phil3:10
"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, take up his cross & follow Me!" Matt16:24
You can only Know Christ in the Power of His resurrection if you are willing to partake in the fellowship of His sufferings. That's why FEW will enter the Kingdom. The Narrow Gate & Difficult Path may not be preached in the modern church, but nothing can change the Truth of Christ's Own Gospel! Matt7:13-23
You will either take on the Mind of Christ, Phil2:5, Crucify your own passions & desires, Gal5:24, Purify your heart by obedience to the Truth, 1Pet1:22, or continue to walk in darkness making a false profession of faith. You may think yourself saved by Grace through faith, not of works, Eph2:8-9, but unless your life is showing forth the EVIDENCE of true conversion you have received the grace of God in Vain! 1Cor15:2
When All things become New, 2Cor13:5, you will take on a New attitude about sin. You will stop making excuses and Start 'Hungering & Thirsting after Righteousness!'
If you are destitute of this desire for genuine heart purity and freedom from the bondage of sin, you HAVE NOT Received the Living Christ! Rom6:15-18
One of the Clearest signs of phony Christianity in today's converts is a lax attitude toward sin. Because you have NEVER heard the true message of scripture, you remain in bondage to your sin, believing yourself to be saved by Grace, when you haven't one single shred of Obedient Faith in your heart!
"Do you NOT know that to whom you present yourselves slaves to obey, you are that one's slave whom you obey, whether sin to death or obedience to righteousness. But God be thanked that though you were slaves of sin, yet you OBEYED from the heart that form of doctrine to which you were delivered. And having been set free from sin, you become slaves to Righteousness!" Rom6:15-18
How could you NOT understand this passage?
Yet you will continue in your delusion, professing to know Christ and be assured of heaven when you die, while ignoring the Word of God and live your worldly lifestyle.
Most people have only heard half the Gospel. They know that Christ loves them that He lived, died & rose again for the sins of man. And if they 'believe' in Him they have eternal salvation through His name.
But they have no idea whatsoever that God intends to Judge sin and take vengeance on the sinners who refuse to obey His Truth! Rom2:7-10
"When the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven with His mighty angles, in flaming fire taking vengeance on those who do not know God and on those who do not OBEY the gospel. These shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord!" 2Thess1:8-9
This is why the Apostles warned those who would listen to be Saved from this perverse generation! Acts2:40. FLEE to God, Obey Him, and forsake your sinful ways!
But you still think all that's required is for you to believe in Christ and everything will be just fine. Even if you never do anything to prove you Love God. That's why you won't heed His warnings, even given in love.
"Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, patience and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?" Rom2:4
The Reason you think God is 'blessing' your life is because He's giving you time to REPENT before He pours out His wrath on your head!
"Therefore consider the goodness and Severity of God: on those who fell severity, but toward you goodness, IF you continue in His goodness. Otherwise you also will be cut off!" Rom11:22
Is it fair for your preachers to withhold these warnings? God will Judge sin according to the scriptures. How awful to appear at the Great Judgment unknowing that you will be sent away in sorrow because you NEVER obeyed God! Matt7:21-23 you will be crying out for the blood of the preachers who never took the time to warn you!
Although all men are without excuse before God, the stricter Judgment goes to the preachers. Woe unto them for withholding the 'severity' of God. James3:1
They could have at least made an effort to define what 'believe' means. But all they did was tell you time and again, 'Just believe on Christ & everything will be fine.' Had they included a brief description of what believing really is, it may have made a difference!
"Trust in, Cling to, rely on." Is the literal meaning of the word. Quite a bit more than just 'knowing'.
"The devils know and tremble!" James2:19
Unless you are 'Making every effort' to enter by the Narrow Gate, Luke13:24 and Obeying the Words of Christ as revealed in His Word, John14:15, you're just kidding yourself about salvation. Everybody 'thinks' they're saved, but FEW really are. Don't wait until the Judgment to find out. God says...
"He will render to each one according to his deeds. Eternal life to those who by patient continuance in doing good seek for glory, honor & immortality, but to those who are self-seeking & DO NOT OBEY the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation & wrath." Rom2:7-8
You cannot explain it away. There's no getting around it. Being Saved means following Jesus to the end. He said by: 'PATIENT CONTINUANCE' in doing good. What more do you need?
Obedience to the Truth will save your soul! Otherwise your 'knowing' is in Vain. Ask yourself, "Why do I profess to know God & NEVER read His Word, Obey His commandments, witness to others, or Purify my heart? 1John2:3-6
The Bible says you can 'Deceive yourself' by NOT being a DOER of the Word! James1:22
You can partake in the Power of His resurrection & the fellowship of His sufferings, NOT by self-debasement, but by Taking on the Mind of Christ and letting Him purity your motives, destroy your self-seeking and transform you into a true Child of God.
Standing the Gap
 
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ShyForHim

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#7
God speaks to us through His word. Your answers are in the Bible. You obviously believe that Jesus is the son of God. Acts 2:38 says to repent of your sins and be baptized for the remission of your sins. Then you have to live a faithful life by worshipping as He wants us to. There is a pattern in the New Testament as to how the early disciples worshipped. They met on the first day of the week to take the Lord's Supper and sing, pray and preaching. You need to find a church that teaches these things as the Bible does. The Church of Christ does this. You can look up one and attend there and see how it goes.
Already got a church and got baptized, but that does not change why do I feel missing pieces.
 
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jody50

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Does the church you attend go by what the Bible teaches? There are many that say they do but you need to read the Bible and find out for sure.
 
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ShyForHim

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#9
Does the church you attend go by what the Bible teaches? There are many that say they do but you need to read the Bible and find out for sure.

Of course they do. It's a baptist church and we rely on the Bible only. Am I going through interrogation now? :)
 
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ShyForHim

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#10
The Fellowship of His Sufferings
"That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His Death." Phil3:10
"If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, take up his cross & follow Me!" Matt16:24
You can only Know Christ in the Power of His resurrection if you are willing to partake in the fellowship of His sufferings. That's why FEW will enter the Kingdom. The Narrow Gate & Difficult Path may not be preached in the modern church, but nothing can change the Truth of Christ's Own Gospel! Matt7:13-23
You will either take on the Mind of Christ, Phil2:5, Crucify your own passions & desires, Gal5:24, Purify your heart by obedience to the Truth, 1Pet1:22, or continue to walk in darkness making a false profession of faith. You may think yourself saved by Grace through faith, not of works, Eph2:8-9, but unless your life is showing forth the EVIDENCE of true conversion you have received the grace of God in Vain! 1Cor15:2
When All things become New, 2Cor13:5, you will take on a New attitude about sin. You will stop making excuses and Start 'Hungering & Thirsting after Righteousness!'
If you are destitute of this desire for genuine heart purity and freedom from the bondage of sin, you HAVE NOT Received the Living Christ! Rom6:15-18
One of the Clearest signs of phony Christianity in today's converts is a lax attitude toward sin. Because you have NEVER heard the true message of scripture, you remain in bondage to your sin, believing yourself to be saved by Grace, when you haven't one single shred of Obedient Faith in your heart!
"Do you NOT know that to whom you present yourselves slaves to obey, you are that one's slave whom you obey, whether sin to death or obedience to righteousness. But God be thanked that though you were slaves of sin, yet you OBEYED from the heart that form of doctrine to which you were delivered. And having been set free from sin, you become slaves to Righteousness!" Rom6:15-18
How could you NOT understand this passage?
Yet you will continue in your delusion, professing to know Christ and be assured of heaven when you die, while ignoring the Word of God and live your worldly lifestyle.
Most people have only heard half the Gospel. They know that Christ loves them that He lived, died & rose again for the sins of man. And if they 'believe' in Him they have eternal salvation through His name.
But they have no idea whatsoever that God intends to Judge sin and take vengeance on the sinners who refuse to obey His Truth! Rom2:7-10
"When the Lord Jesus is revealed from heaven with His mighty angles, in flaming fire taking vengeance on those who do not know God and on those who do not OBEY the gospel. These shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord!" 2Thess1:8-9
This is why the Apostles warned those who would listen to be Saved from this perverse generation! Acts2:40. FLEE to God, Obey Him, and forsake your sinful ways!
But you still think all that's required is for you to believe in Christ and everything will be just fine. Even if you never do anything to prove you Love God. That's why you won't heed His warnings, even given in love.
"Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, patience and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?" Rom2:4
The Reason you think God is 'blessing' your life is because He's giving you time to REPENT before He pours out His wrath on your head!
"Therefore consider the goodness and Severity of God: on those who fell severity, but toward you goodness, IF you continue in His goodness. Otherwise you also will be cut off!" Rom11:22
Is it fair for your preachers to withhold these warnings? God will Judge sin according to the scriptures. How awful to appear at the Great Judgment unknowing that you will be sent away in sorrow because you NEVER obeyed God! Matt7:21-23 you will be crying out for the blood of the preachers who never took the time to warn you!
Although all men are without excuse before God, the stricter Judgment goes to the preachers. Woe unto them for withholding the 'severity' of God. James3:1
They could have at least made an effort to define what 'believe' means. But all they did was tell you time and again, 'Just believe on Christ & everything will be fine.' Had they included a brief description of what believing really is, it may have made a difference!
"Trust in, Cling to, rely on." Is the literal meaning of the word. Quite a bit more than just 'knowing'.
"The devils know and tremble!" James2:19
Unless you are 'Making every effort' to enter by the Narrow Gate, Luke13:24 and Obeying the Words of Christ as revealed in His Word, John14:15, you're just kidding yourself about salvation. Everybody 'thinks' they're saved, but FEW really are. Don't wait until the Judgment to find out. God says...
"He will render to each one according to his deeds. Eternal life to those who by patient continuance in doing good seek for glory, honor & immortality, but to those who are self-seeking & DO NOT OBEY the truth, but obey unrighteousness, indignation & wrath." Rom2:7-8
You cannot explain it away. There's no getting around it. Being Saved means following Jesus to the end. He said by: 'PATIENT CONTINUANCE' in doing good. What more do you need?
Obedience to the Truth will save your soul! Otherwise your 'knowing' is in Vain. Ask yourself, "Why do I profess to know God & NEVER read His Word, Obey His commandments, witness to others, or Purify my heart? 1John2:3-6
The Bible says you can 'Deceive yourself' by NOT being a DOER of the Word! James1:22
You can partake in the Power of His resurrection & the fellowship of His sufferings, NOT by self-debasement, but by Taking on the Mind of Christ and letting Him purity your motives, destroy your self-seeking and transform you into a true Child of God.
Standing the Gap
This is not encouraging but rather scary. What I've read in here brought me to tears and now I'm being paranoid about my beliefs. If few can be with him, then life loses its sense in following him.
 
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jody50

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Sorry, I didn't mean to sound too pushy. But your salvation is the most important thing there is so you want to be sure you are doing the right thing! I only want you to go to Heaven!!!!! I know of the Baptist church.. I believe they teach things different than the New Testament. Do you take the Lord's supper every 1st day of the week? Were you baptized FOR the remission of your sins or to join the church? Do you use musical instruments in worship? The New Testament doesn't authorize that. Just some things you need to think about and study. The Baptist church didn't start until the 1600's not in the New Testament. Please dont take these things the wrong way. Just study.
 
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ShyForHim

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Sorry, I didn't mean to sound too pushy. But your salvation is the most important thing there is so you want to be sure you are doing the right thing! I only want you to go to Heaven!!!!! I know of the Baptist church.. I believe they teach things different than the New Testament. Do you take the Lord's supper every 1st day of the week? Were you baptized FOR the remission of your sins or to join the church? Do you use musical instruments in worship? The New Testament doesn't authorize that. Just some things you need to think about and study. The Baptist church didn't start until the 1600's not in the New Testament. Please dont take these things the wrong way. Just study.
Look, I'm in the church only for few months. Last Lord's Supper was on Christmas and I will be taking participation in the next one which is next week I think. We sing, we worship and we have Bible study twice a day on Sunday and another one on Thursday night. I was baptized in remission of the sins of course.

I know you worry but I asked God personally for a good church. They're good.
 

crossnote

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Shy,
Tommy specializes in being scary.
Perhaps what is missing is 'knowing Jesus more and more'.

But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith—that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you.
(Php 3:7-15)
 
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ShyForHim

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Shy,
Tommy specializes in being scary.
Perhaps what is missing is 'knowing Jesus more and more'.

But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith—that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead. Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you.
(Php 3:7-15)
You could say that my relationship with God is awkward, I don't always talk, I find silence often golden. You could say my tears are always prayers instead.

Also, I didn't quite catch up with the rest you've said.
 
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jody50

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#15
I understand what you are saying. But just because you think it is a "good" church doesn't mean it is the church God established in the New Testament. You have to make sure what they are doing is what is taught in the Bible. In Acts 20:7 says they took the Lord's supper on the first day of the week which implies it was done on every first day to remember His death. Secular history tells from the lst century showed christians assembled every lst day of the week and took the Lord's supper.
 
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ShyForHim

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#16
I understand what you are saying. But just because you think it is a "good" church doesn't mean it is the church God established in the New Testament. You have to make sure what they are doing is what is taught in the Bible. In Acts 20:7 says they took the Lord's supper on the first day of the week which implies it was done on every first day to remember His death. Secular history tells from the lst century showed christians assembled every lst day of the week and took the Lord's supper.
That sounds rituallic which I don't quite approve. I used to be catholic and catholic church does that. I find it good because God gave the church to me. There are little evangelical churches here in my town and this one is the most "peaceful" to say it like so because I am still recovering from my scars. God says it's good, otherwise I would have left the first few days while in there.

You're being paranoid, but we have the same beliefs. Just because we don't agree on one thing doesnt mean it's already bad.
 
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nonicknametouse

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#17
Hi newbie, You are young and I am proud of you for chosing Jesus to live for.

At this time in your life you are as a seed that is just up through the soil. God's word will nurture your new life and grow your roots strong and grounded in His word. I think maybe you need to find a mentor , which should be a mature Christian, in the Lord, not age. My mentor was 10 yrs younger than me, but so wise. who can help and teach you how to apply God's word in your life. Someone who can pray with you and spend time in His word with you. Find a group who can do bible studies with. God gives each of us gifts. Some are to teach, serve, encourage, etc. I will give you home work to do and ask you to read Romans chapter 12. It is a wonderful chapter and the gifts are in there too. As you grow and pray to the Lord about His will for you, He will reveal the gifts He has given you and it will give you an Idea of what He wants you to do. Wait on Him and He will answer. Don't be discouraged my dear. He hears you.
 
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Ariel82

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hi shyforhim.... some of the posters are antichurch, if you haven't noticed...sigh...

my suggestion is what you already picked up: more Bible study.

Try to read through the Bible. Maybe a one to three year bible reading plan and if you can find a group of other people willing to read through and discuss the verses it would be great. :)

also I know some people don't like reading, but if you can download MP3 and listen to the Bible there are a few free online websites.

There are also some great free audio sermons and prayer is always good.

When I was a new believer I always felt in my heart I wanted to DO more, but God showed me that study of His word is just as important as finding a ministry to volunteer or help in.

God wants us to feed the hungry, clothe the poor, visit widows and orphans and help show His love to the world. We all have something we can share with others. Just pray and ask God to show you how you can help those around you.

sometimes its as simple as sitting with a friend and giving them an ear and shoulder to cry upon. :) We are just so filled with God's love that the empty feeling is the overflowing need to share it somehow with others. :)

at least it was for me. :)

as for disobeying God in something... you have to know what God expects before you can truly answer that question. the solution to knowing what God wants is reading the Bible and praying.

here are some verses that gives me comfort.

Psalm 19
[SUP]7 [/SUP]The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul;
The testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple;
[SUP]8 [/SUP]The statutes of the Lord are right, rejoicing the heart;
The commandment of the Lord is pure, enlightening the eyes;
[SUP]9 [/SUP]The fear of the Lord is clean, enduring forever;
The judgments of the Lord are true and righteous altogether.
[SUP]10 [/SUP]More to be desired are they than gold,
Yea, than much fine gold;
Sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.
[SUP]11 [/SUP]Moreover by them Your servant is warned,
And in keeping them there is great reward.

[SUP]12[/SUP]Who can understand his errors?
Cleanse me from secret faults.
[SUP]13 [/SUP]Keep back Your servant also from presumptuous sins;
Let them not have dominion over me.
Then I shall be blameless,
And I shall be innocent of great transgression.



[SUP]14 [/SUP]Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart
Be acceptable in Your sight,
O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer.
 
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ShyForHim

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#19
Hi newbie, You are young and I am proud of you for chosing Jesus to live for.

At this time in your life you are as a seed that is just up through the soil. God's word will nurture your new life and grow your roots strong and grounded in His word. I think maybe you need to find a mentor , which should be a mature Christian, in the Lord, not age. My mentor was 10 yrs younger than me, but so wise. who can help and teach you how to apply God's word in your life. Someone who can pray with you and spend time in His word with you. Find a group who can do bible studies with. God gives each of us gifts. Some are to teach, serve, encourage, etc. I will give you home work to do and ask you to read Romans chapter 12. It is a wonderful chapter and the gifts are in there too. As you grow and pray to the Lord about His will for you, He will reveal the gifts He has given you and it will give you an Idea of what He wants you to do. Wait on Him and He will answer. Don't be discouraged my dear. He hears you.
I do have a mentor, but lately he hasn't been very much on (he lives in australia). I could ask my pastor for help, but I really need a mentor, I feel lost and confused and I simply don't know what to do most of the times.
 

Angela53510

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Jody, please stop with the church bashing!! Baptists believe the Bible. She prayed and found this church. When you think your church is the only one that has the right answers, you are in a cult! Think on that!

As for you, Shy, reading the Bible is the one thing you MUST do. Because you won't grow if you don't. You simply are missing the joy of hearing from God every day! I knew when I got saved I MUST read the Bible. Not to be saved, but to learn and grow.

You must commit to reading the word of God. That is our bread, our food. It sounds like you are starving, because a sermon on Sunday or a study group is not enough. Please google a read the Bible plan and stick to it. I just do a simple one, but I read the Bible every year. I have read it 30 times. One for every year I have been a Christian, except for the two years when I first had Rheumatoid Arthritis and was so ill and upset with God I could not read it. It's ok, God forgave me and he has used it for good.

As far as the silence with God, that is a good thing!! Don't let anyone tell you it is not.

"Be still and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10

I am just learning to be silent before God and he is teaching me. But I also rely on my Bible. Please get out that Bible, before you die of starvation. You are just hungry, I am sure.

God bless and praying for you!