why do Christian put down other Christains?

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wit2Christlv

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We are all brothers and sisters in Christ and there are different levels of maturity in Christ. So just because one is an infant and the other is a teenager doesnt mean to put that infant down. Infants may have dumb questions to you but as a mature Christian you should lead them down the right path, not call them lazy or say horrible things to them. Because if you do thats no being a mature Christian thats of the devil. Think about that next time you want to put a brother or sister in Christ down." LOVE EACHOTHER" IS THE WORDS STRAIGHT FROM JESUS' MOUTH. GOD BLESS
 
TheAristocat

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wit2Christlv said:
We are all brothers and sisters in Christ and there are different levels of maturity in Christ. So just because one is an infant and the other is a teenager doesnt mean to put that infant down. Infants may have dumb questions to you but as a mature Christian you should lead them down the right path, not call them lazy or say horrible things to them. Because if you do thats no being a mature Christian thats of the devil. Think about that next time you want to put a brother or sister in Christ down." LOVE EACHOTHER" IS THE WORDS STRAIGHT FROM JESUS' MOUTH. GOD BLESS
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I think we should love unbelievers and then love them even more when they become believers.
 
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Ariel82

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ever think that its the babies (or unbelievers) that are putting the others down?

kind of like playground bullies.
 
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gideon007

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it only mean two facts:

1. They are not true Christians
2. They are not mature at all

A true and mature Christian as i believe is the most considerate individual and does not easily judge other Christian or unbeliever, cause he himself before he got into that maturity gone through that stage on knowing nothing at all and just started to search for truth..

and as you said they should be the one to lead those who wants to know the truth . . . but if that someone keeps on arguing and arguing then it's better for that 'mature' Christian to avoid and leave without a word.. ;)
 
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jinx

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We are all still just human and this old human nature can get the best of any mature christian if given the chance. JESUS is perfect, not us.
 
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Tintin

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I put it down to insecurity and spiritual pride. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but if we're honest with ourselves, I think we'll realise that we all have our moments.
 
willfollowsGod

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It depends, what if a Christian is not putting down another Christian, but the other Christian thinks he is. But I understand it.
 
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Ugly

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wit2Christlv said:
We are all brothers and sisters in Christ and there are different levels of maturity in Christ. So just because one is an infant and the other is a teenager doesnt mean to put that infant down. Infants may have dumb questions to you but as a mature Christian you should lead them down the right path, not call them lazy or say horrible things to them. Because if you do thats no being a mature Christian thats of the devil. Think about that next time you want to put a brother or sister in Christ down." LOVE EACHOTHER" IS THE WORDS STRAIGHT FROM JESUS' MOUTH. GOD BLESS
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Sometimes its just pride. I know there is one member here who made a thread dedicated to the ''stupid questions'' people ask. He was ranting against people who are seeking basic bible knowledge. Usually these are new believers, or people seeking. He seems to me to be very prideful in his intellect and 'spiritual' knowledge and is often quick to criticize others, and often question peoples salvation over minute details. Look at the Pharisee's, they had the same attitude.
 
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sunnygurl

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Is that only the pizza kind of Pringles that causes the disorder of judgement of others???
 
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sunnygurl

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Maybe its because they forgot what 1 Corinthians 13: 1-13 says about love and thought it was all about being a resounding gong!! :D

........ Or didnt stop to taste the fruit of the Spirit Galatians 5:22-26 before jumping online and going live perhaps!
 
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Kate913

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This is true to an extent, but we must be careful in what we're calling putting other christians down, because the word is clear that we are to rebuke, encourage and admonish daily. We can't just encourage and admonish when the word says that rebuking one another, when we see each other in fault, is necessary. This is when we know that someone already knows something in the word but isn't living up to it. Accountability. I think often people use the verse "judge lest not you be judged" but that verse applies to unspiritual people. For the righteous God says "A righteous man judges all things". Because a man who is truely righteous makes judgements by holy spirit. So then it is about spiritual things that matter and not just what most people see going on on the surface. Sometimes, when we are in are flesh, or others are in theirs, rebuking and correction can falsely be called "putting someone down" and "unloving", when really...telling people what they need to hear is the only thing that is going to save them.
With the Love of Christ,
Kate
 
RickyZ

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We're human. We don't want to be wrong. And for some it's that while they're smart enough to teach, they don't realize they're still stupid enough to learn.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I find too that many of the times christians will rebuke or try to speak into another brother or sister's life in possibly a harsh or judgmental way because they in fact do not commune with these people. They are not like many of the early christians who all lived,ate & worked together,therefore it would make more sense & be expected to speak into the life of someone. Not to say that people back then still didn't fall into judging someone ...we all know about the speck in your brothers eye,but there's a plank in our own. Which is why it's so important that before we speak to that person,we should 1st pray,for ourselves,then them...then see if God is leading you to speak into that persons life. He may tell you to mind yer' own business,I got this covered!
 
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sunnygurl

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iTOREtheSKY said:
I find too that many of the times christians will rebuke or try to speak into another brother or sister's life in possibly a harsh or judgmental way because they in fact do not commune with these people.

Amen Brother
Proverbs 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
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tielbird

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And what chance is there that non-Christians will be inspired by Christians who judge other Christians to be non-Christian?
 
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dashadow

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I think all of us can be a bit offensive at times as well as defensive. As another poster pointed out, we all have our moments. As a parent, I sometimes chastise my children to teach them. Even when I do it calmly, they sometimes take offense. Unfortunately, there are times I don't do it calmly. I'll sometimes apologize for those moments. :)

As brothers and sisters in Christ, we have a duty to lovingly address the mischief of our Christian family members. Sometimes it takes a bit of "hard love". And that can sometimes cause bad blood. We all have different personalities and sensitivities. Some people fly off the handle for the slightest reason. And while I try to be considerate in my comments, I'm not good at walking on eggshells.

If what we do is out of love and concern, I see nothing wrong. If what we do is out of bitterness and spite, God will judge. I think people can recognize those who are here primarily for the sake of stirring up drama. I've been trying hard to keep my drama stirring to a minimum. But I'm sure I'll still stir up a bit every now and then. :)

Anyway, don't worry. These conflicts are a part of life. And the hateful will get their due.
 
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