It took me a while to figure it out but it's true. It would be easier to figure out if mens and women font's were in different colors. Then we could see more clearly that we are on different wave lengths. Men were trained as boy to listen to short direct speech. That's why we have Drill Sergeants. It's like English and Spanish. Listening for most men requires training because we are more accustomed to hearing the point first. It get's our attention and we can listen better that way. It's mostly our fault. My father said "go do this, because...", when he was trying to be polite, that is; not, "I need your attention because..." "will you please Go do this."