Recent content by Carebear8

I think it is only human of us in this day and age to question or judge the actions of those asking for handouts or finding themselves in those situations. Especially with drug epidemics in so many areas. However, I always feel as a Christian that I should treat others how I would want to be...

Thank you. He tried to be affectionate with me and somewhat intimate during affair but I knew things weren't right and I thought he was withdrawn due to many other things going on. I do believe his remorse is real and if he could take it back he would. It was a distraction during a very...

Thanks Roger. That made my day ;)

I have searched my heart and what God has put there. Sometimes it's hard for me to discern what He wants. But I have felt that maybe this all happened as a way to wake my husband up. He's a non-believer and I have prayed often for God to change his heart. Maybe having him hit rock bottom is His...

But isn't unfair that he committed the sin. He broke the marriage covenant. But in the one here fighting - and if he won't fight with me and I leave to have happiness for the next chapter of my life - I'm an adulteress? And no Christian man should therefore want me? How can that be right?

Thank you!

Thank you so much. I'll take all the prayers we can get. I am willing to do anything to work on this - but I can't do it by myself

Thank you. I set up therapy and he has said he will go. But I also feel like when the date comes he may not go. Or if he does he won't really try during it. If he sincerely tries I'm all in. But if he won't really try I just don't see how we're ever going to move past all of this

I truly believe in his remorse. He is still broken and we have been together since we were teenagers and he has had horrible things to deal with in his life the past few years (I won't go in to) - so I understand how he had a mid life crisis and made poor choices. He had been my best friend and...

I'm truly trying with all I've got. I will read it. All prayers for us welcome too. ;) Thank you

My husband had an affair. When I found out he ended it. We have been working on things. But he still won't be fully close to me intimately because he hates himself for what he did. It's been about a year and a half. We have no fun together & he feels he doesn't deserve to have a real life. I...

Thank you! Very helpful

I pray everyday and feel I have a good relationship with God. I journal and read some scripture and use a devotional everyday too. But I feel like I have a hard time knowing what God wants of me in certain situations in life. I will pray and talk to Him and really try to listen for anything He...

I have been working on my marriage for years and feel very unsure that we're going to make it. We have been dealing with his infidelity from the past. And I believe that if he'd had God in his life this never would have happened. If I may need to date in the future where are good places to find...