Recent content by dc44James

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    What is normal?

    I think "normal" is someone who lives as the Bible says. The rest is different. Just because something is the majority does not make it normal. And yes, us guys who live the "normal" life are always found to be weird. We are fine with it because we think the rest of you are :)
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    Help! My boyfriend keeps watching porn

    I learned something similar. We are not to live together without being married.
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    Help! My boyfriend keeps watching porn

    Part ways. It is hard. He broke his covenant with God, and you. Leave. Be good to yourself and know you found out before you made a bigger mistake. Lean on friends or this site.
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    married a pastors daughter and he divorced us

    First relax. Calm. Go to God. Make a schedule and sleep well. Take care of yourself. It is a marathon, not a sprint. Find a bible based church. Read on the law in your area and file a well thought out motion. You will get heard. But...and notice in the Bible that every time God says...
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    My fiance doesn't believe in the Trinity

    You are unequally yoked. You admit that. The rest is up to you. You know you cannot lead her to the truth. Choose wisely. If not marrying her is not an option than you don't need advice. Marry her.
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    Modest is Hottest

    Well, we all get to choose. Personally, I would not choose a woman who showed her body more than her heart. Same with a dirty dog man. Those guys are easy. Just stay away. The dirty dog girls tempt guys too. For me it is easy. If you look like you care more about your body than your heart...
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    How to date introverted Christian men?

    Absolutely true. My partner is going to PROVE by her actions, not words, that she is a worthy Christian partner. Of course, we must constantly prove it as well. Flattery is of the devil.
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    How to date introverted Christian men?

    That is me Kim. Amen.
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    How to date introverted Christian men?

    Almond. Yes. Wait. Pray for guidance from our father. Nothing good comes when we do it in our time, not his.
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    Holy Spirit or evil spirit who is talking to my wife

    Sounds like she is projecting her behaviors on you. Agree. You are not equally yoked. Let her go.
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    Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

    I am a single dad and my children and I have suffered from Narcissistic abuse. The details are not pretty and not needed. Has anyone else experienced this? It took so long for the truth to come out and we're just sticking with God now. Even with some unattractive truths coming out, the...
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    What do I do???!!!

    First. Congratulate yourself for admitting it. It is a sin but to ignore it is a bigger one. I speak from experience. We are reeling from the abuse of a female sex addict in our life. You immediately tell your husband, ask him to be the Godly man you need him to be and you speak to someone...