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Praise the Lord that you decided to accept Christ and be transformed into a new man. Sanctification is a process-- it does not happen overnight. But you are taking all the right steps to separate yourself from the things of this world which took you down a dark and deadly road. I pray that God...

Well, if he does come back, know that you're in my prayers!

Yes! I am healing from a very bad marriage that was full of narcissistic abuse and gaslighting from my husband. In short, he committed adultery from the onset of our marriage, but he could not empathize with the pain that it caused me. He expected me to just forgive and move on and trust him...

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Xethea, my post was in response to Prognostic, the originator of this thread. He/she asked: "If I'm a believer, although not really a devout practitioner (one who practices his/her faith). Why do I continue to sin even though I know that it's a sin against God? If I know it offends God. Why do...

What the Bible says is true about forgiveness and marriage, and the Bible also does not require a spouse to stay in a marriage when the other spouse commits adultery. One can forgive the sin that was committed against the marriage, but choose not to trust that person again. Once trust is broken...

I completely agree with this. You both committed adultery. Your use of porn was regular adultery. The husband should protect and uphold his marriage. Struggling with porn since you were 10 should have been a tip-off that you were not ready to be a husband until you were ready to leave all other...

Nimbus, it is not a recreational toy. It is a tool of satan that changes a person at the deepest level. Belittling its purpose does not change the devastating effect that it has on people who use it, and the relationships that are destroyed because of it. Even after someone stops using it, it...

Using porn is committing adultery. It has no place inside a marriage. I consider it the equivalent of methamphetamines to the brain. It corrodes the brain, the heart, and the soul.

One more thing, when you say you do not practice your faith, remember what the Lord reveals in the Book of James 2:14-20: 14 What doth it profit, my brethren, though a man say he hath faith, and have not works? can faith save him? 15 If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food...

Loneliness is very normal and Jesus understood it very well. We are made for companionship. That said, when something becomes our sole focus, it can easily turn into an idol in our lives. It sounds like the idea of finding your soulmate has become more important to you than almost anything else...

"You cannot win the battle against demons if you are still enjoying their company." Ask yourself whether you are allowing the Holy Spirit to transform you into a new man. Think about your relationship with Jesus. Is it growing? Are you falling deeper and deeper in love with the Lord? Are you...

Pray for God to take away any desires that are not of Him. He would not give us desires for anything that are contrary to what is good, noble, pure, true, holy, and lovely. I battled against similar thoughts when I was in my teen years. One day, I asked God to take those thoughts away and he...