Recent content by JamieJ3

The Red Clay Strays. Not billed as a Christian band, though they have some blatant faith based lyrics in some songs. Great musicians and the lead singer has this Johnny Cash and Elvis kind of thing going on. They just have it.

This is exactly what I would've said. It's also the answer to a lot of other questions and "dilemmas" I see voiced here.

Same thing I think about every day --- How to conquer the world.

Someone posed the question "Why?" to the OP. I appreciate the OP's wonderings. This is why I do: I think people should have an idea where they stand on these things AND discuss it with their potential spouse BEFORE they get married. Otherwise, you're just inviting in some potential conflict...

I've never murdered a man, but I can still tell you I believe it's sinful and wrong. Therefore, I will not murder. Arguing about who is worthy or not to post in this thread is fruitless.

Usually too many things at once.

So? Millions are also going to hell, unfortunately. That comment is about your logic, not this issue. Relating to this, I never said it was a sin. I just stated that there seems to be good evidence it is increasing cancer problems. Assuming that data is accurate and true, then that says...

Hey T. It looks like you haven't logged on for a few days, but maybe you're still reading here. Just in case, I wanted to share a link to a very long writing someone made on another site. I am not promoting that site, but I think this lengthy read is worth it. Plus, it's time spent doing...

I think that's terrible advice. Some God-loving men are very genuine in their words and actions. I understand why you'd be cautious though. Also, Jesus walked the Earth as a man.

This is how I lean: I think God intended some parts to be exit only. Unnatural activity there can lead to medical issues as well. As for another act, there seems to be more data that it is responsible for some surge in oral cancer. Sticking with parts intended to go together would be ideal. I...

If you're "not on the market" is it safe to say your current guy is okay with you as you are? If so, then why think too much over it? If not, maybe that's the contention and why you're asking. Unless you just mean you're not allowing yourself to date now and there is no guy. "Off the market"...

God bless you for publicly asking for advice. I think with any sin addiction it comes down to this: You have to love God more than it. I can't tell you exactly what that may look like in your life, but it's something to ponder. It will certainly involve a lot of prayer and staying in His word.