Recent content by justahumanbeing

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    What are you listening to?

    This is the song from the video. It is a good song @ATSTD hope you enjoy!
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    What are you listening to?

    Nice to hear a man lead his kids by example. I admire you Sir. Even if you don't have kids, that's still a lot of dedication. I appreciate you
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    What are you listening to?

    One of my favourite songs with the passion of the Christ movie as footage. You have to sign in to watch. Age Restricted. God bless
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    Help please.

    It's ok. Welcome to the beginning of your life. You do realise that love cannot be forced don't you. Just keep trying. It is not the end of the world. The first few times of heartbreak is hard. You will get used to it. If that person was meant for you, God will unite you with him. If it is not...
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    What Days Are You Most Likely to Post/Catch Up With CC?

    I come here when i get the time. Just to spend time with people with matters related to faith and life. Keep it easy. I try to be here when I can. That's what a community is about. But life is usually busy for me.
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    Keeping The Kids Accountable

    Just be there for them. Be available to spend at least half an hour a day just to talk to them about their school life and their day to day activities. Help them understand life. Support their interests. Teach them right from wrong. Reward them for what they do right and punish them if they do...
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    It's Time For Another Be-Loo-Tiful Discussion! How Often Do YOU Clean the Bathroom?

    I flush the toilet after use of course :) I have yet to help out on cleaning at home. Thanks for reminding me. My current job is such that I attend nature's call wherever I go. Toilet. Out in the open. Such is the nature of my job. Excuse me for my honesty. I'm in a rush all the time. So when...
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    Nothing but questions.

    If i don't ask no questions, I don't get no lies. Who else but education helps build the wall with all the bricks on them? Do we need such education for kids in general?
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    interfaith marriage

    On reading the other replies, I gather it must be hard for you. Have you considered separation from him? Better to live your life away from such a man that beats and physically abuses his wife than with him and the kids. Him mistreating you would have a lasting effect on the kids. Separate and...
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    interfaith marriage

    God accepts us exactly the way we are. He is your spouse. So what if he believes differently from you. You are called by God to accept him as he is and love him. Don't let your faith in God stop you from accepting and loving him as he is. Respect what he believes in and give him space. You be...
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    Crumbling marriage

    You must realise that we as men don't and can't always be honest emotionally with women. I'll tell you a little about me. I wanted to marry being a virgin. My mother taught me that. We are all taught things in our lives and we try to live up to them. And we fail. I am neither married nor am I a...
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    Crumbling marriage

    Yes, I am a man. I never said that it wasn't hurtful for the woman. Please read what I shared carefully. There are far worse hurts than that. Both men and women are capable of the same things. It is awful to be betrayed. I just tried to help as best I could according to my life experiences. I am...
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    What are you listening to?

    It's a beautiful song, I love the lyrics too :)
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    Crumbling marriage

    Your husband is a human being. He isn't a machine. You have to accept him as he is. Not for who you want him to be. Didn't you promise, "In good and bad, in sickness and in health." You're old school. I respect you for your values. It's fair to expect your spouse to love you as you love your...
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    Gaming / Boredom / Alternatives?

    Someone beat me to it. There you go. You can spend an eternity mastering the art of doing someone else mentally. You can communicate your dominance and test your mental endurance and build resilience through this amazing game. The oldest of board games. You will never get bored. Old school...