Recent content by LilyLola

Oohh okay thank you for telling me!

No I never said attraction isn't important, I said the opposite actually. I said it is important but not the most important at all. And the first part of my comment was referring to the guy who said that sex was the most important.

I think most women with high salary don't mind tbh, at least I don't

Oh uh personally I don't believe relationships are mostly about that but I do think attraction is important. But it's not the reasoning in a (Christian) relationship (usually)

Hi I'm sorry I replied so late, I didn't see your comment. I don't really have a minimum salary tbh. I don't think my reproductive window is any of your business but I am 23 so I think I'm fine. My professors aren't left wing at all. I also don't want an "alpha" male. I never had any debt...

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Oh I'm sorry that that happened to you, she might've been making excuses to cover her bad behavior? (I don't know ofcourse since I don't know your story but it is weird she suddenly mentioned that)

Oh so you do think it's a dealbreaker for most guys? And obviously I wouldn't torment him with it, there are plenty of guys who are smarter than me but just choose a less well paying field (like science). Or is it different when the guy also has multiple degrees but just a less paying field than...

i don't understand what you mean, are you saying it will bother most guys? And there are only a few who wouldn't be bothered?

Yeah I know it is a bit strange, I just see it a lot and that's why I was a bit scared

IG it's because I see a lot of Christians saying a woman should stay at home more and that the man should be the provider, which leads to them saying men should earn more because otherwise he isn't a provider.

No I said I didn't mind if a guy makes less than me, I think a lot of men don't want to be with a woman who makes more is what I said.

Hello everyone, I'm an young woman and I'm single now. After my studies I found I job I really like (it's law related). My "problem" is that the salary is way above average for a normal starting salary, and I'm scared I'll meet a great man and then he wouldn't want to be with me because my...

Hi, I am a young adult Christian woman and I have never had a boyfriend, but I dream of finding my husband. However, I do not like it when guys I'm interested in follow women who they don't know or don't follow just because they're an athlete in a sport they watch. It makes me very uninterested...

Hi all! Thank you so much for all your replies, it really helped and i really appreciate it the time you took to help me. I will follow all the advice of video's, reading the bible daily, face to face conversations with Christians etc. I do have to say I am not easily convinced by big...