Recent content by NeedAdvice123

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    Marriage problem

    I told her i believe she has never really put God at the centre of our relationship in bed, but she says its pathetic if we need to, and it should just work anyway
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    Marriage problem

    Lots of passion and adventurous already. Didnt hold back. I already told her before we were married that if anything happened to prevent us from having sex, i would stay with her. God gives you the grace needed for the situation, but I dont believe God even wants us to be celibate
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    Marriage problem

    I’m certain she’s born again, but can see why youd ask. The reason there has been a problem for years us that i was working on being ‘good’ at sexual technique; that is what we saw the problem as. I seem to finally be ok at that now but theres obvs still a problem. She also said that i need to...
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    Marriage problem

    We’re both definitely born again. This is why im so confused about her avoiding the body of Christ all these years. I explained to her that God just does important stuff when youre part of it that i cant even explain some of, but she doesnt really see it
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    Marriage problem

    Firstly she said she had never even kissed a guy, but a a couple of years after we married she admitted shed had a few boyfriends and didnt want to say because she didnt know if she could trustme when we first met. She said the main thing is they disnt have sex. She admitted they had oral sex...
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    Marriage problem

    Thank you for your reply. Our communication is very good. We can talk about anything. We definitelymake each other laugh. We have the same kind of understanding of God and interest in Him (we are both definitely saved, except I go to church every week and always tried to be involved, but my wife...
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    Marriage problem

    Hi, Background: My wife and I married nearly ten years ago. Each of us had almost no sexual experience before getting married. I used to watch porn before dating my wife, but haven’t been that way for many years now, so porn is not an issue for either of us (just saying, as that seems to be the...