Jesus cared about His sons and spent time with them. Any "father" who does not spend time with his sons and daughters, is not a real Spiritual Father. Many desire to call themselves Fathers, but there are very few that actually are fathers. What do you think?
Jesus' sons never felt like they were bothering him with questions for they had an open door to communicate with Him. Some of our leaders who claim to be Spiritual Fathers do not respond to emails or phone calls for days or weeks. This can be very damaging to a Spiritual Son, and Jesus understood this.
Jesus called to Himself those sons who God ordained for Him and appointed them to be with Him (Mark 3:13-15). He gave His spiritual sons access to Him every day. His sons didn’t have to go through his secretary in order to schedule a time to talk to Jesus. They had direct access to Him whenever they wanted, as a true family does.
A prophetess once asked me, who is a spiritual father, is? I am using this medium to share part of my answers to her questions so we can all learn from it. We must always look to Jesus as our example of how to do things. Jesus is the perfect example of a Spiritual Father. Jesus even calls Himself a father (Hebrews 2:13).