Recent content by Vigilbyheart

Know I get it the problem is you want to understand what you want to hear. No one is talking about not forgiving anyone. The fact is his misleading not only himself but other ppl too . No one has anything against him so we can speak of forgiveness. Even christ speak of if we do not acknowledge...

Thank you dear. His not wrong he just think I have hate in me and playing the good. The reason I left is because I believe what is being done in the church is not right I stayed almost for two years thinking they will correct the matter but nothing was happening the issue is being ignored like...

I am not blaming anyone. I have stated what's currently happening now and I am not a pretender as well his aware I am not happy with his actions. This is not a personal matter Is not about him leaving my aunt is about him misleading the congregation if u can't rectify yr own mistakes how do u...

My uncle will think I am angry just like some of u here think. He will not listen to me because the woman he abandon with a ring is my late mam's sister. Do u get me.

I heard u dear thanks for your word

I don't say he should be punish all I am saying is that he should be relief from his duties. His a preacher don't he realise his wrong forget about him being wrong what about the head of the church can't he see what my uncle is doing is giving a bad example to the members

I thought so as well although I shouldn't I fear for my own life.

I don't mind myself that much but what about those who want to repent and want to join the church. What about those in the church they will feel it's the right thing to do since a preacher is doing it in the long run there wont be order each individual will do what he or she feels like doing and...

Face my uncle who I am I if he has the pastor's support and some of the members. 50% of the church members are his relatives and 30% are pastor's relatives. Where do I stand. All my family left I remained there until I couldn't bear it any longer. I continued worshipping later it became worse...

You are right. That was the last option for me. A church supposed to be democratic , yet some church out there are still serving under dictatorship

I am just a youth who have a little right to call elders to a meeting. Everyone seems to fit well with this predicament. His standing at the altar preaching and the pastor does nothing to rebuke him who I am I? I have watch it happens and I ask God to pardon me cause I couldn't bear it any...

I can relate. It is really hard. It is easier said then done but then remember love itself is not selfish and it is long suffering. Christianity is not supposed to be easy. When you do the right thing in a difficult situation is what count most in christianity. You will shine.

Always dear.