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Who said I was meeting someone at church. Before you judge please reread my post. I said it’s hard to meet people being Christian and a nerd. I am in a singles ministry at church and when we come up with activities my suggestions usually get a side eye because others are not interested. Hence...

I’m in my late 30s so it’s not so much maintaining a friendship. I just would like to for once share my interest with others. So much of my time is spent around doing for others this is something I like to do for myself but I’m always solo.

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There are times when I feel as if I will never meet a partner or people in general with my interest. Not only am I a Christian but I am also a Nerd. Meaning my hobbies include watching anime or reading comics and webtoons. I also game actively. A night in might consist of trivia or jigsaw...

When I fellowship at church and worship with other saints in the body of Christ. It’s nothing like witnessing everyone experience the presence of the Lord as a whole. It’s a freeing experience to be able to worship in the presence of the Lord and to feel supported. There have been times when I...

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Edit:... It may take a few attempts until you meet the right person to enter into a period of courtship with. Until then just enjoy meeting new people and avoid conforming to the ways of the world. We know that God has called us to marry if we can't maintain a single life. Not be in long term...

No you wouldn't court a stranger. I think there is a misunderstanding in my post. I go on dates but I don't date. I don't have boyfriend's or commit to long term or casual relationships. From my experience this opens the door for sexual sin and the consequences that follow. I don't know anyone...

I just joined my church right before the pandemic began. So I haven't had a chance to experience what I mentioned personally. My church does not have a huge population if young adults but we are encouraged to fellowship and participate with other churches who do offer these services. Hopefully...

You're absolutely correct. That's why they have young adult and adult mixers at church so you can familiarize yourself with other singles and then move forward from there. Courtship is rather complicated, it's not for everyone. I prefer it because I've done the opposite up until I was saved. I...

Simply put, courting only has one outcome and that is marriage. Courting in other words dating with intent to marry. The is actively seeking that one woman with intent to marry. The families are aware as well as church leaders. It's a bit old fashioned but I feel like it's the safest route to...

Thank you everyone for your advice. I've made a decision remove myself from the situation all together. On top of everything that was shared with me here, God also sent me confirmation today by revealing some things. It's definitely not worth the risk. Many blessings to you all.