Who Would I Lay My Life down For

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Apr 20, 2010
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I know that this is a very dramatic topic. It is very hard to detach our inborn instinct at self preservation & our emotional responses & really look at this question rationally.

We know that in John 15:13 it says "Greater love has no man than this,that he lays down his life for his friends". We know that we do not have to specifically "die"... to die to our own self interest. That is a good place to be.To be where we love people as ourself, & actually put others first, as Jesus did. This is a worthy goal in life. I have been musing lately about how far is too far to go with this, or if in fact we can go "to the wall" with this, as so many have done over the centuries. We know that as believers we have the freedom to lay down our lives... for Jesus & for others. That word freedom.... did I really use that word? Is it truly freedom that we have in this matter? I really think that this is the operative word, because we in the west do have a modicum of freedom to do as we please, within legal limits. Why in the "civilization" that we have in the west would I bring this subject up that seems so far away?

On April 20th 1999 two teenage boys went on a shooting spree,killing 12 students & injuring 21 others. It was reported in the Rocky Mountain News that Cassie Bernall, a seventeen year old student, when asked by one of the perpetrators if she believed in God she said yes.... and that was the last thing she ever said. That same year, Seven people were killed & seven were wounded at Wedgwood Baptist church in Fort Worth Texas by a man... who just for whatever reason chose to do this. It can happen here, & as foreign as it seems now,persecution can come to this country.I guess though my real question is who would I give my life for? People in our armed services risk life & limb every day for us. Sadly,many die yearly protecting the country we live in.They lay their lives down.... for us. It is troubling to me on a personal level to think about this. I remember the line Tom Hanks used in the movie Saving Private Ryan. While Hank's Character lay dying in a French town shortly after the Normandy invasion, He said to the namesake of the movie who they had come to rescue "earn this". I wonder, do we earn this? For the sacrifice of those who willingly risked life for us & payed the ultimate sacrifice... do we earn this? We know of one who 2,000 years ago died for us... so we could live with Him for eternity. I know we can never even begin to earn that, but I wonder if we even think about trying. Do we give honest & rational thought about how far we would go to lay down our personal life for our neighbor. For the stranger... for the homeless guy... for the person who is far from God & maybe not even looking for Him. It is actually true that we never really know what we would do until we get in those situations, & when these things happen, so often all that is left are the grieving & newspaper headlines. I cannot really tell you why this is on my heart today, but it seemed important enough to address in writing. Maybe tonight... or maybe right now... we can take a moment to consider the question,"Who would I lay my life down for?" Jesus told us that "Whosoever would gain his life shall lose it,but whosoever would lose his life for my sake shall find it". Maybe laying life down... is not loss after all.Maybe it is actually gain,as the apostle Paul said. I leave you with a link to a song titled willingly, sung by Damaris Carbaugh. God bless you, & know that we are not promised tomorrow.We are however promised forever if that forever is found in our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ.
Band of Brothers - Main Title 'Requiem for a Soldier' Song - YouTube
 
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JustAnotherUser

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I don't think this is a far topic from us. Firefighters, soldiers, police officers at some point put their lives at risk for others. They wouldn't have been under those fields if they weren't willing to risk themselves in that way.

For ordinary people it can be rare, but that doesn't mean it never happens. I think it's more to do within that 'spare of the moment' for when something does happen and if anyone is willing to risk themselves to help that person. Many probably would say they'd put their life on the line for friends and family at least, but depending on the circumstance, would you really? Same can apply for any risk no matter how greater or small it is, many aren't willing to do so for the sake of others while they risk on losing something. So to say about that when it comes to our lives it would be questionable.
 

p_rehbein

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this happens each and every day.........somewhere in the world......and in many different places in a single day........it is not an uncommon event actually............

In my opinion, no one can truthfully answer the question until they are actually in a situation that may well call for them to do this...........we can comment on those we love enough to believe we would lay down our lives to save theirs........family, friends, etc.............but until the actual situation arises............ ???

Still, every day somewhere there is someone who has done EXACTLY this..............
 

Blain

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Actually I think about this all the time. Except it isnt just about death, I want to love every person so much and so strongly that I would be willing to burn in the very fires of hell for the sake of just one person. I honestly dont care who they are or what they have done what their religion is, how far I am willing to go or at least how far I will one day be willing to go borders on the insane.