Hurting Marriage

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jenn628

jenn628

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Aug 27, 2019
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Hi all,

Please pray for healing in my marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have endured a lot. My husband is in recovery for alcohol and porn addictions. Divorce is not on the table for us. But these addictions have devastated me and our marriage. Even though he’s working on everything, I still have deep wounds. I’m struggling with resentment and unforgiveness. I grieve for all the lost time. On top of all this, I struggle with anxiety, depression and daily headaches, which sometimes turn into severe/debilitating migraines. I do not feel like my experiences or feelings are typically validated by him, which causes me further emotional pain. I often feel like an inconvenience or a burden. In turn, I have a lot of anger towards him and can be very disrespectful. We are seeing a counselor but still fight a lot and we’re both just tired of all of it. It feels like a vicious cycle we can’t get out of. Anyways, thanks for listening and for your prayers. :)
 
Neatne

Neatne

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jenn628 said:
Hi all,

Please pray for healing in my marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have endured a lot. My husband is in recovery for alcohol and porn addictions. Divorce is not on the table for us. But these addictions have devastated me and our marriage. Even though he’s working on everything, I still have deep wounds. I’m struggling with resentment and unforgiveness. I grieve for all the lost time. On top of all this, I struggle with anxiety, depression and daily headaches, which sometimes turn into severe/debilitating migraines. I do not feel like my experiences or feelings are typically validated by him, which causes me further emotional pain. I often feel like an inconvenience or a burden. In turn, I have a lot of anger towards him and can be very disrespectful. We are seeing a counselor but still fight a lot and we’re both just tired of all of it. It feels like a vicious cycle we can’t get out of. Anyways, thanks for listening and for your prayers. :)
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Hi Jenn,

I’m praying for your marriage right now. You are a very strong woman and I admire your strength. My prayer is that God restore what the enemy is trying to destroy in your home. Believe that your home is restored in Jesus name. Be blessed sister.
 
levi85

levi85

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Father God we pray for jenn628 and her husband, please heal their marriage, and restore the peace, joy, love respect understanding in this marriage..lord set jenn628's husband free from alcohol and porn addiction, yes Lord bless him, we also pray for jenn628, heal her spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically. Lord bless this couple, and you be glorified, in their lives and marriage, Lord bless jenn628 and her husband to be a loving and caring spouse. In Jesus gracious name, Amen!
 
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ShowMercy

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jenn628 said:
Hi all,

Please pray for healing in my marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have endured a lot. My husband is in recovery for alcohol and porn addictions. Divorce is not on the table for us. But these addictions have devastated me and our marriage. Even though he’s working on everything, I still have deep wounds. I’m struggling with resentment and unforgiveness. I grieve for all the lost time. On top of all this, I struggle with anxiety, depression and daily headaches, which sometimes turn into severe/debilitating migraines. I do not feel like my experiences or feelings are typically validated by him, which causes me further emotional pain. I often feel like an inconvenience or a burden. In turn, I have a lot of anger towards him and can be very disrespectful. We are seeing a counselor but still fight a lot and we’re both just tired of all of it. It feels like a vicious cycle we can’t get out of. Anyways, thanks for listening and for your prayers. :)
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I will be praying for strength for him to be delivered from his addictions and for you to have comfort and peace . I go to a recovery group that people had the same addictions and have been delivered from them for 30 years or more . Keeping God and keep the faith in God .
 
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