I Don't Like Men

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Butterflyyy

Butterflyyy

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Locoponydirtman said:
She has red x'd all of miss butterfly's, speculation of abuse, and mental health issues, and even suicidal tendencies.
Maybe she is just red x happy.
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She posted on here a few days ago asking for the quickest way to kill herself and Dino tried to help her and gave her good advice.
 
Butterflyyy

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JamOn said:
just stop there’s no valid reason for it, you are holding on to the disappointment, forgive them.
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It's nice it always that easy when someone has been abused.
 
Butterflyyy

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JamOn said:
just stop there’s no valid reason for it, you are holding on to the disappointment, forgive them.
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It's not that easy to forgive when you have been abused and people telling you to forgive can feel very hurtful when they don't even know why you are at this place. Sometimes the only way we can forgive is by asking God to help us, and He is faithful. But we don't know all the details of how badly this person has been treated.
 
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LordsHandmaiden

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Butterflyyy said:
Yes that's exactly what you need, a return to the altar of prayer.... James 5:16.
Jesus commanded us to love one another😔
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Go fly fly fly!
I dont dislike nor hate a populace of any people!
If prayer is needed in my life.....I know where to go.
When the truth has been told (I read this whole thread) and a person can't handle the truth....prayer would be what I suggest!
I might love snakes but I'm not about to cuddle one!
 
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Locoponydirtman

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Butterflyyy said:
She posted on here a few days ago asking for the quickest way to kill herself and Dino tried to help her and gave her good advice.
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Well thanks for informing everybody 243 posts later. You were in this thread way earlier. Why didn't you say something day one?
 
Butterflyyy

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LordsHandmaiden said:
Go fly fly fly!
I dont dislike nor hate a populace of any people!
If prayer is needed in my life.....I know where to go.
When the truth has been told (I read this whole thread) and a person can't handle the truth....prayer would be what I suggest!
I might love snakes but I'm not about to cuddle one!
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7seasrekeyed said:
uh

no

I am not your brother

my husband didn't marry a man and I have never been confused as being one or mistaken by how I look for being one

dear me, why can't you stop judging everyone and everything and possibly ask questions

you do this in every thread you grace with your presence

make your own points please instead of trying to make points with all your suggestions :rolleyes:

I'd post a pic but I don't want any more guys wondering I'm the right one
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i beg your pardon, my error; I thought you were male.

I'm not judging, I'm caring about someone vulnerable.

If you don't like every thread I 'grace with my presence ' you know where the ignore button is remember?
 
Butterflyyy

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Locoponydirtman said:
Well thanks for informing everybody 243 posts later. You were in this thread way earlier. Why didn't you say something day one?
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Well it's not exactly the most tactful thing to have to say in such a sensitive situation and if you look I actually DID say, very soon after realising what was going on. You and the others involved in this joined this thread way later than me if you care to look back.
 
Butterflyyy

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7seasrekeyed said:
uh

no

I am not your brother

my husband didn't marry a man and I have never been confused as being one or mistaken by how I look for being one

dear me, why can't you stop judging everyone and everything and possibly ask questions

you do this in every thread you grace with your presence

make your own points please instead of trying to make points with all your suggestions :rolleyes:

I'd post a pic but I don't want any more guys wondering I'm the right one
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How was I supposed to know you were female when you limit who can view your info??
 
JamOn

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Butterflyyy said:
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It's not that easy to forgive when you have been abused and people telling you to forgive can feel very hurtful when they don't even know why you are at this place. Sometimes the only way we can forgive is by asking God to help us, and He is faithful. But we don't know all the details of how badly this person has been treated.
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True but sometimes I think some people look at the details and not the relief that can come from not looking at the details.

P.S. I am one who has been abused it never stopped me from forgiving, it’s the only rest I know to do.
 
JamOn

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Butterflyyy said:
How was I supposed to know you were female when you limit who can view your info??
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True indeed, if the poster blocks people from seeing their gender, they can’t come back and bark at someone for not knowing what is that lol...
 
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LordsHandmaiden

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Butterflyyy said:
i beg your pardon, my error; I thought you were male.

I'm not judging, I'm caring about someone vulnerable.

If you don't like every thread I 'grace with my presence ' you know where the ignore button is remember?
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Back at ya!
Love that IGNORE button......
Thank you.
 
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Locoponydirtman

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Butterflyyy said:
Well it's not exactly the most tactful thing to have to say in such a sensitive situation and if you look I actually DID say, very soon after realising what was going on. You and the others involved in this joined this thread way later than me if you care to look back.
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What posts number
 
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Locoponydirtman

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It's my general rule that I never ignore anyone.
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi

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omgosh I stopped taking anyone serious since the 4th post on this thread when it actually got derailed and not by my second comment, like someone said. And everyone still seems to be wanting to chime in, making assumptions. I think I have the right to be on here if I paid, that doesn't mean I'm not seeking help or genuinely want it, so for people to say that I am not being genuine only cause I'm still here, is ridiculous. lol I am appalled.
 
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morefaithrequired

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Professional Canceller equals Mafia Hitman?
 
Butterflyyy

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7seasrekeyed said:
uh

no

I am not your brother

my husband didn't marry a man and I have never been confused as being one or mistaken by how I look for being one

dear me, why can't you stop judging everyone and everything and possibly ask questions

you do this in every thread you grace with your presence

make your own points please instead of trying to make points with all your suggestions :rolleyes:

I'd post a pic but I don't want any more guys wondering I'm the right one
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You come across as
VineyardsOfEngedi said:
omgosh I stopped taking anyone serious since the 4th post on this thread when it actually got derailed and not by my second comment, like someone said. And everyone still seems to be wanting to chime in, making assumptions. I think I have the right to be on here if I paid, that doesn't mean I'm not seeking help or genuinely want it, so for people to say that I am not being genuine only cause I'm still here, is ridiculous. lol I am appalled.
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so am I x
 
JamOn

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I fully expected the X, no surprise I was waiting for it, and this wasn’t on the post above
 
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morefaithrequired

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whats the quickest way to kill yourself? is the same as Im going to kill myself?
dont think so.....
 
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