Is it too much to ask?

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MiShay

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Hey guys and gals! First time poster but I guess I'll get straight to the point. I don't interact very well with people even in my own church (grew up there) As a result it gets pretty lonely without Christian interaction AND not having the social backbone to do it properly. It gets especially worse trying to find someone since I've had no previous relationships.

I've tried to get on Christian websites where people could chat from all over the world feeling hopeful that I'd be able to connect with brothers and sisters I never knew I had. But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.

Is it too much to ask for a group of people who genuinely love and believe in the Lord and would happily have me in their circle? Are there people who feel this way too? And is it too much to ask for?
 
BrotherMike

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Just be you and post whatever God places on your heart. We won’t get along with everyone, but socialize with those that do (including outside internet life)
 
Mel85

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MiShay said:
Hey guys and gals! First time poster but I guess I'll get straight to the point. I don't interact very well with people even in my own church (grew up there) As a result it gets pretty lonely without Christian interaction AND not having the social backbone to do it properly. It gets especially worse trying to find someone since I've had no previous relationships.

I've tried to get on Christian websites where people could chat from all over the world feeling hopeful that I'd be able to connect with brothers and sisters I never knew I had. But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.

Is it too much to ask for a group of people who genuinely love and believe in the Lord and would happily have me in their circle? Are there people who feel this way too? And is it too much to ask for?
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Hello and welcome to CC :)

I can say that majority of us here are very friendly and share the commonality of what Jesus has done for us in our walks with Him.

Speaking for myself, yes of course I love the Lord with all my heart and I am glad you feel the same way!

Bless you sister 💜
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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MiShay said:
...But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.
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That sounds just like the live chat rooms here. And that's why I no longer bother going in them.. :sick:
 
BrotherMike

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zeroturbulence said:
That sounds just like the live chat rooms here. And that's why I no longer bother going in them.. :sick:
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Proverbs 20:3 New International Version (NIV)
3 It is to one’s honor to avoid strife,
but every fool is quick to quarrel.
 
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selfdissolving

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MiShay said:
Hey guys and gals! First time poster but I guess I'll get straight to the point. I don't interact very well with people even in my own church (grew up there) As a result it gets pretty lonely without Christian interaction AND not having the social backbone to do it properly. It gets especially worse trying to find someone since I've had no previous relationships.

I've tried to get on Christian websites where people could chat from all over the world feeling hopeful that I'd be able to connect with brothers and sisters I never knew I had. But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.

Is it too much to ask for a group of people who genuinely love and believe in the Lord and would happily have me in their circle? Are there people who feel this way too? And is it too much to ask for?
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welcome to CC! glad you joined!

one thing I can say about CC is: you'll find lots of genuine and authentic people here. everybody adds their own little burst of color to the mix.
 
Lynx

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Is it too much to demand?
I want a full house and a rock-'n'-roll band
Pens that won't run out of ink
And cool quiet and time to think
Shouldn't I have this?
Shouldn't I have this?
Shouldn't I have all of this?


MlShay did you ever go back to that chat room? The topic might have been different on a different day. Or there might have been no topic at all. Chat rooms change by the hour, or sometimes by the minute.
 
Lanolin

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yello!

Just avoid the BDF if you dont want to get into any arguments. Calvinists seem to love taking over there. They would argue over what IS is.
 
danja

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welcome MiShay and enjoy your stay <3 have a wonderful sunday :)
 
TabinRivCA

TabinRivCA

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MiShay said:
Hey guys and gals! First time poster but I guess I'll get straight to the point. I don't interact very well with people even in my own church (grew up there) As a result it gets pretty lonely without Christian interaction AND not having the social backbone to do it properly. It gets especially worse trying to find someone since I've had no previous relationships.

I've tried to get on Christian websites where people could chat from all over the world feeling hopeful that I'd be able to connect with brothers and sisters I never knew I had. But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.

Is it too much to ask for a group of people who genuinely love and believe in the Lord and would happily have me in their circle? Are there people who feel this way too? And is it too much to ask for?
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Hi and welcome to CC, There are many forums here I think you'll like. On the chat rooms, if I didn't like the train of thought, I would have to mix it up a bit and turn it around, lol. God bless you.
 
BlessedByGod

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MiShay said:
Hey guys and gals! First time poster but I guess I'll get straight to the point. I don't interact very well with people even in my own church (grew up there) As a result it gets pretty lonely without Christian interaction AND not having the social backbone to do it properly. It gets especially worse trying to find someone since I've had no previous relationships.

I've tried to get on Christian websites where people could chat from all over the world feeling hopeful that I'd be able to connect with brothers and sisters I never knew I had. But instead I was met with a one sided never ending argument about if God was a dictator.

Is it too much to ask for a group of people who genuinely love and believe in the Lord and would happily have me in their circle? Are there people who feel this way too? And is it too much to ask for?
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Well, first things first MiShay, it's nice to run around you and welcome to C.Chat😃!

Second, I hope you take some time to talk to others out there in C.Chatland. perhaps🤔 you will find others of good Faith in God to just have some good and positive conversation about God, life, goofy things to light up ur and others days!

If you find urself in wanting to chat, type in @BlessedByGod in the the chat thread, "The Chat Thread" and it will flag me you want to chat with me.

I hope God blesses you with help in this area and helps you find some nice Christian's to find as friends😃.
I pray this all helps🙃
 
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