Yeah it is sad Poinsetta, certainly not God's desire for us.
I remember once, it was about three or four in the morning. I was fast asleep but heard some noise out on the road. I looked outside only to see a guy push his girlfriend out of his car. He sped off. She staggered across the road and came up my driveway. I had forgotten to lock my car and she opened it and fell asleep on the back seat. I rang the police and they came over and tried to wake her up from her coma. They yelled and shook her over and over and over but she would not awaken.
After about what seemed like half an hour she finally woke up and they dragged her out of the car. When she was out of the car she started swearing at them. They took offense and rammed her into the back of the car. She immediately stopped, they then opened the back of the police van and shoved her in. I wasn't a christian at the time so I didn't speak to God about it but I just thought has she chosen this way or has life pushed her into a corner.