Falling in love!❤

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Lanolin

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The flower everyone loves...to hate

AGAPANTHUS (Greek for...love flower)

Grows anywhere, unconditionally, you cant kill it, even with roundup. Move over roses.
 
Lynx

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Lanolin said:
The flower everyone loves...to hate

AGAPANTHUS (Greek for...love flower)

Grows anywhere, unconditionally, you cant kill it, even with roundup. Move over roses.
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Weeds are plants God made, growing where humans decided they didn't want them growing.

What you love to hate, I'd love to have growing in my yard.
 
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I don't believe in love anymore.....so I don't even date. It's just going to be me in a tiny apartment with a dog the rest of my life. But I will have Jesus, and what other love could I need? :)
 
BrotherMike

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Beloved132 said:
I don't believe in love anymore.....so I don't even date. It's just going to be me in a tiny apartment with a dog the rest of my life. But I will have Jesus, and what other love could I need? :)
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I hear hopeless romantic everywhere... turn that into hopeful romantic and give it to God. I believe it’s out there just got to be patient for total peace.
 
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*hug* @Beloved132

I pray the Lord blesses you with peace and hope for the future, whatever His will for you may be.
 
Encouragement

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Beloved132 said:
I don't believe in love anymore.....so I don't even date. It's just going to be me in a tiny apartment with a dog the rest of my life. But I will have Jesus, and what other love could I need? :)
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Hi Beloved132 thanks for commenting on here.I get the impression that something has happened that's caused you not to belive in love anymore.I did have a time when i felt like this.Too much drama,hassle,complications,mis understandings,hurts ect..and I became dissolutioned by it all..
Love can be scary and uncertain...Praise God that our experience of him is not like our experiences with other people.
Sounds cool..with you dog,flat and jesus..
Plus it's a safe structure to live within.
Who knows maybe God may open up a door where romance does happen in a way you would NEVER expect..just like you would of never expected to be posting in this thread today..😊😊😊Thanks for commenting my dear..👍
 
Gregoryp

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I fell in love too, she happened to be a narcissist. Goes to show how the heart can be deceiving, learnt my lesson and now rely on the lord for my betrothed instead.
 
Encouragement

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BrotherMike said:
I hear hopeless romantic everywhere... turn that into hopeful romantic and give it to God. I believe it’s out there just got to be patient for total peace.
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Yes definitely believing in romance too.Who knows what our future lives will contain..only God has the plans for each of our lives.👍👍
 
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Gregoryp said:
I fell in love too, she happened to be a narcissist. Goes to show how the heart can be deceiving, learnt my lesson and now rely on the lord for my betrothed instead.
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Yes the heart is MOST deceiving...so is charm.You has a lucky escape then...there are many wolves dressed up as romantic sheep..Yet God knows what they are and may he keep you safe till someone right for you comes who will fit your life like a glove..🙏🏻
 
Spudd

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I have a hard time with love. I fall in love pretty easily, and I have to pray and realize that it's not right and I need to wait. The right person will come along in due time.
 
Encouragement

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Spudd said:
I have a hard time with love. I fall in love pretty easily, and I have to pray and realize that it's not right and I need to wait. The right person will come along in due time.
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Hi Spudd..gosh we must stop meeting like this.. 🤣🤣..yes sometimes we can very easily become emotionally attached to someone and develop genuine feelings for them...and this pattern can happen to us more times in quick sucession.It does leave us vulnerable too and I am sure you have been through some experiences too.I guess its WHO we fall in love with that's the most important thing..look st ssmson and deliah...👎👎..So yes wise decision you made of waiting,praying and believing you will meet someone just right for you..💏
 
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Encouragement said:
Hi Beloved132 thanks for commenting on here.I get the impression that something has happened that's caused you not to belive in love anymore.I did have a time when i felt like this.Too much drama,hassle,complications,mis understandings,hurts ect..and I became dissolutioned by it all..
Love can be scary and uncertain...Praise God that our experience of him is not like our experiences with other people.
Sounds cool..with you dog,flat and jesus..
Plus it's a safe structure to live within.
Who knows maybe God may open up a door where romance does happen in a way you would NEVER expect..just like you would of never expected to be posting in this thread today..😊😊😊Thanks for commenting my dear..👍
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Yes...something very painful and traumatic happened to me. And has caused me to see the world, people, and unfortunately men especially, in a completely different light. It was kind of like finding out at a very young age that Santa Claus wasn't real...I also found out at a fairly young age (my 20s) that love is just another fabricated illusion haha.
 
Encouragement

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Beloved132 said:
Yes...something very painful and traumatic happened to me. And has caused me to see the world, people, and unfortunately men especially, in a completely different light. It was kind of like finding out at a very young age that Santa Claus wasn't real...I also found out at a fairly young age (my 20s) that love is just another fabricated illusion haha.
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Yes that's what I sensed my dear.Such painful and traumatic experiences can have a long lasting affect on us and nothing can seem to change that.The affect can be incredibly profound...so I totally understand what you mean.I have always said that life is never black and white but a series of greys ect running inbetween.
I wish what ever happened to you never had happened because you are a precious sweet woman who Christ died for.Love is from God and from God alone...and the capacity to love is I every human being..but because of sin that the works of the enemie..many of us have experienced a so called love that is corrupted,evil,hurtful,abusive ect..which is so soul destroying..(causing trauma,deep insecurities..ect..)
May God create a miracle in your precious life to belive love does exsist..
In the mean time here are some flowers..💐💐💐🌻🌻🌻🌺🥀🌹🌷🌷..😊😊👍
 
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Encouragement said:
Yes that's what I sensed my dear.Such painful and traumatic experiences can have a long lasting affect on us and nothing can seem to change that.The affect can be incredibly profound...so I totally understand what you mean.I have always said that life is never black and white but a series of greys ect running inbetween.
I wish what ever happened to you never had happened because you are a precious sweet woman who Christ died for.Love is from God and from God alone...and the capacity to love is I every human being..but because of sin that the works of the enemie..many of us have experienced a so called love that is corrupted,evil,hurtful,abusive ect..which is so soul destroying..(causing trauma,deep insecurities..ect..)
May God create a miracle in your precious life to belive love does exsist..
In the mean time here are some flowers..💐💐💐🌻🌻🌻🌺🥀🌹🌷🌷..😊😊👍
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Awww, thank you so much for the understanding, kind, and encouraging words. And the flowers. :)
 
Encouragement

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Beloved132 said:
Awww, thank you so much for the understanding, kind, and encouraging words. And the flowers. :)
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Awwww back to you...yes I am very understand..if you find me understanding and empathic..how much more God..👍👍👍
Your welcome about the flowers..you might need to put them in a massive vase..(the flowers come with their own food sachets)..👍👍😊😊😊
 
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