Funny guy gets the woman?

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Lanolin

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or someone who looks funny? the best of both worlds!
 

Kireina

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As Jackson Browne said "it's who you look like, not who you are"
Sadly... but that is how it is to some... somewhere, in some places of this planet...where beauty is important and money is a must...but at the end of the day, maybe they are just like the rest of us... Maybe they are also longing for someone who will respect them, someone who will accept them and love every part of them...
 

Kireina

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I wonder if this is true that men find the good looking, not funny women more attractive than the women who are also good looking and funny...
 

Lanolin

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I saw Robin Williams appear in Patch Adams on tv and it reminded me of this thread. In real life Robin Williams had a rather complicated love life. He married and divorced twice. He was also addicted to alcohol and cocaine. He ended his life sadly when he found he had dementia. He left two children named after video games characters...he got clean because he didnt want to be the sad dad on drugs.

Another funny guy I read about, Theodore Geisel aka Dr Seuss, did write childrens books though he had no children of his own, and his first wife ended her life when she found out he was having an affair with a lady who was also married to someone else. He then married this lady, who left her children, two daughters for him.

I wouldnt say its all plain sailing for the wives of these men.
 

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dorks be with dorks.
that is it I'm done
to corney for me...
be blessed!
 

Adstar

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I always hear these words "I like someone who has good sense of humour" Humour matters more than good looks? which do you find more attractive in a man/woman? Good looks or good sense of humour?

Can a funny woman gets the guy too? Or it is only the other way around... 🤔
Having a good sense of humor and being Quick with a joke is a good indication that the person is intelligent.. Intelligence is an attractive quality that woman like.. An intelligent man is more likely to be successful in life and thus a woman who pairs with such a man can benefit from His success.. Thus many woman are attracted to funny guys..
 

BrotherMike

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Laughter makes the best medicine!!! I know most women if not all want a funny guy, who wouldn’t? I am mostly portrayed serious even though my heart doesn’t feel the same. Weird I know 😂 I rarely tell jokes but I’ll make a funny comment every now and then and like to be silly.

This makes me think though why do women look for humor more than men? Am I wrong in my thinking?
 

BrotherMike

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Having a good sense of humor and being Quick with a joke is a good indication that the person is intelligent.. Intelligence is an attractive quality that woman like.. An intelligent man is more likely to be successful in life and thus a woman who pairs with such a man can benefit from His success.. Thus many woman are attracted to funny guys..
There are people who are intelligent but slow to speak... not all are quick witted or speak freely what they really think. Introverts unite 🙌 lol
 

soberxp

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I love funny girls.Having a good sense of humor could make me laugh:LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL::LOL:
 

Lynx

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Having a good sense of humor and being Quick with a joke is a good indication that the person is intelligent.. Intelligence is an attractive quality that woman like.. An intelligent man is more likely to be successful in life and thus a woman who pairs with such a man can benefit from His success.. Thus many woman are attracted to funny guys..
I sure am glad you're wrong. I'd hate to live in a world where so many people were driven by blind instinct and profiteering motives.

Maybe it's just because I live in the South, where people are generally nicer. Maybe in other places the majority of people really are like you say.

Maybe I'm gonna stay down here. :cool:
 

soberxp

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I sure am glad you're wrong. I'd hate to live in a world where so many people were driven by blind instinct and profiteering motives.

Maybe it's just because I live in the South, where people are generally nicer. Maybe in other places the majority of people really are like you say.

Maybe I'm gonna stay down here. :cool:
Why fix yourself in a certain range.
Bind yourself by yourself.:sneaky:

Freedom in thinking,openmind-level.

hope you are not too old to change your mind.
 

Lynx

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Why fix yourself in a certain range.
Bind yourself by yourself.:sneaky:

Freedom in thinking,openmind-level.

hope you are not too old to change your mind.
If in other places the majority of people are like Adstar says, NO WAY I'm going there! :p
 

17Bees

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Theodore Geisel aka Dr Seuss, did write childrens books though he had no children of his own, and his first wife ended her life when she found out he was having an affair with a lady who was also married to someone else. He then married this lady, who left her children, two daughters for him.

I wouldnt say its all plain sailing for the wives of these men.
Turns out there really was a cat in the hat, huh?! Ole Dr Seuss..... well well. My hat's off to you sir........ of course, if it would do any good at all.
 

17Bees

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I wonder if this is true that men find the good looking, not funny women more attractive than the women who are also good looking and funny...
And now that I'm on a Dr Seuss kick (and won't be able to shake it the rest of the day (oh, such dismay - STOP IT) thank you soooo much Lanolin)....

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind! .....Dr. Seuss aka renegade husband...(with a number of hats, but no brats)
 

Kireina

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And now that I'm on a Dr Seuss kick (and won't be able to shake it the rest of the day (oh, such dismay - STOP IT) thank you soooo much Lanolin)....

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind! .....Dr. Seuss aka renegade husband...(with a number of hats, but no brats)
I don't know who is Dr. Seuss 🤔 but I know someone who is a popular love counselor named Dr. Des 😅
 

Adstar

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There are people who are intelligent but slow to speak... not all are quick witted or speak freely what they really think. Introverts unite 🙌 lol
Well i am an introvert too Brother :) And yes you are correct. But still an extrovert who is funny is probably more intelligence then an extrovert who is not that quick witted.
 

BrotherMike

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Well i am an introvert too Brother :) And yes you are correct. But still an extrovert who is funny is probably more intelligence then an extrovert who is not that quick witted.
I don’t know man... I’ve met some funny people who make some stupid decisions. I guess chalk it up to God who creates all of us uniquely beautiful.
 

Adstar

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I don’t know man... I’ve met some funny people who make some stupid decisions. I guess chalk it up to God who creates all of us uniquely beautiful.
Well intelligence is not the same as Wisdom Brother.. Too very different things..

An intelligent man can become a very accomplish scammer swindling millions out of investors and end up getting tracked down by a professional hitman, hired by one of the people he scammed and wind up in a hidden grave in secluded part of a national park..