HELP! I truly believe my mother is possess by an evil spirit

She claims to be a born again Christian for decades but she is truly the most evil human being ever. I have witness her commit some of the most atrocious things against children and women and against her own kids. The look on her eyes are so demonic. I have gotten far away from her but she wants to hurt me so bad, she has done it all her life. She displays so much jealousy towards me, literally cries and bangs her head against the wall whenever she sees me happy and drops to her knees asking God to kill my happiness. She acts like a demon and screams and starts being destructive like she is posses for no reason.

She is out to find me and according to her to hurt me, because if I ever left her that is what she would do. The hate and jealousy she has towards me is beyond terrifying. The only one that can stop her is God. What can I do to stop her from coming after me and have her forget about me? What can I do so that she realizes how wrong she is? What should I be asking God for? I've prayed for decades and things just get worst.

I thought of seeking a someone that has experience with evil spirits but don't know how or if that is even the right thing to do. I thought of putting up crucifix crosses around my house and perhaps carrying one. What about a shaman? Please HELP any advice appreciated

" The only one that can stop her is God.
1 - What can I do to stop her from coming after me and have her forget about me?
2 - What can I do so that she realizes how wrong she is?
3 - What should I be asking God for?"

1 and 2 are easy answers if you read your Bible. Nothing. When Pharaoh chased Moses you'll find at no point did God deny Pharoah to feel what he felt. Even as Pharaoh's angry and murderous heart trapsed at the heels of Moses God did not override free will to force Pharoah into an unwillful submission.
God, of course, does step in, with free will still fully intact, even for the now dead Pharaoh. But ironically the Jews still weren't free, even after being delivered from an external hatred. Because their hearts still were not any more lined up with God's than Pharaoh's was.
They fancied themselves as the innocent victims of a spiritual hatred, while using the same gold as their oppressors to build fake God's to worship, just like the Egyptians.


A shaman is one that seeks out demons to influence the people that come to him. Countries that tend to push the belief that these people have spiritual gifts may highly revere them and view their erratic, isolated lifestyles and spiritual visions. In first world countries you deny them a dollar and pray the police clean the dangerous plague off the streets. Because of their erratic, isolated lifestyles and strange visions. Funny how that works.

People experienced with evil spirits. 😁
Maybe you can have Keanu Reeves reprise his role as Constantine and shoot Holy water bullets at the demon through his magic gun?
Or, I don't know. Try that pesky bible idea again?
"Our battle is not against flesh and blood (including fake ministers claiming to specialize in an area of ministry or Hollywood actions heroes popping demons into mirrors..."


My advice, remove superstition, unbiblical ideas, dated religious concepts and Hollywood from what you think is happening.
Your mother's issue isn't demons, it's her own heart. That woman's needs treatment for substances at the least, and for mental illness as well.
She needs healing mentally, spiritually and emotionally, not deliverance.

"Safety is of the Lord" that's a quote Draw near to God and God will draw near to you that's a quote He that dwells in the the secret place of the most High shall Abide in the shadow of the Almighty. The fear of man brings a snare. Same thing a quote. Perfect love casts out fear . There are many instances where Jesus says Fear Not , Don't be afraid. What can you do ? Come boldly to the throne of grace and Ask for the Holy Spirit to fill you ( the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit) perfect love casts out fear this gives you boldness. Jesus said don't fear those who can kill you but not kill your soul but He said, I will tell you whom you shall fear . Fear Him who has power to do both. Look friend Jesus gives the Holy Spirit to them that ask Him. He just wants to be closer to you is all. God works through our entire lives getting us to do one thing Trust Him. With God on our side it is always Greater is He who is in you than He that is in the world. prayer , Praise access to the throne of God , authority in prayer to bind and command Satan to cease and desist be bound and remove every demonic assignment to your Mother. And Forgive you may have to be so close to Jesus to allow Him to do it through you but hey you are his possession filled with His spirit and He is able to do excedding abundantly above all we ask or think . Have a praise a thon with the Lord. Your mom probably isn't even thinking about you, Trust Jesus that His will is not to have you live in fear. You can do this , Have faith in the Blood of Jesus and go boldly to Him and talk to Him about it . He is all ears . Whatsoever we ask we receive if we ask according to His wiil . Hang tough. always . My family rejected Jesus when I first came to the Lord, Took years of intercession for some, Dad on his death bed in 2000 but 4 sibs and my mom came to a relationship with Jesus. Prayer Works . Trust that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Fear not Red Cars

What's stopping you from leaving exactly?

It sounds like some serious stuff surrounding you seem oppressed about this if nothing else. If someone felt like they were trapped in what sounds like an abusive situation, I would first want to know why you feel trapped. Can you put it into words?

Christians have authority and power over demons. They do not fear crucifixes, the Lord's prayer or shamans. They are terrified of the mighty name of Jesus. Unless the person who has a demon is willing to be set free, all that you can do is bind it. That will limit it but the person will not be free. They have to know that they have a demon. They have to be willing to be free.

It would be best if she was told by a person with authority who can counsel her correctly. My mentor had a wonderful ability to provoke people into manifesting evil spirits They would rant and rave and sometimes attempt to harm him. He would say something like, "Is this the love of Jesus?" Often that would bring them to their senses. He would then tell them that it was not them, but the demon that was manifesting. One of Satan's tricks is to get an individual to believe that the demon is actually them.

Do not confront her yourself. If you must confront her, have someone wise in the things of the Lord with you. Lord Jesus gave us the principle to go by:
Matthew 18:
"15If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ 17If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, regard him as you would a pagan or a tax collector."

Does she go to a church? Ideally, someone there will help. A lot of Christians are horrified when they realise that they are possessed by a demon. She will need some counseling after the deliverance.

I already left I no longer live with them and that is the problem. She never allowed me to leave otherwise she would harm my siblings (who I believe have stockholm syndrome) and she threaten to have them turn against me. I stuck around because I wanted my siblings to finish school and go to college get jobs and become independent, if I left mom wouldn't let them and they will do anything she says. She takes away their paycheck and controls the entire home. With me around at least I made them go to shcool, I would help them build up their savings under their name, I would get them to eat healthy, I would get them do charity work for the community, I would clean the house so they didn't have to breath in the filth around and hoarding that mom forces them to leave in. They also have dogs and I'm the one who walks them , plays with them, take them out, otherwise they just sit locked up in a room all day and just go to the backyard to poop. They are complete recluse. Mom wants everyone to be the same. She says I cannot live like a normal person and just sit inside the home all day with no contact of the outside world and be miserable like her. Her motto is "if one of us is miserable we must all be miserable"

I tried confronting her many times and she will go scary crazy, she will foam at the mouth, contorting her body, screaming incoherent sentences, look like something out of a movie. I feel you are so right, I always thought that someone with authority needs to tell her how wrong she is. But I dont and will never talk to her. Do you think God can still send someone?

Its funny to think that someone can do some sort of extortism, I think my mind goes there cause I've never seen anything like her and can't explain it other than demonic. Mom is a total recluse and has no interaction with the world at all other than her kids which she orders them to do harm wherever she sees opportunity, especially towards me, and they obey. I think they have stockholm syndrome, they are willing to do anything for her even if they go to prison or if it harms them. One time she told my sibling to commit suicide and she actually cry and said she will have to do it because mom told her, that's how controlled they are. Ever since I've been gone they mom has sent them to do some horrible horrible things to me which give them so much pleasure to hurt me, and they get away with it, that is I don't feel they are going to stop

I can emphathise with you, I feel your pain!!!!!!!!! I'm pretty sure that my mother in law is Satan himself!!!!!!!!!!!

You need prayer to bind demons, It will stop them for a while until they get cast out
Which does require fasting.

I know how easy it is for children to be comitted into mental institutions for being a bit nuts and out of control by their parents....but for offspring to commit their parents is harder unless the parent is suffering from some recongnizable disorder like dementia or something.

Witness how hard it is for drunks/alcoholics to go into rehab without intervention, unless they themselves own up to doing something wrong or get charged for breaking the law.

if you mother was a young mum on drugs, social workers would have separated her from her children and placed them in foster care.

when you mum thinks she is God thats the hard part. no talking to her will achieve much.
But you need to be wise and seprent and harmless as dove about how you go about deliverance.

Cult leaders and the brainwashed end up doing weird stuff (Jim Jones and Jonestown is surely a lesson for everyone) so its important that you are safe too.

If she is stalking and threatening to harm you then you should get a restraining order against her.

If you feel that she poses a serious threat to herself or anyone else due to mental health then you should have her committed to a psychiatric hospital for assessment and intervention.

I don't know what state you are in so I can't advise on the actual names and law codes there, but you can go to the courthouse and take out a 202A that is what it is called in KY. It is a warrant for involuntary hospitalization. In KY, I think it costs around 20 to 40 bucks, but not sure about costs in other states. You can call the county attorney's office in your area and ask about the policies and procedures in your state.

You have to be sure to tell them that she is threatening to harm you and others and all the other crazy things that she is doing. They will send officers from the county sheriff's office to arrest her and take her to the emergency room where she will be assessed by Mental Health professionals to see if she poses an immediate threat to herself or others and if she is in need of psychiatric hospitalization. If so, then she will be admitted to a psychiatric unit for 72 hours.

If it is mental health issues, then this will be a good start at getting her the treatment that she needs and will also help you and your siblings.

Yeah seems like my siblings have already drank her Kool-Aid

You're right the more I think about it the more it seems like is a mental issue

I was possessed myself, as my husband says. He witnessed some pretty radical behavior one night which made him call our Pastor, who was not experienced with demons whatsoever after 40 plus years. I guess the Pastor said he didnt even believe that the situation could ever happen in real life but only in the movies.
Im not sure what happened that night but the next morning I woke up and the demon was driven from me, after a long physical fight with my own body.
My husband had stepped out of faith for at least 15 years, refusing church. After this incident, we have not missed a day because what we hear is real! And what God did for me was real.

I don't know the user who made this thread personally so I may be in the wrong about this but trust me if she was posessed you would know. Let me give a small testimony of what happened yesterday I was coming to my sisters friends house and apparently they played with an ouija board last week and have three different spirits in their apartment, I know some people will claim to have such things and I know how sensative I am to anything spiritual so I decided to see if I could help them.

The second I stepped into the apartment I looked at my sister and said what have you guys done? The spiritual pressure was intense like a thick liquid I could only feel anger hatred and blood lust around me and inside me I knew exactly where this thing was standing in the room and I was glaring at it because the blood lust it had for my sister was intense and I am very protective of my sister.
To be honest it felt more real to me than most of what I experience with God.

Now I don't know if maybe some people can sense things and others just can't or if maybe when you encounter the real thing there will be no doubt but honestly demons aren't required people do a great job of being evil people on their own and sometimes it boils down to personality disorders or other medical issues as well. But one major rule even with demons is that they cannot simply possess someone they have to be invited in some way or form it can even be unintentional but just my persopnal opinion she is not posessed

I believe some elements of your story may be true, I find myself questioning the validity of much of it after your last post.

Essentially your story is your mother, possessed by a demon, has an intense hatred for you. This intense hatred is so powerful it caused her to brainwash her other children against you and from there she created a crime group. And you are their only focus. And she sends your siblings out and they constantly assault you, and gain pleasure from it.

This does not sound rational nor legitimate. There are endless unanswered questions.

When was your mother possessed?
How did she become possessed?
Why hate you alone?
Why is she obsessed with you?
Why is she jealous of you?
How old were her other kids when she convinced them to begin targeting you?

You say they keep getting away with it.
Have you called the police?
Do you call every single time an assault happens?
If not, why not?
It seems to me if you are so frequently assaulted they should have your case as a high priority and a rather easy solve since you already know who they are.
Have the police not offered protection or to set up an operation to catch them?
Why not?
Also others around you should see evidence of your frequent assaults and be asking about them. Likely at least one person would call the police on your behalf. Have they?

You say she told a sibling to commit suicide and she said she would.
How do you know your mother told her this? The only ones who would know are the siblings and they all enjoy hurting you, so they wouldn't tell you.
How do you know she cried?
Did she kill herself?
If so how do you know?
If not how do you know?
Was she punished?
Wouldn't your mother have her killed?
If she killed herself or was killed did you contact the police?
If her body is found then the information you provided would give them a target to start their investigation.
Combined with a long list of reported assaults she, and your siblings, should be in prison in no time at all.

In your OP you said
"She is out to find me and according to her to hurt me, because if I ever left her that is what she would do."
Yet now you state she has been sending people to assault you for some time now.
"If I ever left". I thought she didn't know where you were, how would she know you left?
Leave where?
She will hurt you if you leave, but you claim she's been sending to people to hurt you already.

I'm sure if I took the time I could find more to question I could but I think that what I have said so far more than proves my point that your story is full of holes and outright contradictions.