A Commentary on Matt 22:1-14 (The Wedding Feast)

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BenAvraham

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A midrash on the Parable of the marriage feast (Matt 22:1-14)

Just need to share this. It has been on my mind since yesterday. We all know, and some might not know, this parable that Yeshua told, about a king that gave an invitation to a marriage feast.

We read in Matthew (Matityahu) that a certain king gave a marriage feast. Doesn't say who was getting married, maybe the king himself. Would like to think that because it would fit the main gist of the story. He invited many and sent out his servants to tell those who were invited to come. Yet they didn't come, they weren't interested, they were more involved in their own things and activities. He even offered them the best of cooking, the fatted calves, a roasted ox, many more. But we can be sure that the king showed no stinginess. He went all out and prepared all the tasty foods (no roast pork nor shellfish, nor pepperoni pizza we can be sure of).

Still the guests didn't come, what's more, they even mistreated and even murdered the king's servants. The king sent out his armies to destroy those murderers, and then, sent more servants out to invite all the riff-raff, hobos, ragamuffins, schlemihls,. Commoners, low-income wage earners, welfare recipients, muggers, bandits, and even good, simple folk. Well, they all came, ye there was one who came and didn't have a wedding garment. The king asked the fellow why he didn't have a wedding garment, and the fellow was "speechless" (vs 12). Couldn't say a word, no excuse. guilty as charged.

Here comes the sentencing by the king: "Bind him hand and foot and cast him into outer darkness where there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth." then it is added; "Many are called but few are chosen"

Now, the explanation. A marriage feast was an important feast and the wealthy didn't mind spending a fortune on it. Even today, the expenses may go into many thousands of dollars. It was customary that back then, the master of ceremonies would provide the guests with special wedding garments to use, and afterwards, they would return them.

In this parable, the king invited many to come, yet they did not respond, and the kings servants were murdered. Adonai has sent out his prophets to tell the world about repentance, to "Shoov" back to God (turn back) to forsake their sins and rebellion and accept the forgiveness that God would offer, yet, they "murdered the prophets" and, in a way, "spat on the Torah" Adonai sent judgment, he sent the Babylonians to conquer Israel, and later, Titus of Rome. Israel would have to answer to their rebellion against Adonai and his precepts.

Today, the invitation is still sent out. There is a wedding feast awaiting those who have been called by the Lamb. The bridegroom is awaiting his bride. The invitation is for many and all who will respond, those who are poor and meek and those who are rich and famous, doesn't matter, we are ALL the same in God's eyes.

Yet to get into the wedding feast we all need a special garment, a wedding garment, and we all need the same garment. It is the "Beged Yeshuah" (The Garment of Salvation). The garment is Yeshua himself who stained it with his own blood. Those who have accepted the invitation accept Yeshua as their LORD and Savior. That is the garment that covers them.

But those who try to get into heaven without the "garment of Salvation" can only expect the wrath of the King, of King Yeshua. What else could this garment (in the parable) mean? if that guy that did not have on this garment, and had no excuse, because it was provided him yet he rejected it. Those who reject the "Beged Yeshuah" will be cast into "outer darkness" where there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth.

"darkness" is the opposite of "light" the absence of love, the absence of the presence of God. There will be pain and suffering, the memory of the invitation and the rejection of the "wedding garment" the rejection of Yeshuah by the same King Yeshua (play on words?) who offered it up with his own blood. Sounds like Sheol, Gehenna, hell, to me. But how can fire not be seen? if there is outer darkness? is it both literal and spiritual? this outer darkness? Where in the universe is "outer darkness" yet intense heat at the same time? Could it be a "black hole?" a neutron star that has imploded and collapsed into itself? so much gravity and heat yet no light. Could this be the outer darkness? Time will tell, time will tell.

The wedding feast is being prepared, the the invitation is being sent out. We hear it on the radio, the TV, by word of mouth, on the printed pages of His WORD. Many are called, but many are not interested. They are only interested in the here-and-now, and not the here-after.
They don't want the "Beged Yeshuah" they think they can make it on their own. Get to the wedding feast on their own accord. "A few are chosen" Yeshua wants a "good few men (and women)" those who will accept the garment of salvation, stained with His blood. The wedding feast is being prepared, the marriage will take place soon. Soon, all believers will be the "Wife of Yeshua" the Wife of Adonai" what better position could we ask for?

Ben Avraham
 

Gardenias

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I am sorry that I have neglected to read your post.
Carnal mind and lens was that few if any responses to your thread made it unworthy to read.I apologize.

This is so wonderful,straight forward and simple to understand. Thank you.

I will be reading your post now even if we don't engage again. There is NOTHING that I can add to the TRUTH.........Amen
 

Pilgrimshope

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A midrash on the Parable of the marriage feast (Matt 22:1-14)

Just need to share this. It has been on my mind since yesterday. We all know, and some might not know, this parable that Yeshua told, about a king that gave an invitation to a marriage feast.

We read in Matthew (Matityahu) that a certain king gave a marriage feast. Doesn't say who was getting married, maybe the king himself. Would like to think that because it would fit the main gist of the story. He invited many and sent out his servants to tell those who were invited to come. Yet they didn't come, they weren't interested, they were more involved in their own things and activities. He even offered them the best of cooking, the fatted calves, a roasted ox, many more. But we can be sure that the king showed no stinginess. He went all out and prepared all the tasty foods (no roast pork nor shellfish, nor pepperoni pizza we can be sure of).

Still the guests didn't come, what's more, they even mistreated and even murdered the king's servants. The king sent out his armies to destroy those murderers, and then, sent more servants out to invite all the riff-raff, hobos, ragamuffins, schlemihls,. Commoners, low-income wage earners, welfare recipients, muggers, bandits, and even good, simple folk. Well, they all came, ye there was one who came and didn't have a wedding garment. The king asked the fellow why he didn't have a wedding garment, and the fellow was "speechless" (vs 12). Couldn't say a word, no excuse. guilty as charged.

Here comes the sentencing by the king: "Bind him hand and foot and cast him into outer darkness where there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth." then it is added; "Many are called but few are chosen"

Now, the explanation. A marriage feast was an important feast and the wealthy didn't mind spending a fortune on it. Even today, the expenses may go into many thousands of dollars. It was customary that back then, the master of ceremonies would provide the guests with special wedding garments to use, and afterwards, they would return them.

In this parable, the king invited many to come, yet they did not respond, and the kings servants were murdered. Adonai has sent out his prophets to tell the world about repentance, to "Shoov" back to God (turn back) to forsake their sins and rebellion and accept the forgiveness that God would offer, yet, they "murdered the prophets" and, in a way, "spat on the Torah" Adonai sent judgment, he sent the Babylonians to conquer Israel, and later, Titus of Rome. Israel would have to answer to their rebellion against Adonai and his precepts.

Today, the invitation is still sent out. There is a wedding feast awaiting those who have been called by the Lamb. The bridegroom is awaiting his bride. The invitation is for many and all who will respond, those who are poor and meek and those who are rich and famous, doesn't matter, we are ALL the same in God's eyes.

Yet to get into the wedding feast we all need a special garment, a wedding garment, and we all need the same garment. It is the "Beged Yeshuah" (The Garment of Salvation). The garment is Yeshua himself who stained it with his own blood. Those who have accepted the invitation accept Yeshua as their LORD and Savior. That is the garment that covers them.

But those who try to get into heaven without the "garment of Salvation" can only expect the wrath of the King, of King Yeshua. What else could this garment (in the parable) mean? if that guy that did not have on this garment, and had no excuse, because it was provided him yet he rejected it. Those who reject the "Beged Yeshuah" will be cast into "outer darkness" where there will be wailing and gnashing of teeth.

"darkness" is the opposite of "light" the absence of love, the absence of the presence of God. There will be pain and suffering, the memory of the invitation and the rejection of the "wedding garment" the rejection of Yeshuah by the same King Yeshua (play on words?) who offered it up with his own blood. Sounds like Sheol, Gehenna, hell, to me. But how can fire not be seen? if there is outer darkness? is it both literal and spiritual? this outer darkness? Where in the universe is "outer darkness" yet intense heat at the same time? Could it be a "black hole?" a neutron star that has imploded and collapsed into itself? so much gravity and heat yet no light. Could this be the outer darkness? Time will tell, time will tell.

The wedding feast is being prepared, the the invitation is being sent out. We hear it on the radio, the TV, by word of mouth, on the printed pages of His WORD. Many are called, but many are not interested. They are only interested in the here-and-now, and not the here-after.
They don't want the "Beged Yeshuah" they think they can make it on their own. Get to the wedding feast on their own accord. "A few are chosen" Yeshua wants a "good few men (and women)" those who will accept the garment of salvation, stained with His blood. The wedding feast is being prepared, the marriage will take place soon. Soon, all believers will be the "Wife of Yeshua" the Wife of Adonai" what better position could we ask for?

Ben Avraham
great read !! I would like to add a thought from the book of revelation

The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22:2‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints.

And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God.

And I fell at his feet to worship him. And he said unto me, See thou do it not: I am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren that have the testimony of Jesus: worship God: for the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.”
‭‭Revelation‬ ‭19:7-10‬ ‭KJV‬‬

So the invitation to the wedding supper

“Now after that John was put in prison, Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God, And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭1:14-15‬ ‭

“And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭16:15-16‬ ‭KJV‬‬
 

Amanuensis

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Do you think it means that there are some who are thinking God will look over some things that they need to repent of and who will not change until they find out that God is not going to look over those things and casts them out?

Like maybe some people think they have done the necessary things to be qualified as "saved" but will find out they were not wearing the garment of the righteous deeds of the saints?

Not salvation by works, but that this person went too far in the other way and thought that his sins and vices would be "covered by the blood" or some kind of bad theology that uses grace for licentiousness?
 

Wansvic

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great read !! I would like to add a thought from the book of revelation

The kingdom of heaven is like unto a certain king, which made a marriage for his son,”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22:2‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints.

And he saith unto me, Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb. And he saith unto me, These are the true sayings of God.

And I fell at his feet to worship him. And he said unto me, See thou do it not: I am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren that have the testimony of Jesus: worship God: for the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.”
‭‭Revelation‬ ‭19:7-10‬ ‭KJV‬‬

So the invitation to the wedding supper

“Now after that John was put in prison, Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God, And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭1:14-15‬ ‭

“And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭16:15-16‬ ‭KJV‬‬
Notice the bride had made herself ready (Rev. 19:7) As such she received the required garment. As Jesus said submitting to water baptism was done to fulfill all righteousness. (Matt. 3:15-16) And as you noted those who believe and are baptized shall be saved. (Mark 16:16)

"...for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints."
 

TheDivineWatermark

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We read in Matthew (Matityahu) that a certain king gave a marriage feast. Doesn't say who was getting married, maybe the king himself.
As far as I can tell, verse 2 states that it is "[made a wedding feast] FOR HIS SON"

-- verse 2 https://biblehub.com/matthew/22-2.htm
to invite all the riff-raff, hobos, ragamuffins, schlemihls,. Commoners, low-income wage earners, welfare recipients, muggers, bandits, and even good, simple folk. Well, they all came, ye there was one who came and didn't have a wedding garment.
Right.
It was customary that back then, the master of ceremonies would provide the guests with special wedding garments to use,
Agreed! (y)
Yet to get into the wedding feast we all need a special garment, a wedding garment,
Yes. (...with a minor caveat, which I will explain at the bottom :) )
The wedding feast is being prepared, the marriage will take place soon.
As I understand Scripture, "the MARRIAGE" (pertaining to the "BRIDE / WIFE [SINGULAR]")
is DISTINCT FROM
"the wedding FEAST / SUPPER" (pertaining to the "guestS [PLURAL]")...

...and that "the wedding FEAST / SUPPER" (pertaining to "the kingdom OF THE heavenS" v.2) IS the promised and prophesied EARTHLY Millennial Kingdom (or at least its inauguration, commencing upon Christ's "RETURN" to the earth; like Luke 12:36-37,38,40 also alludes to [and its parallel], by saying: "when he will RETURN FROM the wedding" [i.e. as an ALREADY-WED "Bridegroom" at that point... not "TO BE" Wed at that point--He's not MARRYING the "GUESTS [PLURAL]" (NOR the "10 [or even 5] virginS [PLURAL]") :) ]...THEN the MEAL v.37 [G347; used in Matt8:11 and its parallel also--speak of the "BLESSED" earthly MK age that was PROMISED them]"--the "guests" [though INDEED "SAVED"] never lift off the earth [they are not "raptured [IN THE AIR]"--for that does not pertain to them])




[Rev19:7 and 19:9 reflect this same "distinction"]




Nice post (even though we differ in some of the details) = )
 

Pilgrimshope

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Notice the bride had made herself ready (Rev. 19:7) As such she received the required garment. As Jesus said submitting to water baptism was done to fulfill all righteousness. (Matt. 3:15-16) And as you noted those who believe and are baptized shall be saved. (Mark 16:16)

"...for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints."
yep we have to hear the gospel of the kingdom , believe and if we do we will repent and get baptized because the gospel teaches us repentance and remission of sins through baptism.

notice also that it’s a gift given she was “granted “ that she would be arrayed in fine linens white and clean . It’s not that she cleaned her own garments but she was dressed in new fine linens white and clean

If we hear and believe the gospel it’s how We change our filthy garments and put on clean ones

“That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;

And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4:22-24‬ ‭

that’s the garment change we need to make or accept in our belief the gospel accomplishes that if we hear and believe the Lord