Single and Looking Advice?

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Lanolin

Lanolin

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JohnDB said:
Learn to ask for help.
Good men have "White Knight Syndrome". They can't help themselves. It's hardwiring to help a damsel in distress.

You don't have to be a schlub who is incompetent at doing anything besides putting on clothes and makeup...but needing a guy's help is a sure fire way to gain his attention. As well as offering up a gratitude meal...single guys are always up for a good meal.
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hold on, they cant help themselves and then they want to help others? But I dont really want a guy putting clothes and makeup on me!

Hold still while I poke your eye out with mascara
wait,,you forgot your shoelaces.,here I'll tie them for you
Your outfit today...boiler suit mini skirt
 
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Lanolin said:
hold on, they cant help themselves and then they want to help others? But I dont really want a guy putting clothes and makeup on me!
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No silly - the first part - before the first ellipsis - is addressing the OP. (Or, the woman in the scenario.)
 
Lanolin

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GaryA said:
No silly - the first part - before the first ellipsis - is addressing the OP. (Or, the woman in the scenario.)
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If OP is having a hard time dressing herself I dont think a man should be the one to help her.

my advice, wear simpler clothes that you can just pull on. No buttons in the back.
 
Lanolin

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it is annoying when little boys cant tie their own shoelaces and they feel a bit wet....

also what is the deal with...ties?
 
Lanolin

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I am sure the reasons why mum gave me a bowl cut was because it was easier...if I had long hair she would have to fuss and braid it and comb it all the time. I didnt know thats what some mothers did and actually liked to do.
 
Ilive4Jesus

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Artios1 said:
Does the perfect man exist…. yes he does….
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His name is Jesus ;)

to OP:
CherieR said:
I'm single and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
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Pray.
Seek the Holy Spirit on life's issues.
Ask Him for His help in turning you into the woman He wants you to be.
Don't go looking for a man, but rather let him find you.
 
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Where is the OP?
 
zeroturbulence

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CherieR said:
I'm single and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
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Hi Cherie. I liked some of your old posts years ago and meant to reply to them but never did :confused:. Anyway, watch how he treats strangers. It will reveal his true nature. God bless. ♥
 
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Lanolin said:
If OP is having a hard time dressing herself I dont think a man should be the one to help her.

my advice, wear simpler clothes that you can just pull on. No buttons in the back.
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<facepalm>
SMH

You are still not getting it...

He is saying that the woman should "play the helpless act" ("need help") to get attention - but, not to overdo it. (i.e. - "don't be too helpless")
 
Lanolin

Lanolin

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GaryA said:
<facepalm>
SMH

You are still not getting it...

He is saying that the woman should "play the helpless act" ("need help") to get attention - but, not to overdo it. (i.e. - "don't be too helpless")
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but why?

why act stupid when you can BE stupid? to get attention? Thats not going to work anyway

Oh I need help adding up equations. A smart man will say why not use a calculator. He may help you but that wont mean he has to marry you. And if you keep asking for help it will be annoying. Otherwise he'll just think you are dim when you are not...and he'll treat you like a dimwit.
 
Lanolin

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so...you are the rescuing hubby ....my wife I pulled out of a ditch but now have a problem, she keeps on falling just to get my attention

I mean real smart, just go deliberately swim in a dangerous rip and hope a lifeguard comes to rescue you - I dont think it works that way, plus there is plenty of chance you are going to drown if you do that. Or you'll get a warning.
 
Lynx

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GaryA said:
<facepalm>
SMH

You are still not getting it...

He is saying that the woman should "play the helpless act" ("need help") to get attention - but, not to overdo it. (i.e. - "don't be too helpless")
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Give it up man. Some people are helpless in a way that you can't help.
 
Lanolin

Lanolin

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sorry I shouldnt be giving advice

I havent come across any one man bands, but if I do, I will tell him to PM @CherieR
 
I_am_Canadian

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CherieR said:
I'm single and looking for a man. What advice would you have for me?
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Keep your eyes on God and he will let you know when the right man comes along. Or if your really desperate their is always me lol
 
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