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Happy_hobnob

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My friend believes his mind is being taking somewhere by a spirit. But when it happens it feals real and it's actually happening to him.

I have a friend who is becoming increasingly vacant. I'm so worried.

He tells my best mate he keeps being taking out of his body, and it's been happening his whole life, he just hasn't worked it all out until now he says.

He says, he beliefs he is being afflicted by a spirit, the strange thing is when he goes vacant it can last many minutes, and when he Comes to, we say you've been vacant again, he always says I've just been somewhere.

Its real to him and what happens whilst he's away seems real, all of sudden he goes vacant, he comes to and says he's been somewhere, and never believes us when we tell hims you've been there the whole time,

Where so worried. We put it down to day dreaming, but now where unsure, he just will not have it.

Once he was missing for 4 hours last year,
I found him in the laundry room curled up in ball, I thought he had fallen asleep so I walked out to tell his sister, my best mate where he was, but just as I was about to tell her he came in, my best mate asked him where he had been, he said he had been on a journey, the place he said he went to was a farm, some 50 miles away. We know that now because we where driving one day last week, and he said wait this was this farm I went to last year when you guys wouldn't believe me, he described every thing about the building the gate the horse arena, we drove in and every thing was as he explained, the rooster on the roof, the sign on the gate which said the only way is up,

Some of the other things that's been happening is he's accusing people of things that have not happend, he will not have it,

He now believes that he is having his mind taking out of his body by a bad spirit that is stealing his mind and also appearing as people he loves, and doing bad things to him, each time this has happend he has 100 percent felt it was true and accuses us of all sorts. His name is Ben could you pray for him please.
 

ThereRoseaLamb

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My friend believes his mind is being taking somewhere by a spirit. But when it happens it feals real and it's actually happening to him.

I have a friend who is becoming increasingly vacant. I'm so worried.

He tells my best mate he keeps being taking out of his body, and it's been happening his whole life, he just hasn't worked it all out until now he says.

He says, he beliefs he is being afflicted by a spirit, the strange thing is when he goes vacant it can last many minutes, and when he Comes to, we say you've been vacant again, he always says I've just been somewhere.

Its real to him and what happens whilst he's away seems real, all of sudden he goes vacant, he comes to and says he's been somewhere, and never believes us when we tell hims you've been there the whole time,

Where so worried. We put it down to day dreaming, but now where unsure, he just will not have it.

Once he was missing for 4 hours last year,
I found him in the laundry room curled up in ball, I thought he had fallen asleep so I walked out to tell his sister, my best mate where he was, but just as I was about to tell her he came in, my best mate asked him where he had been, he said he had been on a journey, the place he said he went to was a farm, some 50 miles away. We know that now because we where driving one day last week, and he said wait this was this farm I went to last year when you guys wouldn't believe me, he described every thing about the building the gate the horse arena, we drove in and every thing was as he explained, the rooster on the roof, the sign on the gate which said the only way is up,

Some of the other things that's been happening is he's accusing people of things that have not happend, he will not have it,

He now believes that he is having his mind taking out of his body by a bad spirit that is stealing his mind and also appearing as people he loves, and doing bad things to him, each time this has happend he has 100 percent felt it was true and accuses us of all sorts. His name is Ben could you pray for him please.

May I ask, is your friend a Christian? If he is or isn't, has he had anything to do with the occult, ouija board, talking to spirits or "ghosts"? Has he any medical condition you know of?
 

Happy_hobnob

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May I ask, is your friend a Christian? If he is or isn't, has he had anything to do with the occult, ouija board, talking to spirits or "ghosts"? Has he any medical condition you know of?
we have seen him talking to somebody who is not there,
As for being saved, unsure to be honest, but if you want to express something on that basis feel free, it's ok, as for the ouija board, he's never said, he definitely has not anything to do with an occult, he hates that sort of thing,

Where scared if this is really happening the Doctors won't believe him, and it will mess his life up.
 

Happy_hobnob

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He does regular attend church with us. And as asked Jesus into his life
 

glf

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In Acts 19:13-16, we're told of 7 non-Christian sons of Sceva who went to cast out a demon invoking both Paul's and Jesus' names. Then were overcome by the possessed man and fled wounded and naked.

In the gospels, we're told how the Lord's disciples were unable to cast out a demon and Jesus told them that that demon required prayer and fasting to cast it out.

In 1 Jn 4:1-3, we're told that not every spirit was from God and that those spirits were unable to say that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh when tested.

From this we can see that only the faithful are able to deal with evil spirits, even though some of them require prayer and fasting to affect. From 1 Jn 4, we see that evil spirits will reveal themselves to some people and if those people heed the evil spirit without trying it, they can thereby become a false prophet, sadly.

For the faithful, we are to resist the evil one and he will flee; draw nigh unto the Lord and he will draw nigh unto thee.

Your friends only hope is found in Jesus, who does not give us a spirit of fear, but rather of power, love, and a sound mind, 2 Tim 1:7.

Thank you Jesus; our God and King both now and forevermore! Amen
 

Magenta

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Where scared if this is really happening the Doctors won't believe him, and it will mess his life up.
There is a condition called ... oh my goodness, I cannot remember what it is called, but it is a mental health issue where the person just checks out and becomes non-responsive even though there is nothing ostensibly wrong, like they have not had a stroke nor are they having a seizure, although in fact it may be called some kind of a seizure, but it is not like epilepsy. I tried looking it up when I first saw your post but didn't have the right words; however, I found this now: a condition called absence status epilepticus. It is more common in children, but adults can have it, too. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3934526/
 

Happy_hobnob

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There is a condition called ... oh my goodness, I cannot remember what it is called, but it is a mental health issue where the person just checks out and becomes non-responsive even though there is nothing ostensibly wrong, like they have not had a stroke nor are they having a seizure, although in fact it may be called some kind of a seizure, but it is not like epilepsy. I tried looking it up when I first saw your post but didn't have the right words; however, I found this now: a condition called absence status epilepticus. It is more common in children, but adults can have it, too. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3934526/
Theres a type of epileptic attack disorder actually called none epileptic attack disorder, which is a type of epilepsy, but not seizure based, where by the persons gets twitches and jolts quite frequently and goes vacant. These are his symptoms. But there is no medication for this type of epilepsy, only counselling, as Doctors feel it's related to a traumatic event.
 

Happy_hobnob

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In Acts 19:13-16, we're told of 7 non-Christian sons of Sceva who went to cast out a demon invoking both Paul's and Jesus' names. Then were overcome by the possessed man and fled wounded and naked.

In the gospels, we're told how the Lord's disciples were unable to cast out a demon and Jesus told them that that demon required prayer and fasting to cast it out.

In 1 Jn 4:1-3, we're told that not every spirit was from God and that those spirits were unable to say that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh when tested.

From this we can see that only the faithful are able to deal with evil spirits, even though some of them require prayer and fasting to affect. From 1 Jn 4, we see that evil spirits will reveal themselves to some people and if those people heed the evil spirit without trying it, they can thereby become a false prophet, sadly.

For the faithful, we are to resist the evil one and he will flee; draw nigh unto the Lord and he will draw nigh unto thee.

Your friends only hope is found in Jesus, who does not give us a spirit of fear, but rather of power, love, and a sound mind, 2 Tim 1:7.

Thank you Jesus; our God and King both now and forevermore! Amen
This would not apply to a saved Christian i feal, but maybe Job 1 could apply to a saved person. But I don't think Anyone has ever considered Job 1 on the bases it was all a dream, but Satan was given everything under his control, which could mean Satan stole Jobs mind. Because we see the his family never actually died.

But we don't know if my friend has been saved his whole life because he asked Jesus into his life 6 months ago, but he is still having similar issues, maybe not as severe. But still issues. But we don't feal it's mental illness because there's no way he could have known the exact layout of the farm 50 miles away.
 

Happy_hobnob

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In Acts 19:13-16, we're told of 7 non-Christian sons of Sceva who went to cast out a demon invoking both Paul's and Jesus' names. Then were overcome by the possessed man and fled wounded and naked.

In the gospels, we're told how the Lord's disciples were unable to cast out a demon and Jesus told them that that demon required prayer and fasting to cast it out.

In 1 Jn 4:1-3, we're told that not every spirit was from God and that those spirits were unable to say that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh when tested.

From this we can see that only the faithful are able to deal with evil spirits, even though some of them require prayer and fasting to affect. From 1 Jn 4, we see that evil spirits will reveal themselves to some people and if those people heed the evil spirit without trying it, they can thereby become a false prophet, sadly.

For the faithful, we are to resist the evil one and he will flee; draw nigh unto the Lord and he will draw nigh unto thee.

Your friends only hope is found in Jesus, who does not give us a spirit of fear, but rather of power, love, and a sound mind, 2 Tim 1:7.

Thank you Jesus; our God and King both now and forevermore! Amen
I have to requote you on this, but is it even possible that a bad spirit has to be cast out befor Jesus can enter, does my friend need to fast to be on the safe side then ask again for Jesus. I have to sign out now, but I have some other concerns is it true that some people believe Job 1 should be the first book in the bible. ?

But anyhow did Satan give the power he was given back to God in Job 1 or as he stole it forever
 

glf

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I have to requote you on this, but is it even possible that a bad spirit has to be cast out befor Jesus can enter, does my friend need to fast to be on the safe side then ask again for Jesus. I have to sign out now, but I have some other concerns is it true that some people believe Job 1 should be the first book in the bible. ?

But anyhow did Satan give the power he was given back to God in Job 1 or as he stole it forever

I suspect that when someone hears the Lord's word and is called to God and convicted of their sins by the Holy Spirit and if they respond by believing that word with a godly sorrow and confess that Jesus is Lord sincerely, then they shall be save and delivered with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

To my understanding, the evil one was given license to attack only as a special allowance. He even went back to the Lord for permission to escalate his attack of Job.
 

glf

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Job states in Job 3:25 KJV "For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of has come unto me."
Fear is contrary to faith, so that Job opened himself up by his lack of faith. Which seems only natural when we consider how any of us love our kids and if they turn evil in what they do, its harder to believe for good while fearing the consequence of their behavior at the same time. Reminds me of the parent with the possessed child and Jesus told him to believe and he cried, Lord, I believe, help thou mine unbelief.
Like James tells us, "We all stumble in many ways." Sadly.
 

Karlon

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My friend believes his mind is being taking somewhere by a spirit. But when it happens it feals real and it's actually happening to him.

I have a friend who is becoming increasingly vacant. I'm so worried.

He tells my best mate he keeps being taking out of his body, and it's been happening his whole life, he just hasn't worked it all out until now he says.

He says, he beliefs he is being afflicted by a spirit, the strange thing is when he goes vacant it can last many minutes, and when he Comes to, we say you've been vacant again, he always says I've just been somewhere.

Its real to him and what happens whilst he's away seems real, all of sudden he goes vacant, he comes to and says he's been somewhere, and never believes us when we tell hims you've been there the whole time,

Where so worried. We put it down to day dreaming, but now where unsure, he just will not have it.

Once he was missing for 4 hours last year,
I found him in the laundry room curled up in ball, I thought he had fallen asleep so I walked out to tell his sister, my best mate where he was, but just as I was about to tell her he came in, my best mate asked him where he had been, he said he had been on a journey, the place he said he went to was a farm, some 50 miles away. We know that now because we where driving one day last week, and he said wait this was this farm I went to last year when you guys wouldn't believe me, he described every thing about the building the gate the horse arena, we drove in and every thing was as he explained, the rooster on the roof, the sign on the gate which said the only way is up,

Some of the other things that's been happening is he's accusing people of things that have not happend, he will not have it,

He now believes that he is having his mind taking out of his body by a bad spirit that is stealing his mind and also appearing as people he loves, and doing bad things to him, each time this has happend he has 100 percent felt it was true and accuses us of all sorts. His name is Ben could you pray for him please.
yes, will pray. there is an easy solution to this: become a born again Christian. Read 1st John chapter 4. it teaches how to recognize false spirits. anything can seem real if you allow it. there's an old statement: "if you tell a lie long enough, you'll begin to believe it's true"! well, if you believe in evil sprits, they' will seem true. any Christian can cast out any demonic spirit in the name of Jesus Christ. help your friend by suggesting a Christian pastor to assist. AND JESUS IS FREE, HE DOESN'T CHARGE ANYTHING TO HEAL!!!!! YEAH!!!
 

Happy_hobnob

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I suspect that when someone hears the Lord's word and is called to God and convicted of their sins by the Holy Spirit and if they respond by believing that word with a godly sorrow and confess that Jesus is Lord sincerely, then they shall be save and delivered with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

To my understanding, the evil one was given license to attack only as a special allowance. He even went back to the Lord for permission to escalate his attack of Job.
I understand, I believe this also, but if they are unable to confess with a pure heart because off possession could it be possible there unable to receive the spirit. I understand that in many practices of exorcism performed by priests, great lengths are gone to purify water and salt to make holy water for exorcism or baptising water, so much so the salt has to be pure, blessed an so does the water, blessed and pure and only someone who is saved can do this. But is water pure theses days with pollution or the blesser not following guide lines.

prayers are asked to bless the water, both the water must be natural and salt nothing taken nothing added. Could that be added to a period of fasting like soaking in sea water, because Jesus baptised in the sea, could sea water be used, but is it pure These days, . Also my friend is a heavy smoker is body is defiled quite possibly from smoking and possession is it possible he needs a longer fasting period.

Also whose account was Job was it Jobs account, was it God giving account to Noah. The bible says Satan is a performer of lying miracles to this day, has that come by abusing the power that was giving to him by God, when God gave Job the power to have everything under his control, he abused that power by stealing Jobs mind to perform a lying miracle by stealing Jobs mind. So much so Job thought the whole chain of events was real only it was a lying miracle.

I know some might say God is all knowing he would not have Given authority if he knew Satan would abuse that power, if he was to steal it or misuse it. However where dealing with a great deciever,
 

Happy_hobnob

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yes, will pray. there is an easy solution to this: become a born again Christian. Read 1st John chapter 4. it teaches how to recognize false spirits. anything can seem real if you allow it. there's an old statement: "if you tell a lie long enough, you'll begin to believe it's true"! well, if you believe in evil sprits, they' will seem true. any Christian can cast out any demonic spirit in the name of Jesus Christ. help your friend by suggesting a Christian pastor to assist. AND JESUS IS FREE, HE DOESN'T CHARGE ANYTHING TO HEAL!!!!! YEAH!!!
Thankyou I appreciate that, and time taken by everyone to answer, God bless I have to sign out now got cattle to look after.
 

HopeinHim98

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I understand, I believe this also, but if they are unable to confess with a pure heart because off possession could it be possible there unable to receive the spirit. I understand that in many practices of exorcism performed by priests, great lengths are gone to purify water and salt to make holy water for exorcism or baptising water, so much so the salt has to be pure, blessed an so does the water, blessed and pure and only someone who is saved can do this. But is water pure theses days with pollution or the blesser not following guide lines.

prayers are asked to bless the water, both the water must be natural and salt nothing taken nothing added. Could that be added to a period of fasting like soaking in sea water, because Jesus baptised in the sea, could sea water be used, but is it pure These days, . Also my friend is a heavy smoker is body is defiled quite possibly from smoking and possession is it possible he needs a longer fasting period.

Also whose account was Job was it Jobs account, was it God giving account to Noah. The bible says Satan is a performer of lying miracles to this day, has that come by abusing the power that was giving to him by God, when God gave Job the power to have everything under his control, he abused that power by stealing Jobs mind to perform a lying miracle by stealing Jobs mind. So much so Job thought the whole chain of events was real only it was a lying miracle.

I know some might say God is all knowing he would not have Given authority if he knew Satan would abuse that power, if he was to steal it or misuse it. However where dealing with a great deciever,
I don't want to get off topic but noticed something I wanted to address. You said we know it wasn't real what happened to Job because we see he never lost his family. I would see it that God blessed him with a new family. It says in Job 42:12, So the LORD blessed the latter end of Job more than his beginning. He didn't have twice as many children this time, but it says his girls were the prettiest around.

I'm sorry about you friend. It does sound demonic to me, especially the way he accuses you all of things. Satan is the accuser. Yes I will pray for him.
 

soberxp

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I think there's some detail missing here.
Was he under his control in his daydream or was it out of control and taken somewhere by force? You don't seem to be describing it clearly.
 

soberxp

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And what happened to your friend,when he was somewhere?Like, what happened to him when he went to that farm?
 

glf

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I understand, I believe this also, but if they are unable to confess with a pure heart because off possession could it be possible there unable to receive the spirit. I understand that in many practices of exorcism performed by priests, great lengths are gone to purify water and salt to make holy water for exorcism or baptising water, so much so the salt has to be pure, blessed an so does the water, blessed and pure and only someone who is saved can do this. But is water pure theses days with pollution or the blesser not following guide lines.

prayers are asked to bless the water, both the water must be natural and salt nothing taken nothing added. Could that be added to a period of fasting like soaking in sea water, because Jesus baptised in the sea, could sea water be used, but is it pure These days, . Also my friend is a heavy smoker is body is defiled quite possibly from smoking and possession is it possible he needs a longer fasting period.

Also whose account was Job was it Jobs account, was it God giving account to Noah. The bible says Satan is a performer of lying miracles to this day, has that come by abusing the power that was giving to him by God, when God gave Job the power to have everything under his control, he abused that power by stealing Jobs mind to perform a lying miracle by stealing Jobs mind. So much so Job thought the whole chain of events was real only it was a lying miracle.

I know some might say God is all knowing he would not have Given authority if he knew Satan would abuse that power, if he was to steal it or misuse it. However where dealing with a great deciever,

The only thing holy in this world is scripture and the bodies of those indwelt by the Holy Spirit. There is nothing holy about water. Natural objects cannot be spiritual.
No matter how great a deceiver the evil one is, he cannot deceive the Lord, ever!
I suspect that Moses is the author of all things prior to Joshua who took over from Moses.
 

Happy_hobnob

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And what happened to your friend,when he was somewhere?Like, what happened to him when he went to that farm?
I would need to ask his sister about that, we've had some rows lately. It's difficult for me talk to him at the moment, but I'm not sure what difference it would make knowing every detail,
he was spoken to at the farm and believed a lie about a family member, which is very personal.
 

ResidentAlien

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My friend believes his mind is being taking somewhere by a spirit. But when it happens it feals real and it's actually happening to him.

I have a friend who is becoming increasingly vacant. I'm so worried.

He tells my best mate he keeps being taking out of his body, and it's been happening his whole life, he just hasn't worked it all out until now he says.

He says, he beliefs he is being afflicted by a spirit, the strange thing is when he goes vacant it can last many minutes, and when he Comes to, we say you've been vacant again, he always says I've just been somewhere.

Its real to him and what happens whilst he's away seems real, all of sudden he goes vacant, he comes to and says he's been somewhere, and never believes us when we tell hims you've been there the whole time,

Where so worried. We put it down to day dreaming, but now where unsure, he just will not have it.

Once he was missing for 4 hours last year,
I found him in the laundry room curled up in ball, I thought he had fallen asleep so I walked out to tell his sister, my best mate where he was, but just as I was about to tell her he came in, my best mate asked him where he had been, he said he had been on a journey, the place he said he went to was a farm, some 50 miles away. We know that now because we where driving one day last week, and he said wait this was this farm I went to last year when you guys wouldn't believe me, he described every thing about the building the gate the horse arena, we drove in and every thing was as he explained, the rooster on the roof, the sign on the gate which said the only way is up,

Some of the other things that's been happening is he's accusing people of things that have not happend, he will not have it,

He now believes that he is having his mind taking out of his body by a bad spirit that is stealing his mind and also appearing as people he loves, and doing bad things to him, each time this has happend he has 100 percent felt it was true and accuses us of all sorts. His name is Ben could you pray for him please.
Yes I'll be praying for him. Sounds to me like a couple of things might be going on here. For one, he seems delusional, imaging things that aren't real; and second, he sounds like someone who is crying out for attention. It can be very difficult being a friend to someone like this because it's exhausting; but that's probably what he needs most. Maybe you could just talk to him when he brings up this stuff and get him to open up more. If he finds some friends he can trust that would probably be a big help.

As far as the farm, that's easily explainable: He may have been there before without telling you; someone may have told him about it; or, more probable, he saw pictures of it online.