10 Warning Signs of Cult Recruitment

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ResidentAlien

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Below is a list of common mind control techniques used by cultists. Maybe you have an experience or story of your own to tell about how a cult tried to recruit or keep you. In today's world, manipulation techniques have become so commonplace they may not be recognized. Sometimes, people or groups we may not even consider to be cults use these these techniques. Hopefully this thread will help.

https://thriveworks.com/blog/protect-yourself-from-mind-control-techniques/

Research shows that anyone is susceptible to joining a cult. “Not me!” you say. Yes, you. The self-serving bias that makes people think they’re the exception to the rule can make them feel invulnerable—and leave them unprotected from pathological salespeople. You don’t have to be particularly gullible, insecure, or emotionally needy to be successfully recruited. Cults exploit psychological elements that are hardwired in pretty much everyone. Here’s how they do it:

1. Social isolation. If you are seeing less and less of your family and peers in favor of your new best friends, ask yourself why. Cults gradually chip away at your community until only cult members remain. If the cult is your entire world—a closed system—then leaving it can feel really scary.​
2. Cyber isolation. If all your Facebook friends agree with you, ask yourself why. Cyber isolation can lead to confirmation bias. That means you only see information that supports what you already believe. And your beliefs are also continually validated in the echo chamber of cyber isolation. The Facebook algorithm shows you things you want to see in a never-ending cycle of digital influence.​
3. Promised rewards. If you find that you’re on the verge of amazing accomplishments or the fulfillment of your wildest dreams, ask yourself why. Cults promise gifts like a spiritual Wheel of Fortune: enlightenment, self-actualization, love, unlicensed psychotherapy, companionship, exorcism, peace of mind, perfect health, eternal life, great sex, a forever home, a loving family. Over-the-top rewards are part of the conversion process. How can anyone say no?​
4. Phobia indoctrination. If you find that you have a lot of new fears, ask yourself why. Seeing threats everywhere? Cults use fear to induce people to stay within their ranks, where they’ll be safe. And naturally the only person who can truly protect you is the cult leader. Who is also responsible for punishing you. Their methods are effective because they alternate fear with love, leading to disorganized attachment.​
5. Heightened emotion. If you find yourself feeling extremely happy, angry, or scared, ask yourself why. Cults trigger big emotional responses and then direct that emotion toward a strategic target when you’re at your least rational.​
6. Love-bombing. If you find yourself feeling more loved than you ever have in your life, ask yourself why. This is a tactic that narcissistic manipulators use in interpersonal relationships, but it also applies to cultic attempts at thought reform. Cult members will spoil you with attention and affection in order to make you feel connected and important. And people keep coming back for the love drug.​
7. Us vs. them mentality. If you find that you have a lot of enemies all of a sudden, ask yourself why. Cults invent enemies to help solidify the group identity. When you envision yourself as a missionary for good versus evil, there might be too much at stake for you to abandon your cause.​
8. Social influence. If you find that everyone around you agrees on something, ask yourself why. Psychological studies show that compliance goes up with the number of people involved. Most people won’t reject an idea if the whole group supports it. And cult prospects are typically overwhelmed with group-ecstatic activities, which can lead them to poor information processing. Essentially, peer pressure makes it impossible for people to function at full capacity.​
9. Intelligence-dampening. If you find yourself too tired or confused to make decisions, ask yourself why. Cults use techniques like sleep-deprivation, alternate states of consciousness, repetition, and thought-stopping to overwhelm someone’s cognitive resources and critical thinking skills. They destabilize your view of reality. And when your mind is under threat, you keep returning to the safety and love of your leader. It doesn’t mean you’re stupid, even if you develop false beliefs. All humans have false beliefs and a tendency toward magical thinking. But cult members depend on the cult for direction when their brains are disoriented.​
10. Identity disturbance. If you feel like a new you–a better you–ask yourself why. Cults alternate reward and punishment to stress people out and disrupt their identities. From there, cults can inflict a new identity on a member, one that depends on submission and self-surrender. And it doesn’t help that other sources of identity, like work and school, are slowly taken over by cult participation.​
 

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There is a fine line on some of those things between what a "cult" promises and what Truth actually delivers.
 

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This opp is fruitless,.

Just another lure to discredit people.

Conspiracy in its finest moment.
 

ResidentAlien

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There is a fine line on some of those things between what a "cult" promises and what Truth actually delivers.
The question is whose promises are you being led by: God's or the cult's? God will never lead you down the wrong path. A cult will lead you into some light mixed with darkness.
 

Fundaamental

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Well I thought you've allready got that worked out Sherlock 🤔
 

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We were given this outline as adolescence in a public school. There were secular organizations pretending to know something about spiritual matters who provides the curriculum. It was accompanied by videos from "deprogramming experts" and testimonies by family members who lost contact with children who were lured into the various little cults.

The world has nothing to offer believers in Christ about cults or any other spiritual matters.

When a soul winner with a message of salvation actually cared enough to knock on my door, I viewed him as a cult member at first because of the ridiculous brainwashing from the public fool system. I didn't have enough sense to know the difference between a Baptist and a Jehovah's False Witness at that time. Thank GOD that I had a little bit of open mind that the "cult training" did Not harden me altogether against the TRUTH of the GOSPEL .

After I got saved and started taking interest in reading my Bible, only then did I read books that helped me REALLY know the difference between false religions, denominations, cults and what the Lord approves of.
The Holy Spirit bears witness with my spirit what is true and what is false based upon His Holy, inspired and preserved Word.
 

ResidentAlien

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The world has nothing to offer believers in Christ about cults or any other spiritual matters.
The problem is cults may appear to be spiritual, quote the Bible, etc.; but the techniques they use are the same ones used by all kinds of manipulators, spiritual or otherwise. For them it's about power and control. If a person isn't wise to their schemes they can easily fall prey.
 

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The problem is cults may appear to be spiritual, quote the Bible, etc.; but the techniques they use are the same ones used by all kinds of manipulators, spiritual or otherwise. For them it's about power and control. If a person isn't wise to their schemes they can easily fall prey.
Hmm.. "The Chosen Cult" :p

On a more serious note, it seems to me "cult like thinking" with buzz words of tolerance, equity, inclusion, diversity is the new cult of post modern society.
 

ResidentAlien

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Hmm.. "The Chosen Cult" :p

On a more serious note, it seems to me "cult like thinking" with buzz words of tolerance, equity, inclusion, diversity is the new cult of post modern society.
I can see that. An us vs. them mentality. If you're one of the good guys you're with us; otherwise you'll die friendless, loveless, and alone.
 

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The 23:45 minute mark described a big Hindu cult called Transcendental Meditation (TM) that I was deceived into joining as a child by a family member. I went through their indoctrination classes for many weeks until the initiation scared me away. Only at the initiation did they reveal the demonic ceremony. Everything Dave Hunt says about it here is correct. Skip the beginning. I don't know how to get the YouTube function to start at 23:45.

 

ResidentAlien

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The 23:45 minute mark described a big Hindu cult called Transcendental Meditation (TM) that I was deceived into joining as a child by a family member.
How old were you? How did the family member deceive you? What did they say or do to get you to go along?
 

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The 23:45 minute mark described a big Hindu cult called Transcendental Meditation (TM) that I was deceived into joining as a child by a family member. I went through their indoctrination classes for many weeks until the initiation scared me away. Only at the initiation did they reveal the demonic ceremony. Everything Dave Hunt says about it here is correct. Skip the beginning. I don't know how to get the YouTube function to start at 23:45.

Yes I was a New Ager for a few years and they accepted any belief as long as it wasn't objective truth.

So it was... 'we believe every religion is headed to the same place'. But 'we exclude the exlusivists'
 

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How old were you? How did the family member deceive you? What did they say or do to get you to go along?
It was couched in the terms and psychology of the religion. She denied it was a religious group, but sold it as she was sold it. She may get have been sincere, but it does not matter since the effects were the same. It became obvious when the disciple of the Yogi took me into a dark back room which was a shrine to devils. It was full of foul grotesque statues lit only by candles and incense. I never saw a movie so demonic. I was told to kneel before one particular statue and then given instructions to chant the mantra, (vain repetition of the devil's name), in prayer. .It was a summoning technique for demonic possession. I'm grateful that I was not possessed. It was frightening enough to never return again.
 

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Yes I was a New Ager for a few years and they accepted any belief as long as it wasn't objective truth.

So it was... 'we believe every religion is headed to the same place'. But 'we exclude the exlusivists'
Hi Wattie,

That seems to be one of the things that is common to the New Age and eastern religions.
I assume that you practiced some form of meditation then?
 

ResidentAlien

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I went through their indoctrination classes for many weeks until the initiation scared me away.
What sort of things did they teach you in this series of classes? Do you remember the name of the guru?
 

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I don't know how to get the YouTube function to start at 23:45.
Pause the vid where you want it to start and then right click vid, and select third option, which puts
the url at specific time on your clipboard... simply paste here as per usual into media message box
.:)
 

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The 23:45 minute mark described a big Hindu cult called Transcendental Meditation (TM) that I was deceived into joining as a child by a family member.
You never did say your age. Do you remember how old you were when it happened?
 

HealthAndHappiness

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Pause the vid where you want it to start and then right click vid, and select third option, which puts
the url at specific time on your clipboard... simply paste here as per usual into media message box
.:)
Thanks so much! I'm on my phone today and the operating system must be different because that function (right click) isn't coming up. Playback settings is the only thing that is available to me.
 

ResidentAlien

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I'm having a little difficulty with your story. Maybe something happened to you, but TM classes don't run many weeks. They're typically a couple of hours and then an initiation ceremony that's nothing like what you described. Dave Hunt is the last person I'd go to for information on cults. Walter Martin would be far more preferable.