BEFORE YOU SAY I DO...

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Abigail97

Abigail97

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Dear You,
Before you say your 'I do' when the time comes, there must have been a 'Yes Lord!' said in total surrender to your Creator; you asking Him to lead the way, granting you the grace to walk with Him day by day even as He leads the way, living daily for His glory by His enablement, and for His Kingdom.

Please don't put the cart before the horse, it'll only end up in disaster.
It's:
• God first
• Purpose Second, and
• A Spouse finally

Blessings🙂🤍
 
Lynx

Lynx

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You have no idea how many times how many different people have preached this message at us here in singles forum. It's like a never-ending wheel that just keeps turning and turning and turning and turning and...
 
JohnB

JohnB

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Be careful who you marry. Things to watch out for, bad habits, bad attitudes. Also watch family members. You're marrying into a family. Do they have crazy relatives? Siblings who are addicts. They can affect your marriage. If you get into a bad marriage, GOD may or may not help you. Make a wise decision. Just because you're both Christians does not mean you're a match.
 
JohnB

JohnB

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JohnB said:
Be careful who you marry. Things to watch out for, bad habits, bad attitudes. Also watch family members. You're marrying into a family. Do they have crazy relatives? Siblings who are addicts. They can affect your marriage. If you get into a bad marriage, GOD may or may not help you. Make a wise decision. Just because you're both Christians does not mean you're a match.
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Also ask close family and friends you trust, what they think of the person you're going to marry. They will will have a different perspective. You could be blinded by love.
 
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