How Should We Pray?

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SunshineGirl

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It bemuses me when we are singing in a fellowship meeting and the lyrics are, "I bow" or "I lift my hands" or "I kneel" or "I dance" or "I shout" and the congregation does none of those things while singing them..
I hear you there. Some of the hymns/songs I can't help but dance. Maybe you should dance/ lift your hands and people might feel God's spirit working in you and start to join in 🥰🙏
 

p_rehbein

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I know my thoughts on this, but I would like to know how others view this topic of prayer......I thought it might be a good discussion.

A few scenarios to get your mind going.....

1. Do you have to have your eyes closed when praying?
2. Do you have to physically be in a specific (kneeling or otherwise) position when you pray?
3. Do you think a prayer should be have a certain format to it?
4. Where/when can you pray?

These are merely examples to jog your mind...I just want to hear what you think a prayer should be. Thanks!
1: Sometimes
2: No
3: No
4: Anywhere, anytime, The more the better
 

PaulThomson

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I hear you there. Some of the hymns/songs I can't help but dance. Maybe you should dance/ lift your hands and people might feel God's spirit working in you and start to join in 🥰🙏
I do. It feels odd not to do what I sing. Though I sometimes change the words from the original because I don't always agree with, or I have a more encouraging idea than, the theology assumed in the song.
 

Pardizzle

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I hear you there. Some of the hymns/songs I can't help but dance. Maybe you should dance/ lift your hands and people might feel God's spirit working in you and start to join in 🥰🙏
Its actually amazing I think, how when you just close your eyes and lift up your hands during praise and worship....its pretty powerful
 

Pardizzle

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For me it depends... At work when 200 kids are fighting it's me running to try to break it up praying "please Jesus help" there is no time for everything else.
At home when I have what I call 'my deep prayer' I normally sit down, eyes are normally closed as it helps me to concentrate.
Format...
I thank God for everything he has done/given me that day. Talk about where I went wrong, talk about family, friends and people, life. Then be quiet for a bit. Then end the prayer in Jesus name.
You can pray any time any place morning, noon and night. God never sleeps and is always listening 🥰
I think a very important part of prayer is giving thanks to God! After all, we would not be here, nor have what we have if it weren't for Him! I do a lot of my talking to God/praying while I am driving.....because its a quiet place for me
 

SunshineGirl

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I do. It feels odd not to do what I sing. Though I sometimes change the words from the original because I don't always agree with, or I have a more encouraging idea than, the theology assumed in the song.
That's brilliant. What hymns/songs do you change the lyrics too? Have you ever written your own songs? 😃
 

SunshineGirl

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Its actually amazing I think, how when you just close your eyes and lift up your hands during praise and worship....its pretty powerful
It's an amazing feeling and one you wish would never end 🥰
 

Pardizzle

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It's an amazing feeling and one you wish would never end 🥰
Yes ma'am, I agree 110%.....ya can't beat it! I also tear up whenever I think about how God has blessed me, I hope those feelings never go away. God is so good to us, isn't He?
 

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It's an amazing feeling and one you wish would never end 🥰
Yes ma'am, I agree 110%.....ya can't beat it! I also tear up whenever I think about how God has blessed me, I hope those feelings never go away. God is so good to us, isn't He?
Precious friends, you just made me feel I had to "make this up" ;):

Earthly feelings come and go
But soon there Will Be A Day
When God Himself Shall Show
us His Final Un-Ending Way!

See ya'll In God's Great [ Never-Ending ] GloryLand! 😇

Amen.
 

Pardizzle

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Precious friends, you just made me feel I had to "make this up" ;):

Earthly feelings come and go
But soon there Will Be A Day
When God Himself Shall Show
us His Final Un-Ending Way!

See ya'll In God's Great [ Never-Ending ] GloryLand! 😇

Amen.
Thank you for that!
 

Edify

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They are not praying as Jesus taught.They are praying as what Jesus calls a hypocrite.

hypocrite was a Greek word for a stage actor .Like someone who performed in the roman colosseum in plays.They are putting on a show but according to Jesus ,the show is for man and not God.

Jesus has never steered me in the wrong direction.
I was thinking how many worship teams "perform" onstage when I read this.
David danced before the Lord with all his might, & his heart showed in every step.
"Performance" worship of any kind isn't acceptable in or out of church. God looks only at the heart, for from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
He knows how many are "faking it".
 

Aaron56

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My prayers typically start with something like "Father, will you show me...?" or "Father, please tell me about..." I typically always thank Him for what He is doing and has done in my life. Often loved ones come into my mind and I will pray for them. I will often ask to understand what He is doing in difficult times. When I was young I would ask Him to take the difficulties away. I've learned to see His hand in all my circumstances, at least more of them.
 

PaulThomson

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That's brilliant. What hymns/songs do you change the lyrics too? Have you ever written your own songs? 😃
As a few examples,

"Oh, I'm running to your arms " >> ""Oh, I'm resting in your arms".

"Take me past the outer court into the Holy place,
past the brazen altar, Lord, I long to see your face.
Take me by the crowds of people, and the priests who sing your praise.
Lord, I hunger and thirst for your righteousness,
But it's only found in one Place.

Take me into the Holy of Holies. Take me in by the blood of the Lamb. Take me into the Holy of Holies.
Take the coal. Cleanse my lips. Here I am." >>

You took me past the outer court, I'm in Your Holy place,
I'm past the brazen altar, Father, Jesus is your face.
You took me by the crowds of people, I'm a priests who sing your praise.
Lord, I hunger and thirst for your righteousness,
But it's only found in one Name.

You've brought me into Your Holy of Holies. Took me in by the blood of the Lamb. You've brought me into Your Holy of Holies.
Jesus is the coal who cleansed my lips. Here I am."

I added two or three extra verses to a song that someone had written from some of the verses from the prophecy that includes Jesus entering Jerusalem on a donkey. I rewrote the rest of the same prophecy into verses to the same tune, for our congregation to sing on Palm Sunday. I've also adjusted the lyrics of some popular songs to give a Christian message.
"You are like a Hurricane" by Neil Young.
"Let it Be" by the Beatles, became "Be in Me" - to name two.
 
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#34
I know my thoughts on this, but I would like to know how others view this topic of prayer......I thought it might be a good discussion.

A few scenarios to get your mind going.....

1. Do you have to have your eyes closed when praying?
2. Do you have to physically be in a specific (kneeling or otherwise) position when you pray?
3. Do you think a prayer should be have a certain format to it?
4. Where/when can you pray?

These are merely examples to jog your mind...I just want to hear what you think a prayer should be. Thanks!
The Apostle Paul was inspired to command us, "Pray without ceasing." It's our goal to have dependent, prayerful attitudes, words, and actions all the time.
 

PaulThomson

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I was thinking how many worship teams "perform" onstage when I read this.
David danced before the Lord with all his might, & his heart showed in every step.
"Performance" worship of any kind isn't acceptable in or out of church. God looks only at the heart, for from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
He knows how many are "faking it".
I would prefer the worship team to lead from behind the congregation, out of sight. Or playing acoustically (without amplifiers) and scattered among the congregation. Amplified worship leaders and instruments drown out the congregational voices.
 

Bob-Carabbio

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#36
I know my thoughts on this, but I would like to know how others view this topic of prayer......I thought it might be a good discussion.

A few scenarios to get your mind going.....

1. Do you have to have your eyes closed when praying?
2. Do you have to physically be in a specific (kneeling or otherwise) position when you pray?
3. Do you think a prayer should be have a certain format to it?
4. Where/when can you pray?

These are merely examples to jog your mind...I just want to hear what you think a prayer should be. Thanks!
Prayer to speaking to God. No special format, location, Physical position, or anything else is required.

Simple as that.
 

jb

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#37
I know my thoughts on this, but I would like to know how others view this topic of prayer......I thought it might be a good discussion.

A few scenarios to get your mind going.....

1. Do you have to have your eyes closed when praying?
2. Do you have to physically be in a specific (kneeling or otherwise) position when you pray?
3. Do you think a prayer should be have a certain format to it?
4. Where/when can you pray?

These are merely examples to jog your mind...I just want to hear what you think a prayer should be. Thanks!
Did a few of blogs on this, you can find them Here, Here and Here
 

SunshineGirl

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#38
As a few examples,

"Oh, I'm running to your arms " >> ""Oh, I'm resting in your arms".

"Take me past the outer court into the Holy place,
past the brazen altar, Lord, I long to see your face.
Take me by the crowds of people, and the priests who sing your praise.
Lord, I hunger and thirst for your righteousness,
But it's only found in one Place.

Take me into the Holy of Holies. Take me in by the blood of the Lamb. Take me into the Holy of Holies.
Take the coal. Cleanse my lips. Here I am." >>

You took me past the outer court, I'm in Your Holy place,
I'm past the brazen altar, Father, Jesus is your face.
You took me by the crowds of people, I'm a priests who sing your praise.
Lord, I hunger and thirst for your righteousness,
But it's only found in one Name.

You've brought me into Your Holy of Holies. Took me in by the blood of the Lamb. You've brought me into Your Holy of Holies.
Jesus is the coal who cleansed my lips. Here I am."

I added two or three extra verses to a song that someone had written from some of the verses from the prophecy that includes Jesus entering Jerusalem on a donkey. I rewrote the rest of the same prophecy into verses to the same tune, for our congregation to sing on Palm Sunday. I've also adjusted the lyrics of some popular songs to give a Christian message.
"You are like a Hurricane" by Neil Young.
"Let it Be" by the Beatles, became "Be in Me" - to name two.
It's so lovely how you change the lyrics to make it so personal between yourself and the Lord. If in these special moments you feel love, joy, hope and peace you know you are in the presence of your Lord and Saviour. Enjoy every minute of it 🥰
 
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I think you are studying magic.Maybe Harry Potter can help you.:giggle:
 
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When I first started seeking God ,I had many of the same questions,so I turned to the bible and learned what Jesus taught about praying.The best discission I've ever made was to start learning from Jesus .


Jesus teaches his students how to pray.
Mathew 6

5 And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.

8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.

9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

10 Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

11 Give us this day our daily bread.

12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.

14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

16 Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

17 But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face;

18 That thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.
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