This may not work the way you think then. This forum is more for hanging out and chatting with other single people than it is for finding somebody.
Of course there have been a few people pair off over the years. Not many though. That's not why we come here. We come here just to hang out.
But anyway, howdy and welcome to the Forum.
From what I have observed, the best way to find somebody here is to get into different conversations and participate. Make comments in other people's threads. If nothing else results from it, you will have some good conversations.