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Lynx

Lynx

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Teodora said:
Well, it depends on your preferences. For me, it's not good. Because I think the most human empathy can be shown trough interaction with animals. I don't think someone is bad if they don't like animals, just that it is not person for me, because I feel animals, generally, they don't have to be mine.
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I dunno... This whole thing just feels like one of the quizzes My mother was always taking in that cosmo magazine she read. Or in more modern terms, those Facebook quizzes girls are always talking about.

"I know you love me honey, and I swear I love you a lot! But I took this quiz online and it says we only have 37% compatibility..."
 
Teodora

Teodora

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Well, maybe it feels like that to you but not to me.
To me is more like "don't be unequally yoked".

"If you're equally yoked with your partner, it means you have the same morals and spiritual values. You and your partner are probably equally yoked if you worship the same higher power, have similar goals, and know how to communicate effectively."

I don't know about you, but I can't be with someone who doesn't believe in God, man who doesn't have integrity, someone who doesn't have empath, who doesn't want to learn and work on yourself... Etc.
I think that is valid.
 
Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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Shoot, if she doesn't have any empathy and doesn't believe in God we won't even make it to the first date. Don't need no list for that.

I figure we will talk a lot and figure out the rest between us as we go. I've heard that's what dates are for. (Never been on one myself, but that's what I've heard.)
 
Teodora

Teodora

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Lynx said:
Shoot, if she doesn't have any empathy and doesn't believe in God we won't even make it to the first date. Don't need no list for that.

I figure we will talk a lot and figure out the rest between us as we go. I've heard that's what dates are for. (Never been on one myself, but that's what I've heard.)
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That IS list, with 2 things. xD
 
JoeyJoego

JoeyJoego

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Teodora said:
We will all probably agree that we want someone who believes in God, of course. But really, what are your preferences? For example, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't like animals (even I don't need to have them many), but that is really important to me, it says a lot about that person. Etc. I would like to hear some of yours preferences. I have couple of them.
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Teodora. I guess its all about meeting the right person and then making sacrifices. Some times you may have to give a little to get something back.
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