Questions about relationships.

I have been brought up in the word of God with spiritual warfare. I know a thing or two. But, I don't know not one thing about relationships.
First, how am I supposed to hook up with someone? I know Christians roam all over the place, but like, get real. How am I supposed to meet one. Can I go to a church and ask for match maker?
Concerning this on match maker, I want to have at least one kid, because I never got to be a daddy. But I am 46 years old, and by the time I get rid of the fat I have, I will be 50. Do you think it's going be possible for me to have someone in their 30's.
What do I expect, the only behavior patterns I know, are of the world women. This is easy for me, I know I can get what I want from them, I only need ask them. But what about the christians, with the world they are not worried about long time commintments, becuase they can just drop you like a hat, so they are willing do things. But a problem with it, is they cheat and are unreliable. Which, would give me more than I can get right now, because with the church I am getting nothing. It came to my attention that much of the church women came from the world... so, MAYBE I can do that.
So I have an even bigger problem, is the christians I have seen don't have any gifts of the Holy Spirit. Some of them are smoking and playing around.

You can't see who is christian, because the Satanist are wearing crosses, they look just like christians sometimes. They wear decent clothing, have a little golden cross. But when your not looking they pull out a witches charm, I know, my coworker did this. She claimed to be christian so I treated as such, giving her priority. I was just being nice to her, but I failed to save her job. Nooo, I can't meet nowhere but a church.

Does anyone know a church in Fernandina Beach Florida, Or Maybe around Yulee Florida?

The only advice that I can give you is this:

Submit your life totally to God/Christ. If it is God's plan for you to get married, then he will work on you, first and foremost, to shape you into the type of man who will be a godly husband. At the same time, he is more than capable of shaping a woman into the type of wife that he desires her to be before eventually bringing the two of you together by whatever means he chooses.

Adolf Hitler got married once. The next day he shot himself.

This was the man who commandeered the second world war. He ordered the destruction of entire societies. But he couldn't handle being married.

You can look it up. It is a matter of historical record that he got married and the very next day he shot himself.

Maybe marriage isn't for some people...

🤦🤦 and 🤦

You're not alone, Brasspen. Since nowadays most people do the vast majority of their communications with others through devices, personal relationship skills just aren't there, and people are in fewer situations where they might meet someone.

Only one of my four children is married. They met in a college Christian group.

I often suggest that single people cast their net wide when in the market for a mate. That way you're more likely to catch a good one. What will happen more often than not though, is you meet a person, develop a relationship, and since that's all either of you had, you tie the knot. Sometimes those will work out, but often it turns out to be a marriage of convenience since it was possibly your only opportunity.

A person can find a mate in the workplace, at youth Bible studies and prayer meetings, in school. You have to make yourself get out there. What I did when I was over 30 and still single was to join a Country and Western Dance social club. I didn't meet my mate in the Club but it helped me to be just a little bit more outgoing.

Best wishes for you.

This one makes me laugh, really does. Yeah, I think, Hitler had it coming to himself. You know what proverbs say the wicked and evil get for a wife.

Sooooo, I want to talk about something new that was on my mind. No, This whole time I have been making plans to get married to a woman and make her pregant, well, it just so happens I have a 10 - 11 year old boy I can get too. Aaaand, concerning this, I really should be doing that right there.

So, why have I not? It was adultery, I got her pregant. It was my fault. When I have thought about what happened, I was always saying to myself, everyone knows already. Buuut, I just thought about it recently and, I think Emily has been able to hide it all these years.

Well, all I have to do, is walk over to Tracy house, who is Emily Aunt, and let her know.

But I don't do it, because, before, everything was just fine. I believed everyone knew everything. Now, I am thinking, Her Husband never found out. Her Husband does know she cheated on him, with me. Which is how I got her, because he cheated on her. He had been teasing me with her. I conceived the evil thing and did it.

And it's twisting my arm, because it's worse if noone tell him.

This is the greatest post I have ever read in the Singles Forum.

Hi Brasspen, are you SURE this boy is your biological child, and if so how do you know? Was there ever a paternity test?

No there was no test, but when a women conceives. She never denied me.
Right now I am cut off from her, because her Aunt does not live there anymore.
If she is up north with him, then I might not never be able to save him. Because he will have some much garbage put into he's head by now. But yeah, I don't know where she is at. I can't find out either. So Yes, a thing here, is a blood test will still be needed. But, I would have to find her first.

Alright. I'm not telling you what to do, but please consider that information like that could be very upsetting and downright confusing to a child that age. And we don't even know if it's true.

Since the husband already knows about the adultery, I'm guessing he has already considered that the child might not be his.

Again, I'm not telling you what to do but just saying it's not something to take lightly. Prayerful consideration is definitely in order. 🙏

I contacted the girls aunt and told her. But I was ignored. If they don't do anything with this, then it's not my fault. It's their fault.