I understand a little bit. I've dated enough and I've gotten my heart broke enough that it makes me REALLY cautious...
But I still desire marriage and a family of my own! So I haven't given up I guess...but I want it to be totally God's leading.
I think it's so important to come to the place where you're satisfied in the Lord as a single before seeking a relationship. So definitely make Jesus your focus right now. I mean, He should always be of course, but Paul makes it clear it's easier to keep our focus on Him if we're single,