Anxiety disorder and faith

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Sonworshipper

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Hi. I was hoping there would be a room here devoted to this because I have only found secular boards where faith was verboten as a topic or sideboard and I firmly believe there won't be a solution to this without Him. So I will just ask here... are there other Christians dealing with anxiety disorders? Can you tell me about your experience? Can you tell me your strategies for coping with whatever physical symptoms impacted you? Can you tell me how you helped and were helped by your spouse, kids, family, friends? Can you give me hope? I gave only been impacted for about 6 weeks... but it is the toughest thing I have ever known. I would love to hear from my brothers and sisters ... and to join with you un prayer. This cross is heavy... and some moments I lose sight of the Lord, like Peter in the sea.

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You need to silence your heart, find a place most comfortable for you, I even get in the closet for hours when it peaks. My family knows about this so they disturb me to the minimum. Talking about God is the only thing so far that can somewhat calm me. listen to ambient sounds, calm your heart and pray. This will not work all the time but even if it helps for a few seconds, it is a few seconds you could control it.

I also found very helpful reading the life of saints. I am currently reading St Francis of Assisi, remarkable man. He was very depressed after he returned from being capture at the war. His life shone so bright it illuminated the catholic church even today.

You just have to keep trying I have been like this for over 6 years, and I think I am finally getting a few seconds of peace, something I have been unable to do.

Give your burden to the Lord and let Him guide you. It is trough suffering that we get closer to God. This may be your cross, pick it up and follow Him.
 
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DavEtheBravE

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You know fasting in prayer and soaking really helps clear your spirit of corrosion. stay God centered for a while and get refreshed.

Stay Blessed
 
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99caravan

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Re: Anxiety

Well, have you analyzed your anxiety and its root causes? Is there any reason for the anxiety or is it just general anxiety coming over you? Is it situational or stress induced or due to any changes in your life? If there truly isn't then I suggest you whenever it comes over you, perhaps pick up the word of God, press into Him and let him heal your innermost parts of your soul. Pray for a gentle and quiet spirit. Ask Jesus to help you.

Remember the anxiety may be medical or physical, you might not want to rule that out as an option, however it is common knowledge that anxious spirits and restlessness are often attacks from the demonic realms. You haven't ventured into the deceptive demonic realm, I presume :) For those people, their spirits will never have any rest, and will always be anxious about everything, as the word of God says.

Remember, as a child of God, He will never leave you nor forsake you, never send anything your way which is beyond your capacity to handle, will refine you as silver is refined in the fire, and at the end of the day, your heavenly father is the author and perfector of the entire universe... so seriously with the Lord as your shepherd, then in whom shall you fear.

Take care and may God bless you and keep you. :)
 
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Ugly

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I went through some bad anxiety for a while. I never saw a professional, and never took prescription medication. I really only had one friend that tried to help a lot, but they had a lot on their plate and couldn't do a lot. I had another friend who helped some, but again, not much. I was on my 4th year living in my car with no family around, and those were my only 2 friends, things kept getting worse. I would be sitting in my car at night having panic attacks. The only thing i had that helped me at all were some natural supplements i took. If you have a vitamin or health food store around see if they carry Gaba. Get it in capsule form. This way you can open it up, and put it in a bottle of water, it's more effective that way. Also buy some B6, it helps enhance the effects. The price of the Gaba is about $20 or less for 90 pills, and the B6 you can get at Walmart for $2-3, and then you can break them in half since the lowest dose is still more than you need.
I am doing better with my anxiety now (i moved out of state and into my dads house so i had a place to live), but i can still get some anxiety once in a while. When i get it, i have to stop and recognize that it's anxiety and nothing else. You really have to fight the feeling something is wrong, but keep reassuring yourself its anxiety. I also take Gaba, i keep a bottle at the house in case i get some anxiety.

A friend of mine had severe anxiety too. She would pace 3-4 hours per attack, trying to walk off the adrenaline. Her first attack took place in her car. She suffered for a few months, until, ironically, her car gave up the ghost. She went months without being able to drive, while she was away from a car her anxiety got better. She also went without prescription meds. She had a little counseling, but didn't have it the whole time.
Seems a big part of escaping anxiety is to figure out what causes it and, if possible, try to separate from it.

One thing i know, is the people around you can sometimes become frustrated, as they often don't understand what you're going through. Make sure to be open and share how you are feeling during the attacks ( don't man during the attacks, but when you're not having an attack, explain what the attacks are like), and either do some research yourself, or ask them to research Anxiety, so that way they have a better understanding, and may help them be more patient and supportive.
Some counseling could also be useful. I'd avoid prescription drugs unless it gets too bad.
 
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kenisyes

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If it's only been 6 weeks, it could just be God trying to get your attention, and get you ready for a breakthrough and a new beginning with Him. I have had it happen. What did Eli tell Samuel? Instead of wondering what's going on, just say "Speak, Lord, your servant is listening."
 
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Sonworshipper

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I cannot hide away... certainly not tor hours. I am a SAHM with 4 young children. I have lost 20# in the past 6 weeks because of anxiety relayed symptoms... I am afraid fasting is not an option either. As far as triggers, it is generalized anxiety with spikes... sadly my husband and children trigger spikes. :'( Anything new ... or unexpected. I have been fighting a lot of negative emotions for years... wasn't trusting God to do right by me and those I live... so I was shouldering the load and now it is all coming due. I am falling into His arms and learning His promises and struggling on his with Him... but there are moments that feel completely bereft of hope. I don't want to be disabled... I don't want that for my family. I know God has a plan for this nightmare... that there is blessing to be had. I just need encouragement and practical suggestions/scripture to keep me going. :) because sometimes, I admit, I have asked Him to scoop me up and bring me home. Sometimes there is despair. I have ruled out most physical causes... though a brain tumid or major chemical imbalance are, I suppose, a possibility. I can't think of any way that accidentally fell into demonic company, and I can guarantee that even before being scared of the deli guy at wal-mart, I would never have chosen to get into that company. I am not certain what "too bad" means with regard to taking predcrition meds. I am barely white knuckling through the really bad times... crying, vomiting, shaking... probably loading my dear husband with stress. :'( iam taking st. John's wort... but pro ably ha e another week or two before I get full results... and i am jn biblic counseling. I would prefer not to medicate... ut just don't know when it is time to go that route. I worry for my husband... LOL! Yes, God has certainly gotten my attention. I pray you are right and that is what I was meant to learn because it us bring learner quickly and deeply! My prayer is "search me and guide me and hold me up." Thanks all who have offered thoughts so far. It helps... it does. Bless you for taking ge time to share... I am one if the sick... and you have been moved to "visit me".
 
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Hi Sonwhorshipper, I am 59 years old and I know just what you are going thru. and still going thru it but it is alot less. GOD has really gotten me thru alot with this illness. I have to say that mornings are the worse for me because the devil knows when im off guard,and he can can try to make me believe his lies more. and sometimes he does win, but then I pray and put the armour of GOD on and we start to battle back. and then guess what?
GOD always win. amen amen. and yes the thoughts and feelings can be overwhelming,but always remember GOD has total control and give this yoke to him everyday,and start to feel the healing that he has for you, kittle by little. never give up, there is nothing better then OUR FATHER to run to.


PRAYERS TO YOU,
WITH GOD YOU WILL OVERCOME
 
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Sonworshipper

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I have heard many people say they just don't let it take over their lives... and I am mot sure if they mean they get throught the flares without missing a beat... I shake so badly all day when it is bad. The mornings are usually the worst for me too... which makes it hard on my kids and husband. They used to rely on me to do... so much... and now I am at 80% at my best and 25% at my worst. The Word is certainly the key to the fight. Did or do you medicate at all, mm? It is lovely to know I am nit the only one to deal with it... but I would love to know more of your experience. People talk about panic attacks and mine seem to be more like panic days. I was doing better... but I guess Pms caused everything to get bad again? So discouraging.
 
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Unforgettable_Marmot

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I can relate sometimes, sometimes I struggle with it, other times I use my computer to overcome it with chat sites like these.
 
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Yes I did take medicine for years I took xanax for 9 years and got off them myself. I dont think they really helped, Im still on zoloft some times I dont think that works well either anymore. I talk to GOD and pray and come here alot to get thru rough times. I would shake so much , never slept, lost weight but back then they really didnt understand what it was. so I was really on my own. I beleived in GOD but really didnt have a relationship with him like I do now. I wish I could hug you and let you know that it will be ok. My sister says i have always been a delicated person. I take every thing personal and to heart and dwell to much on things.

I dont know what Im saying will help but I thought I would just vent alittle.

Peace with JESUS
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I did an anxiety test at the doctors, which rated you on a 1-20 scale. Was 19/20, now 17/20. Much of my anxiety to start with came from poor theology, but also thoughts that would come into my mind, which I didn't share for a long time. The best way of dealing with fear is to talk to someone rooted in both the scriptures (i.e. the truth of God) and common sense.Bring your fears into the open, because the enemy has no power in the light.

Remember how Jesus dealt with satan in the wilderness? He replaced a twisted truth, with THE truth. It is the same with fear, but it takes patience and skill, because fear makes us irrational. Keep bringing that person back to Christ, replacing their fear with truth. I remember running to EVERYONE, even at 6 in the morning, phoning them and telling them I was damned etc. We must be patient with those who have fear, and bring them back to the reality of who God is.
 
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StephenH

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I have plenty of anxiety. It's difficult to even do small talk with people I don't know well in real life. It really makes it difficult to even have any sorts of friends/relationships.

Once I get to know someone, it gets a bit better. It's not nearly as bad online though.

I'll be praying for you and I hope you're able to find a few like-minded individuals on Christian Chat. :)
 
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Sonworshipper

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Yes I did take medicine for years I took xanax for 9 years and got off them myself. I dont think they really helped, Im still on zoloft some times I dont think that works well either anymore. I talk to GOD and pray and come here alot to get thru rough times. I would shake so much , never slept, lost weight but back then they really didnt understand what it was. so I was really on my own. I beleived in GOD but really didnt have a relationship with him like I do now. I wish I could hug you and let you know that it will be ok. My sister says i have always been a delicated person. I take every thing personal and to heart and dwell to much on things.

I dont know what Im saying will help but I thought I would just vent alittle.

Peace with JESUS
Trish
Yes... it helps a lot. I went to a crisis counselor today because I was so scared of what and why and how this started and is it ever going to end... I can't live like this. The counselor did nit really give me a solution... but for a tiny while I felt like I was nit a crying, shaking, vomiting disaster. That came back though... :( I am generally a very capable person... all this is just so unknown. Any encouragement that tells me I fan continue is welcome... needed even.
 
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kenisyes

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I have heard many people say they just don't let it take over their lives... and I am mot sure if they mean they get throught the flares without missing a beat... I shake so badly all day when it is bad. The mornings are usually the worst for me too... which makes it hard on my kids and husband. They used to rely on me to do... so much... and now I am at 80% at my best and 25% at my worst. The Word is certainly the key to the fight. Did or do you medicate at all, mm? It is lovely to know I am nit the only one to deal with it... but I would love to know more of your experience. People talk about panic attacks and mine seem to be more like panic days. I was doing better... but I guess Pms caused everything to get bad again? So discouraging.
I think my wife was just about your age, maybe a few years older, when she dropped a half a pound or so of fresh hamburger on the floor, and broke out in uncontrollable crying. I think PM's may be the solution. Do you know you only have three misspelled words in the post I am quoting? That's a sign of not being anxious when you type. I can't get through five words without having to go back ordinarily. I still think six weeks is not a problem; stop worrying about it, and that will help.
 
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Ugly

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Realize that one of the symptoms of anxiety is despair, and fear. These are not your thoughts, these thoughts are the anxiety. So when you feel afraid you may never get over it, remind yourself that that is the anxiety attacking your thoughts and try to control that thought and push it aside, along with any other fearful thoughts. This is how i handle my anxiety now, when it creeps up. When i get attacks i start having chest pains, of which i am very paranoid about, so i keep thinking i'm having a heart attack. But i have to slow my thoughts down, remind myself that its just the anxiety making my chest hurt, and making me feel so paranoid. So i battle these thoughts of heart attacks, and don't let my mind run. This is one of the major ways i battle anxiety. Being aware of where 'i' end and the anxiety begins.