Narcissistic neighbour

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Demi777

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Oct 13, 2014
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#21
Ephesians 5:17 - do not be foolish but understand what the Lord's will is
which is my favorite verse on my profile

Amen Demi777
Yes and mine talks about how people poor in spirit inherit thethe kingdom of God.
He seta people in place and gives chances. I nevee said, not to trust God or pray but if we dont take action on earth, none from heaven will just fly by unless its a miraclelot. But then noone is read for it and noone will think it would happen
 
M

Miri

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#23
Being emotionally and verbally abused from a neighbour and her friends, like I'm a target. Maybe my faith is being tested. But the abuse is constant daily, in and around town, as well as at home, and would really appreciate your prayers for strength and his guidance and providence in this situation. Many blessings to you in the name of Jesus.
Hi I see you live in the UK.

Councils have anti social behaviour teams and have a duty if care to deal with
such issues.

Give your Council a call and start to keep a daily diary for evidence. If you can
record/video any of this on a mobile phone it will add to the evidence.

It does take a while to resolve as the Council need evidence rather than one
person’s word against another. The police probably only get involved if
a crime was commited like vandalism, or if it met certain criteria, for example
if it was racially aggravated.

I think they start with warnings to the person concerned.

If you live in a Council house and it gets too bad to stay in your home, the
Council can help to rehome you and give you priority.

If it’s a private landlord they may still be able to help you.

EVen if you live in your own house, they can still help. Take a look
at the nightmare neighbour next door TV programmes.

If your council does not help, you can report them to the
ombudsman. See this link.

Basically you don’t have to suffer, there is plenty of help available.


https://www.lgo.org.uk/make-a-compl.../neighbour-nuisance-and-anti-social-behaviour
 

Demi777

Senior Member
Oct 13, 2014
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#24
Hi I see you live in the UK.

Councils have anti social behaviour teams and have a duty if care to deal with
such issues.

Give your Council a call and start to keep a daily diary for evidence. If you can
record/video any of this on a mobile phone it will add to the evidence.

It does take a while to resolve as the Council need evidence rather than one
person’s word against another. The police probably only get involved if
a crime was commited like vandalism, or if it met certain criteria, for example
if it was racially aggravated.

I think they start with warnings to the person concerned.

If you live in a Council house and it gets too bad to stay in your home, the
Council can help to rehome you and give you priority.

If it’s a private landlord they may still be able to help you.

EVen if you live in your own house, they can still help. Take a look
at the nightmare neighbour next door TV programmes.

If your council does not help, you can report them to the
ombudsman. See this link.

Basically you don’t have to suffer, there is plenty of help available.


https://www.lgo.org.uk/make-a-compl.../neighbour-nuisance-and-anti-social-behaviour
U know... i have a speciak way handling abusive neighbor's especially as minr decided to attack my faith letting their kids scream blasphemous stuff...
I went over and asked if the mother would please make sure that the children are a bit more quiet...
She got nasty and slammed the door in my face and then it got worse
So I took a music player, put it in my window and played cotton eye joe for around 2.5 or 3 hrs (legal limit 10pm) and in the last hour i took another box , put it in another wondow and let it play paralelly making it awful.

First they decided to tune up music againsg me...failed
More screams...failed...
After theae hours...complete silence until today
 

EmilyFoster

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Jul 10, 2018
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#25
I’m sorry you’re facing such difficulties with your neighbor. I’m standing with you in prayer, asking God to surround you with His love, care and strength. May He intervene in your situation, provide for all your needs and help you as you trust in Him.