Aww, don't let that bad relationship scare you off from having kids. My adult kids aren't like that at all. And my friends' adult kids are loving and respectful toward their parents.
Depends on the state. Here in Oregon, houses in the suburbs are around 350-500k. In Mississippi, you can buy a solid home on acreage for 50-150k.
The dream isn't impossible...yet
Married my husband 20 years ago.
We met online and since both of us were seriously looking for a spouse, we agreed no question was off limits. Virginity was a topic we brought up pretty early (we both were).
I think if a couple is serious about finding a husband or wife and not playing games...