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thank you mr obvious.

I remembered wrong, that isn't legalism, get over yourself.

I'm betting the husband has done more than just look. I don't mean meet other women but he meets the ones on the porn site in his mind and most likely plays out a fantasy with ending included. And you are pushing she should obey that.

you might have to leave him.

...woman commits adultery. Take your legalism and never respond to me again. Jesus said divorce is not adultery when one has committed sexual immorality. The husband watched porn, no doubt thought of sexual intimacy and most likely acted out fantasies in his thoughts. That is 100% SEXUAL...

Half of those who identify as Christian can't be wrong, or can they? Christianity today is much like it was before and during Jesus'time on the earth. Divorce is ridiculously common. Jesus rebuked the religious leaders for it and He would do the same today. I have no reason to doubt that you...

...would try to equate one with the other. Cheating, even for a season, has its own level of effects on one's spirit and a marriage. And certainly porn and masturbating to it has its own level of effect on the spirit and one's marriage. However, they are different. I think you are saying the...

That is a good list. It is good to know what you want and why you want it or don't want it. biggest mistake someone can make is getting in to a relationship with the wrong person.

I am happy to read this, Blain. At the same time, however, I can just about guarantee you that anybody who has had a porn addiction at any point in their life has a problem with sexual desires or lust. Again, if we yield our members (eyes, hands, reproductive organs, etc.) to the wrong types of...

It is possible he's embarrassed and ashamed of his addiction, which is what 30 years of porn is. So he lashes out when the subject is brought up. It's also possible he just doesn't care. Porn addiction is most similar to heroin addiction, according to studies. This also means that the strength...

I will speak on the subject as whole from a man's perspective. Yes, I know today many women can be addicted to porn as well, but I think it's still far and away a man's problem. The act of it. Of course our sin never affects only us. And kid yourself not, it IS sin. Women have differing sin...

I'm a man and I disagree with much of what he said. So let's put a hold on blanket statements on one group. Besides more women watch porn now than you'd expect.

Yes keeping my mind clean is not an issue luckily I also have the benefit of not having sexual desires so I don't have to worry about porn addiction and my heart is always set on him so rarely does my mind fall into sin

...because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. When it comes to porn, I know a lot of people who were set free from that bondage when they confessed the sins which gave place to spirits who then sought to fulfill...

You must be a man, and looking at it from a man’s perspective. But this subject is much more hurtful and brutal for a woman. Especially one that fount out he had been doing this for 30 years. The human spirit can easily crumble if this spouse that has this problem does not support the brutal...

a lifetime continuation of the sin of committing sexual sins with porn is very hard to handle. Both of these situations are horrible. But a life time habitual habit is something that really gets down not the spirit of the innocent spouse and continually hurts. The trust is broken. And it’s...

Christians have demonic attacks. Agree that the Holy Spirit dwells in a Christian. Can a Christian succumb to a demonic attack? If so, does a demon dwell in him then? Until the demon is cast out? For example, think of an alcoholic or a porn addict.

...side, ironically it hurt that the wife didn't have a problem with it. His reaction is most likely and instinctive defense in nature, if after sometime I would hope he at the very least admits that whatever the underlying problem(if any) that watching porn isn't the way to handle it and it is...

...like you aren’t good enough, and unloved. And it is very very hurtful. I ive been married for 38 years and my husband fought the temptations of porn sense the beginning. .It crippled our marriage for me As well. I would wake up during the night and he would be in the living room watching tv...

Btw, if watching porn (which is what I am guessing you mean by "adult websites") has been an issue with you in the past, then you should confess that as sin before God (if you have not already), also ask God to purge your conscience from that dead work in the blood of Christ. Heb 9:14 How much...