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She has never met him so they have not had sex yet

So things have gotten a little bit better...I have been working on the way I talk to her. She is at least being nice to me and we have been hanging out. I know she is still talking to him and "loves" him all over calls and texts. So it is just hard, but I'm keeping strong. I am having a hard...

Yes, all those things are true.. She has only been Christian for about 6 years now and before it was dependent on what family she was with. But when she first became Christian she was truly on fire for God and I know it's still in her She made some more crazy choices Friday but I've really...

Thanks for the encouraging reply. Yesterday I wrote rules for engagement with talking with my wife so I focus on saying things I won't regret... That part is tough... She still hasn't signed up for the councilor yet, my pastor suggested I call and go myself which I will do today... I am excited...

We have been married two years.. Tbh she has gotten better, when we were dating she would have episodes (not cheating) but times where she said crazy things that were not her... Then after being married about once every 3 months she would have 1 day where she was like that but less often... Her...

Thanks, I'm going to fight to stay married until I can't fight no more

Wierd you would question my faith but I pray and talk to God often and very involved in church. I met my wife at church and at that time she was helping give bible studies. She hasn't been as spiritual recently but I have not changed. I am meeting with my pastor tonight and we have been...

I know her and this guy would never work out.. But I don't want her to divorce me, then realize what she has lost.. Just been keeping to books and prayer... She plans on living with me for a while after the baby.. She won't be able to afford her own place... This guy claims he is moving here...

Thanks for the advice... She refuses to go with me with our pastor... I finally got her a councilor at our baby appointment and somehow she agreed to go when the doctor suggested it.. I pray that the councilor is Christian... Will check into boundaries, but she isn't following the ones we agreed...

I would do the whole me or him.. But tbh she has no where to go. Also I'm just trying to get her not to file for a divorce now. But how long did you wait with your wife talking to another man? How did you keep being a good husband without going crazy.. It's been hard.. The other day I got up...

Yes that is exactly what he is, she is just very stubborn. It's also killing me watching this go on for 3 weeks now

Last night I told her it's best for the baby for her to let him go... I need to stay calm so I don't start going crazy.. Like trying to call this boys mom... I think I will try and wait for counseling and not mention the boy to her and focus on her and being kind and polite

I personally think the guy is not the problem. Her sister had a bad life from her past and has been calling my wife and bringing up things. I think she needs to resolve her past. She refused to do counseling but when we went to the doctor I told her about her and now she said she would go... I...

Yes the devil is trying hard... Seems like everything keeps getting worse :( I feel like I'm in a bad dream. I'm holding on to my faith and values. She is almost dropping her faith which is saddening :( I think she is just too embarrassed 😳 to want to talk with God or anyone about this.

I am trying to focus on my wife and the upcoming child. My question is how often should I mention to my wife that what she is doing is wrong? Once a week? Everyday? And how invasive should I be to stop what's going on?

Hello, My wife 24F and I 25M have been trying to have a baby.. She was so excited for us to start a family and telling church friends about it...I love her and was wanting a baby as well... Right after she got pregnant she met this guy online on a game...I felt like we were both happy and just...