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  1. OllieYakob

    Looking for a friend to talk to.

    I completely understand. I would suggest attending a man’s group for support and a great Christian counselor to talk through all the issues you’ve experienced in your marriage. But do not date or talk to anyone until your divorce has been finalized. That’s not recommended. Stay blessed and...
  2. OllieYakob

    Looking for a friend to talk to.

    Hi brother, If you’re a Christian and separated, you’re still married in the eyes of the Lord and should be pursuing your wife. God hates divorce, but permits it if there’s infidelity or abandonment. If neither is the case for you, fight for your marriage. Stay blessed!
  3. OllieYakob

    31 and still single/ unmarried

    Beautifully said! I needed to hear this today.
  4. OllieYakob

    31 and still single/ unmarried

    You’re not alone! I feel the same way, but I’m reminded of God’s overwhelming love for me. Stay blessed and encouraged!
  5. OllieYakob

    Hi from CT.

    I assume you’re a Christian. If yes, weight gain is not a reason to end a mariage. How about encouraging your wife to go out and work out with you? Or learning healthy recipes and making them for her? You can work on your encouragement skills brother. While you are at it, please look to Jesus...
  6. OllieYakob

    Block pornography

    I’m sorry to hear this! Please consider sending your son to Every Man’s Battle, a sexual integrity workshop by New Life Ministries.
  7. OllieYakob

    Can a Christian be Emotionally Unavailable?

    Hello brothers and sisters, A close friend of mine has been dating a guy who is emotionally unavailable for about a year. This man is aware that he is emotionally unavailable, but wants her to be patient with him. However, he is not doing anything to change better himself. He says he has given...
  8. OllieYakob

    One last blow

    Hello brother, It’s been a few months since you posted, but I hope God has given you peace in regards to this question. My only answer is to make Jesus your best friend. He alone is able to give you wisdom, patience, and joy while navigating this difficult situation. I’m praying for you. Be...