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  1. RodColeman

    Why seek a relationship?

    I know this discussion is old, but I was wondering what all the threads here have to say about singleness, and this is good question. This desire is totally normal. There's nothing wring with desiring a spouse. God designed marriage at the beginning. Marriage happened in the Garden of Eden...
  2. RodColeman

    Singleness

    When Paul talks about the "gift of singleness," he seems to be referring to the calling of lifelong celibacy. Not a temporary state of unwanted singleness. The Bible doesn't really say anything temporary singleness. It talks about marriage, and it talks about lifelong celibacy. Also, when Paul...
  3. RodColeman

    Single men & churches

    Maybe I will. Definitely a better idea than complaining about it. :LOL:
  4. RodColeman

    Single men & churches

    Yeah, for sure. I just aged out of my young adults group this past January (the official range is 18-30) and I do miss it, for sure. I do have a have a home group that I attend as well through the same church, but it's mostly older married folks. And the subject of singleness/marriage almost...
  5. RodColeman

    Single men & churches

    It’s definitely easy to feel invisible at church as a single. Especially if you're a single person who would rather be married. There’s just so many ways that you can be “reminded.” Personally, I don’t like critiquing “The Church" with big sweeping blanket statements (after all, I only attend...
  6. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Oh. They could be. Interesting choice of words.
  7. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    So there's no one-size-fits-all-recipe. And yet dating apps are the one method that we absolutely shouldn't use. Alright, then. :LOL: What does it matter? You can't "date" someone over an app. And app is just a tool to find a person who seems interesting. Then, if you start up a conversation...
  8. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    And how do you propose one meet a "wife" in the modern age, exactly?
  9. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    If you personally find having a romantic partner "embarrassing" (whatever that means)......then guess what? You can choose to stay single. Fine with us. No one here has tried to pressure you or convince you to date or marry, as far as I know. And if it bothers you so much to see other Christians...
  10. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    I will, I actually enjoy discussing the topic and, as a single adult who would much rather be married, I have developed a lot of empathy for people in the same boat. I actually hope to write a book on Christian singleness at some point. I continue to read a lot of books on that topic and, well...
  11. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    I never imagined that an Internet chat discussion about Christian dating/singleness would have the capacity to suddenly make me hungry. 😂
  12. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Oh, wow. Did it include a forest of sharp wooden stakes?
  13. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Hahaha! Yeah, I've never been to Neuschwanstein, but the one I was at looked very similar. Even had a dungeon and a literal torture chamber.
  14. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    For my part, I don't know where you got your mind-reading abilities. :ROFL:
  15. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    A castle? That sounds cool! I was visiting a castle in Germany one time and part of it was taken over by a film crew that was shooting a horror movie. 😂
  16. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Yes, that's true. You've explained your strong opinion to me a a million times. :ROFL:
  17. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    This is the part where I would explain that some people have the general desire to be married in the future, but this simple fact seems to be beyond your comprehension.
  18. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Like I said. Believe whatever you want. 🤣
  19. RodColeman

    Should Christians Use Dating Apps?

    Then choose singleness for yourself, Lovette. Fine with us.